For the first time, I tasted the bitterness of cyber violence, all kinds of voices and all kinds of insults.
All the friends around me know that I am right and what kind of person she is. But online, others only look at her looks and the number of fans. I didn't choose to expose her, just clarify things.
When I typed those words, I was shaking all over. I am angry and sad.
During that time, I was very painful, and I will always remember it in my heart. Especially before going to bed, I will always remember that it will take a long time to fall asleep.
People like me deserve it. I really wanted to die during that time, because I felt so stupid.
I don't understand why people on the Internet are so malicious. I shared my photos just after I cut my hair. Language attacks, personal attacks and insults strangled me. It seems that the world can't hold me.
I'm in a bad state of mind now, and I can't stand the stimulation myself. The words in their mouths turned into handfuls of knives, which were inserted into me accurately.
Maybe it's all my fault. After that, I never dared to take selfies, let alone show them online.
From their words, we can feel that being attacked by the internet is really not an easy thing and can be ignored.
Therefore, we can't just hold the idea that people who are attacked by cyber violence are psychologically fragile.
In fact, the lethality brought by cyber violence may be much greater than you think, and it needs to be treated as a psychological crisis.
When we understand it this way, if one day we meet unfortunately, we can accept the injured ourselves without thinking, "What did I do wrong? Why should I treat you like this? "
When so many people question and despise in one tone, even the most powerful people will have "am I really bad?" I must have done something wrong. The feeling of ".
In fact, everything is caused by many factors, not just who is right or wrong. We need to jump out of the model of cyberbullies and see what their mentality and characteristics are.
In this era, some netizens are deeply proud that they can send all kinds of thunder and 666 comments. It seems that they use a special language and culture to show their uniqueness and comment on others, thus feeling their "presence".
They don't know the harm that some words bring to the recipients.
When speech becomes self-centered and grandstanding, people's speech becomes more and more unscrupulous and careless, full of human evil.
Such a bad influence is that teenagers who haven't shaped the correct values will regard it as fashion, follow the trend, and finally become more and more biased.
This may be the disadvantages brought by the network, but also some unhealthy "trends" in this era.
The malicious language power of the network attacks not the human body, but the psychology.
When a negative emotion, such as anger, accusation, irony, ridicule, abuse, etc. All flock to one person, and you can imagine this scene:
A strong man, in the middle of the crowd, was kicked by passers-by at random. In less than a day, this man will be scarred. If this person has some internal injuries, it is even more serious and it is difficult to recover.
Therefore, even a healthy person will collapse if he is maliciously speculated, commented and attacked by hundreds of people on the Internet.
Psychological injury, especially attacks with malicious negative emotions, will gradually collapse people's psychological system. No matter whether a person is psychologically healthy or not, whether he has strong endurance or not, people with strong psychology will only persist for a little longer at most.
In the face of cyber violence, we should have a way to repair it.