Diary of home visit of primary school math teachers 1 Home visit is a key, which enters students' families and hearts, opens the Qian Qian knot between teachers and parents, and builds a "bridge of hope" for school communication; Home visit is a can of honey juice, staring at parents' smiling faces and holding hands. Although tired, my heart is sweet.
We visited some students' families, learned about their living conditions and realized the hardships and difficulties of their parents.
Zhang Yishuai is an ordinary child, so ordinary that even his mother doesn't have enough confidence. The first thing his mother said when she saw us was, "Did Zhang Yishuai make a mistake at school?" I immediately explained, "Don't get me wrong, we didn't go home because your child had an accident, but we wanted to know the family environment and living environment of the students." Hearing this, his mother smiled. Then, we talked about the child's performance in school: this is a child with poor foundation, playful, always emotional in class, but refreshed after class. Although it has improved recently, I don't do any homework that is a little difficult. I hope parents can urge their children to finish their homework and cultivate their good study habits.
Parents expressed their willingness to cooperate with the teacher, but they also said their own difficulties: the father of the child is a bus driver, and the nature of his work determines that he has no time to take care of the child. Once the child's test scores are not good, the means used is to beat or scold; The mother's education level is not high, but she wants to coach her children, but she is unable to do so. Zhang Yishuai's study habits are not very good. When he comes home every day, the first thing he does is not to finish his homework that day, but to play with the children. He didn't go home for dinner until dark and finished his homework hastily. Therefore, his homework is always discounted. Parents expect teachers to be strict with their children.
Looking at my parents' eyes full of apologies and expectations, I understand the difficulty of work. However, we still feel very gratified. After all, our home visit is rewarding, and we have gained the communication between teachers and parents and the understanding of family members.
After that, we came to the home of Sui Jiayuan. Unlike Zhang Yishuai, this is a very good little girl. Not only did she get excellent grades, but she often made her mark in various school activities. She is the vice monitor of the class, a correspondent, and a little actress in the Huangmei Opera Club of the school. The original intention of our visit to her home was to ask her parents what good family education experience they had and share it with other parents. However, it brought us surprises.
Jia Yuanjia only has grandparents and a sister. According to her grandmother, mom and dad are working in other places with another child, and they only get together with their little sister during the winter and summer vacations. Grandparents run a small stationery store for their two granddaughters to read. Because she has lived with her grandparents since childhood, she is the apple of their eye and is very considerate to them. Grandparents have some minor ailments and pains, and my sister is still young. It is inevitable to share some housework with Jiayuan at home. In life, Jiayuan and I are diligent and thrifty together, never wasting or spending a penny indiscriminately. Grandpa said that neither he nor grandma had any culture, and they all relied on their own consciousness. Get up with Jiayuan every morning, dress and wash yourself, and then help my sister take care of it. After a simple breakfast, I took my sister to school. When I come back from school, I will read my writing homework by myself. If I really have a problem, I will ask my elder sister next door. After finishing my homework, I must help my sister check her homework.
I told Sui Jiayuan's grandparents that at school, Sui Jiayuan was a helpful student. She often helps her classmates clean up, do their homework and help the teacher clean up the lecture table. Teachers mentioned Sui Jiayuan, in addition to praise: studious, strong organizational skills, helpful and disciplined ... She not only studied well, but also was a good helper for teachers. Grandparents were so happy that they kept their mouths shut and said that school education was good.
I can't help but sigh that some children who are also in the third grade are still living under the care of their parents and have to be coaxed to eat and do their homework, but this excellent child is already a "little adult". She is a left-behind child who really lives around us, but with her eagerness to learn and work, the teacher can't feel her difference from others at home.
In fact, every student's schedule and study time at school are the same, and their IQ is similar. Their academic performance depends not only on whether they study hard in class, but also on their family environment and personal study habits. Therefore, it is undoubtedly necessary to go into each student's family, understand the educational environment provided by their family, and then take corresponding educational measures.
The ancients said, "A teacher is a teacher, so he preaches and teaches." The philosopher said, "Teachers are the most glorious profession in the world." The poet said, "Teachers are selfless candles and hardworking gardeners." From these words, I understand the responsibility as a teacher and find the psychological coordinates as a teacher. But to answer how to be a teacher, I think it should be given a deeper connotation, that is, teachers should have a broad mind and deep love, have enthusiastic expectations and meticulous care for students, and have deep affection and heart to listen to the sound of flowers. I believe that as long as we listen to the sound of flowers blooming, there must be a colorful sea of flowers in front of us.
Diary of home visit of primary school math teacher 2 Today is Monday. After school in the afternoon, I made an appointment with Math Bear to visit Wang Yang's house.
When we parked our bikes, we panted up the fourth floor and came to his door. After knocking on the door for a long time, no one answered, so we had to go downstairs in disappointment and prepare to go to another classmate's house. Unexpectedly, his mother heard that we were coming and hurried home.
As a class teacher, I have taught him that the child is a bit of a liar and doesn't like to hand in his homework. Chatting with his mother, we learned that the child told his mother to drink school milk after the school started this year, and asked her for it 180 yuan, but as far as I know, there is no child in the class who drinks school milk. What happened? After careful inquiries from teachers and parents, it turned out that the child had charged QQ coins. So the angry mother began to criticize the children's various "bad" performances, one after another. Mother seems to be an impatient person, and her voice is very bright. During this time, children looked up from time to time and argued discontentedly, which was covered up by the voices of adults. His argument is weak.
I saw him sitting with his head down in frustration. When Mr. Xiong was talking to his mother, I leaned close to him and whispered to him. My voice was low, but he listened attentively, nodded from time to time, and his expression eased. I taught him how to communicate with his good mother instead of contradicting her, how to overcome his own shortcomings and try to satisfy his mother with actions. Of course, I first affirmed his advantages, and the child readily accepted my suggestion. After that, I asked the child to go back to his room first. From the conversation with my mother, we feel that parents have a deep love-hate relationship. They have given their children great hope and devoted their efforts to cultivating them. For the sake of children's happiness, fathers work outside all the year round, and mothers take care of them at home. My mother doesn't even play mahjong, just to spend more time with her children at home, to accompany him to do homework, to accompany him to play chess and to practice calligraphy with him ... but the children just can't learn.
I've been listening to Mr. Xiong talking to his mother, but I didn't say much. First, you can't get in. Second, I don't know where to start at once. There seems to be a lot to say. It was not until my mother was angry that he had to make three mistakes in the five questions of the child's homework that I rushed over and asked my mother, "He corrected it right. How did you do it?" My mother looked at me blankly and I said, "Did you praise him?" My mother immediately said positively, "I have never praised him!" " . I said you should praise him, even if he only answered one question correctly, you can't always criticize him or always say his mistakes. I don't know if my words can arouse my mother's meditation, so we left.
To be honest, I still have a lot to say to this mother, because I am not only a teacher, but also a mother. I can understand my mother's heart and even her anxiety, but I don't agree with many of her practices. I believe what she passed on to her son was stress and the same anxiety, even lack of self-confidence.
Diary of a home visit of a primary school math teacher On Monday, the school held a general meeting of all teachers and staff as usual. The difference is that there is a mobilization activity of "ten thousand teachers into ten thousand families" on the agenda of this meeting. At the meeting, the leader encouraged every teacher in our school to take a walk in the students' homes recently, have a look, have a look, and learn about the students' family situation and their various performances at home.
Actually, I don't need to mobilize, but I already want to know the situation from the students' families. As a new head teacher who just took office, I think I should personally see what the students at home are like, so as to understand the children's psychological state more comprehensively and quickly.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, a week passes quietly. As this is my first home visit, I specially spent two days after school to consult the experience of home visits by senior teachers in the school, read the educational books of home visits by head teachers, and summarized some matters needing attention in home visits.
First of all, before the home visit, we should make clear the purpose of the home visit and get to know the students in depth, so as to avoid being at a loss when visiting. Parents think that teachers don't care too much about their children, and home visits are just a form. In addition, we must be fully prepared, what to talk about, how to talk about it, and how to talk to parents with different levels of mentality. Secondly, we should respect students. Especially those students with many shortcomings and poor academic performance, we should start from love, not generalize, one is good and the other is bad. It is necessary to start with praising its advantages, open up the situation of home visits, and let parents realize that strictness is love, and looseness is harm. Whether teaching or not, it will intensify. Finally, the tone of home visits should be cordial and not blunt. Talk less and listen more, ask more and see more. Occasionally, I will meet a few parents with low quality during my home visit. They spoil their children, let themselves go, and even make trouble with their teachers unreasonably. The teacher's home visit is a guest's identity, so we should not point fingers at each other and quarrel with each other, thus putting ourselves in a dilemma. Keep the conversation short and to the point. If it's not speculative, leave at the right time. Be supercilious to parents, respect their opinions and opinions, and protect the reputation of schools and teachers. Introduce the good practices of schools and teachers in management and teaching, avoid confrontation with parents, be sincere, and ask parents to give more advice to themselves and the school.
So, after school on Thursday, I took the relevant record forms and materials prepared in advance, and followed my grandmother, a student of my class, Jiang Zhihao, who lives near the school, to a good home in Jiang Zhi. When I first set foot in Jiang Zhihao's home, I was a little surprised. Although I heard that this child grew up in a family with divorced parents and was usually taken care of by his grandmother, I really came to his house today to know that the living conditions of this child are really not very good. It's just a rented small house, not decorated, and the light is very poor. The whole house looks dark, with only simple beds and tables and some old-fashioned furniture. This little guy usually looks like a carefree, cute and optimistic little fat guy. He always asks the teacher all kinds of questions with an innocent smile, which is very likable. Grandma greeted me to sit down, and then told me about the parents of the child: "His parents broke up because of business failure, and now his mother has gone back to live in her mother's house and comes to Jiang Zhihao once a year. His father is a painter and often runs around in southern Anhui, so he has no time to take care of his children's studies. I am an illiterate old woman, so I can't help Jiang Zhihao with her homework. Children are sometimes very naughty, and he doesn't listen to me ... "After listening to his grandmother's words, I have no taste in my heart, so I can only comfort her and tell her not to tell her the heavy facts. Jiang Zhihao is a lively and simple child. Don't let the child feel inferior or sad because of this, it will affect his personality development. We can't interfere with parents' feelings, but it doesn't affect adults' love for children. Be sure to communicate with his mother, often visit his children and communicate with him, and enlighten them with an open and inclusive perspective. Grandma doesn't know how to help her children study, and her aunt lives nearby, so she can only trouble her children's aunt to supervise the study. I must also spend more energy on this child at school, so as not to let her fall behind! Grandma listened to my words and gratefully invited me to stay for dinner. Seeing the situation, I politely refused to leave in a hurry and continued the home visit of the next child.
The parents of student Guan Jingmin are very enthusiastic and happy about my arrival, which really makes me feel a little flattered. I gave them a brief introduction to the concept and development of education now, and reported on the guidance of our school in the direction of children's education and Guan Jingmin's performance in school. In the face-to-face conversation, parents gave high praise and encouragement to our educators. Finally, I said, "If you have any suggestions for the development of our school and class construction, please feel free to make them." Guan Jingmin's parents said: "I didn't expect young teachers to care so much about their students. Our children are in your school, just rest assured, and our parents will strongly support the work of the school! "
During my home visits, I also learned that quite a few parents are busy making a living and seldom look after and supervise their children. This makes our shoulders more responsible. We can't choose our parents, we can only choose different educational methods to treat these children who need our care more. Many parents report that their children will listen to what the teacher says. As a student, the teacher is particularly moved by this sentence, and the charm of the teacher is infinite. Of course, you need to pay more when you are happy. Home visits show me that different family education methods have formed completely different students' individual and cognitive expression levels. Therefore, for students with problems, we should have a heart-to-heart talk with their parents, analyze the students with a split point of view, grasp the reality at the same time, adjust flexibly, put forward the problems existing in children in a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere, discuss and explore educational measures with them, convince the students, and parents will cooperate with them gladly.
In a word, home visits have benefited me a lot, not only letting parents know about the students' performances and the requirements of the school, but also letting me know about the students' families and their performances in the family. Only through home visits can we understand some hidden problems and find out the root causes of students' bad behavior, so as to further strengthen the education of students from the root causes. I feel that the burden on me is heavier. It is necessary to strengthen the close relationship between home and school, and at the same time pay attention to the individual education of students, so as to truly achieve the educational effect of "educating a child, driving a family and affecting the whole society".
Diary of Home Visit of Primary School Mathematics Teachers 4 Niutoubei Village is one of the most remote administrative villages in Yuxiakou Town. There are 65,438+00 students from this village in our class. There are students with excellent academic performance, as well as some poor students, students with learning difficulties and special students. In order to promote the harmonious development of the class and the healthy growth of these students, Mr. Zhang, the Chinese teacher of our class, and I spent a whole day visiting seven students' families in Niutoubei Village.
We set off at nine o'clock in the morning, and it was bumpy and thrilling all the way. Finally, we arrived at Zuo's classmate's house, where she was doing her homework! She is an only child. She built a beautiful new house last year. The conditions are good. Her parents are in a good mood and welcome us. So we communicated smoothly, talking about the students' learning situation and future plans, and also communicating the issue of pocket money and the situation of the school cafeteria. Very effective, but also very grateful to our parents for their concern.
As we are strangers, Zuo's father offered to be our guide, and then we came to our home. They have two children, Liu Qian's sister is still in kindergarten and Xu Xiaodan's sister is in preschool. Because of leg pain, Liu Qian, who got excellent grades, took her to Chengguan for a physical examination. We didn't see her and her mother. Zuo Lu and Xu Xiaodan are very sensible children. Zuo Lu is helping her parents pick peppers in the vegetable field next to the house. Xu Xiaodan is also busy at home doing housework and watching them.
Every time we go to a family, we have to communicate with students and parents in all aspects. This kind of face-to-face communication is really rare. This time, we had so many languages with our parents and chatted, and it was after two o'clock in the afternoon. To be honest, our stomachs are growling, too. Xiao Dan and her mother are very busy, and a delicious meal will be ready soon. It turned out that they had prepared in advance when they knew we were coming. We were moved by their enthusiasm. After dinner, it was getting late, so we quickly took a group photo as a souvenir and hurried to the next one ... Although we didn't stop at Huang Weifang's house, we had to get there, because his grades were poor, he often couldn't go to school on time, and he couldn't control his pocket money reasonably. Isn't such a child what parents and teachers need to worry about? When he arrived at his home, he also went to the clinic because of illness, and his parents were not at home. Fortunately, a left guide helped us find it back. We came straight to the point and soon unified our understanding with our parents. Parents are also busy picking peppers to catch up with the price, and we have to hurry, so we quickly went to Qin Tiancong's house. His parents are very capable, the house at home is beautiful, and his sister is in No.1 Middle School. Such a family also allows him to study and get excellent grades!
It's getting late, and we're not beating around the bush. After sincere communication, we took a group photo together. After thanking them for their hard work, we walked all the way back. At this time, it was dotted, and it was already brightly lit when we arrived at the market town. Looking back on the day's rush, it's really hard and rewarding. I really want to take a walk and have a look often. Maybe I can sow some seeds of educational hope!
A friend asked me why there are so many words in the diary of every home visit of a primary school math teacher. I am also surprised that not every student has so many stories with me. I thought a few hundred words could describe a student, but after every home visit, my mood was so complicated. I like to express my feelings in words. Words sort out ordinary trivial things in life, and as long as they are infused with ideas, they are endowed with life.
Before going to Yang Xiaoshan's house, if I had to tell an unforgettable story between her and me, I really couldn't remember it. Because, not every student is so excellent, not every student is so naughty, not every student makes me remember.
Yang Xiaoshan, an ordinary rural child, is short in stature, with small arms and prominent cheekbones. Ten fingers are like a pile of dead bamboo branches, as if they were broken at one fold. Because she is thin, she looks very light. The only thing that impressed me was Yang Xiaoshan's good handwriting. Her calligraphy is somewhat similar to that of Yang Xia. Sometimes when she corrects her homework, she often doesn't know who wrote it until she sees the name in the workbook.
Yang Xiaoshan knows that I'm going to Chen Xin's house at noon today. After school, she came to me and said excitedly, "Teacher, I live very close to Chen Xin's house. Will you come to my house? " I saw a look of expectation in her eyes. I touched her yellow hair and said, "The teacher is leaving."
After coming out of Chen Xin's house, I wiped my red eyes and gave myself a smile. Yes, smile. I will face any difficulties with a smile. Home visits are not a very difficult thing. The difficult thing is how to be a real teacher after my home visit.
Yang Xiaoshan has a dog at home. I followed her carefully all the way. I said, "Hill, you should protect the teacher." In front of Xiaoshan's house, Xiaoshan kicked the dog out first, and then closed the gate of the yard. She said to me, "Don't worry, teacher, you can't get in now."
At noon that day, Yang Xiaoshan's grandparents were at home. When I got to her house, they had just eaten, and grandma was sifting wheat at the door. Her weather-beaten face is covered with deep wrinkles, her small eyes are a little cloudy, and her hands are particularly rough, like thorns. Anyone who touches them seems to be bleeding. Grandma told me: "This year is dry, and the wheat harvest is not good." "Yes, the weather is bad this year, there is no rain. Last year, there were many farmers who planted rape in rural areas, but this spring, rape flowers did not flourish in previous years. " I can't help sighing. We are all eager for "good weather". Buddhism protects the four heavenly kings, sword holders and winds of all beings; Those who hold the pipa are also tuned; Umbrellars, rain also; He who holds the dragon is smooth. "God will bless our farmers ..." I prayed silently with my hands folded.
Yang Xiaoshan's parents work in Guangzhou, her mother works in a leather shoes factory and her father works in construction. Yang Xiaoshan lives with her grandparents now, and she has a younger brother who goes to kindergarten in our school. Among my students, few children live with their grandparents. When I asked this question, my grandmother spoke first: "Yang Xiaoshan's mother is the youngest in the family, and the first two sisters are far married. I said I wanted to keep my daughter with me, so I married Lincun. Now Yang Xiaoshan's parents have gone to Guangzhou to work again. The family conditions of Yang Xiaoshan's grandparents are not very good. There were other children at home, so I left my granddaughter with them. "
I think Xiaoshan is happy. Although the material conditions at home are not so good, she has the love and care of her grandparents. When I was chatting with my grandmother, Xiaoshan picked two flowers for me from somewhere. I suddenly can't name the flower. It's purple. It's a big flower, a bit like epiphyllum, but it's not epiphyllum. I am glad to pick up a flower and put it in front of my nose to smell it. A little fragrant, faint.
I pinned the flowers to the hair of the hill. Hehe, grandma and I both laughed. What a beautiful little girl! The hill said, "Teacher, don't put it in your hair either." After that, she pinned the flowers on my ear, and everyone laughed more happily. What a beautiful teacher!
There is a kind of life, you don't know the hardships, there is a kind of bitterness, you don't know the happiness, there is a kind of happiness, you don't know the greatness until you have experienced it. Away from the hustle and bustle of those cities, I am gratified by my silence.
Diary of Home Visit of Primary School Mathematics Teachers 6 On a rainy night in winter, I came to the home of Yang Jinpeng, a student. From his daily life, I observed that his family living conditions are very rich and carefree, and his parents must have exiled his own development. Although children are not particularly naughty, there are still many problems in learning, which are mainly manifested in: easy distraction in class, weak self-control, frequent small movements in class, often looking around, affecting others' listening, poor learning consciousness, and needing teachers' constant supervision. The purpose of this home visit is to fully understand the children's family growth environment and personality hobbies, to narrow the distance with children and parents, and to pave a sunshine avenue for their growth.
In the conversation with my mother, I learned that Yang Jinpeng's parents are businessmen, and their education level is very low. They are busy with business all day and have no time to take care of their children. There is little time to communicate with children, lack of cultivation of children's study habits, lack of communication with children, and inability to preset the future development direction for children. My father's face in his thirties is engraved with hard life vicissitudes, and he feels much older than his actual age. The attitude towards children's academic performance, ideological and moral quality and behavioral norms is to ignore or let themselves go. Although the mother is at home, she is busy with business and has no time to sit with her children, read books with them or check their homework. Coupled with her grandparents' love and tolerance for children, children's study habits can not be well developed, making the education of teachers and schools dull and colorless, and children's enthusiasm for learning is getting lower and lower. Such families have no education for their children at all. Parents think that "education is a matter for schools and teachers". As teachers, we certainly know that educating children requires patience and perseverance, and needs the combination of family, school and society. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Without correct guidance and education, how can our children progress? So I'm worried.
This home visit, we started in a very harmonious atmosphere, but also deepened in the subtle affection, so that parents can "care for their hearts and teach others by law." Parents are aware of the importance of family education and express their willingness to work closely with schools to educate their children. At the same time, it also made me realize the difference between students' family education and growth. "Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" is not an empty talk, but an unforgettable memory of the teacher's life.
The home visit is over, but my heart can't be calm for a long time! As teachers, we can't change their present situation, but we have the responsibility to understand and care for them, not only to care about their children's learning, but more importantly, to care about their living environment and their growth space, so as to find a more ideal way to guide and educate them and let them grow into a confident, self-reliant, self-controlled and self-reliant sunny teenager.