1. Why do you like staying at home?
First, the materialization of society and emotional indifference lead to the interaction between people must be based on interests. People can't communicate honestly and safely. And the "house" is a good way to avoid this conflict, so that people can keep their hearts pure and pure and not be polluted!
Second, every day in the crowd, due to various reasons, I suffer from various pressures and setbacks, so that my inner energy is exhausted and I have no time to deal with external contradictions in my spare time. And "home" can make people recover their inner energy and motivation in a safe and comfortable space. Therefore, the "house" can benefit them, expand their psychological energy and face the real society more effectively.
2. How to "house" healthily?
First, I want to know why you became an "otaku" and a "otaku".
Why did you become an otaku and a otaku? Is it because of congenital autism or acquired environment? For example, afraid of fierce competition in society, such as becoming a neet, such as indulging in the internet?
If autism is in our nature, it is often because of inferiority, but inferiority sometimes produces more power than self-confidence, and people with inferiority are more likely to introspect. And confident people are more prone to arrogance. What matters is not your own shortcomings and shortcomings, but that you have not accepted them. Because you and your body, and your own shortcomings are "enemies", you have anxiety and tension, and you have fierce inner conflicts. This is a harmful force. Therefore, it is important to accept yourself, whether it is advantages or disadvantages. No one is perfect. When you can live in harmony with everything in yourself, you will get out of autism and face others frankly.
Second, think carefully about what your life goal is.
"House" is just a way of life or a state of existence. For anyone, this is not the ultimate goal of life. We can stay at home for a while to adjust our mood, and then go out and see the outside world. Everyone has a power of self-growth in his heart, and he has all kinds of expectations and longings for the sky outside. If he finds his purpose in life, he won't be content to stay at home. We can arrange the time of "staying at home" and "leaving home" reasonably, so that "staying at home" can become a benign adjustment in life.
Third, maintain interaction with society.
When choosing a "home" life, we should pay attention to arranging certain time to get in touch with the outside world, meet friends and go out to buy things. Don't always sit in front of the computer and rely on the internet. In any case, we should continue to interact with society. You can also do more exercise, travel abroad when you have time, and cultivate some hobbies. You can take part in some small club activities, such as dancing, chess and cards, painting and so on. Studying with three or five like-minded people can not only nourish your feelings, but also meet the psychological needs of "staying at home" without cutting off contact with others.
Fourth, keep good living habits.
"Home" means being at home, managing everything by yourself, as well as time, pace of life, itinerary and so on. You need to control yourself. If you are lazy at home, you can sleep whenever you want and get up whenever you want. After a long time, your biological clock will be out of order. Therefore, even if you stay at home, you should manage your life schedule as scientifically as possible, maintain good living habits, arrange certain outdoor activities every day, and get in touch with the fresh air outside.
3. How to kill time at home
1, clean
Usually busy with work, there is no time to clean the room. I might as well take care of it at this time. Corners fall in the kitchen, especially in the kitchen and bathroom.
Step 2 wash winter clothes
After the National Day, the weather will turn cold. You might as well take out your winter clothes and wash them well, so you can wear them immediately when the weather cools down.
Step 3 do manual work
I have nothing to do at home, so I might as well practice my manual skills. For example, is it fun to learn some handicrafts such as paper cutting?
Step 4 watch movies
There are movies that we don't usually watch or missed, so let's watch them on the computer for free. Wow, a lot.
5. Chasing TV
Although there are many TVs in Lei Ju now, there are some good ones. You might as well choose one or two you like to watch and watch it from beginning to end.
Step 6 cook delicious food
At home, don't go out, buy enough ingredients, and cook the food you want at home crazily. Of course, you can innovate, and inadvertently, you make human food.
7. Gangster Games
Oh, how can you stay at home without games? Well, you can also play games, some hard IQ games, or large-scale online games, depending on how big your brain is.