2. Explore possible reasons. There are many reasons why men are not good at that. Common ones are: depression, alcoholism, nervousness, smoking, taking drugs or taking certain drugs, low testosterone level, obesity and so on. In addition, diabetes, heart disease, multiple sclerosis and other problems will also make men unable to do this.
3. Give him positive energy, such as saying to him in an understatement, "Are you tired recently? Still too anxious? " The reason why he didn't lift his head was lightly attributed to fatigue and anxiety, which rekindled his confidence.
4. Don't blame yourself. Men can't do it. Many women blame themselves: they feel unattractive, so men have no feelings for themselves. In fact, the problem that men have no feelings for women is rare and can be ignored.
5. Talk to him frankly. Don't worry about this conversation. When a man feels relaxed and safe, be honest with him about his feelings at that time. This mutual understanding and support can further narrow the distance between the two sides and make men feel more.
6. Create a romantic and relaxed atmosphere. Romantic atmosphere helps to improve sexual desire and make men's sexual desire soar. Women can decorate it carefully, such as putting a bunch of roses on the table to increase the fragrance; Try new love places to add freshness; Wear sexy underwear, enhance visual stimulation and so on.
7. Help him take care of his heart. Men of a certain age can't do this, which may be a sign of heart disease. Therefore, when a man has these problems, a woman should pay more attention to his heart health than to her "sexual happiness". Let him pay attention to diet, keep exercising, keep enough sleep and have regular physical examination.