Fable 1: the old gentleman in the oasis
A young man came to the oasis and met an old gentleman. The young man asked, "How is it here?" The old man asked, "What's your hometown like?" The young man replied, "It's terrible! I hate it. " The old man went on to say, "Then you should go quickly. As bad as your hometown. " Later, another young man asked the same question and the old man asked the same question. The young man replied, "My hometown is very good. I miss the people, flowers and things in my hometown very much ..." The old man said, "It's just as good here." The observer was surprised and asked the old man why his statement was inconsistent. The old man said, "If you look at one thing with appreciation, you will see many advantages; if you look at it with criticism, you will see countless disadvantages."
Fable 2: The Story of Frog
I remember a biological experiment. I put a frog in a cup filled with boiling water, and the frog jumped out immediately. But when I put a frog in another cup with warm water, it was slowly heated to boiling, and the frog would swim comfortably in the cup at first until it found it was too hot to jump out.
Moral:
1, the change of environment can determine your success or failure. Changes in the general environment are sometimes invisible. We must always pay attention, remain vigilant and welcome change before it is too late.
2. Too comfortable environment is the most dangerous moment. A familiar lifestyle may be your most dangerous lifestyle. Constantly innovate, break the old model, I believe everything can be improved.
Fable 3: The story of the mowing boy
A boy mowing others' grass called a Mrs. Chen and said, "Do you need mowing?" Mrs. Chen replied, "No, I already have a lawn mower." The boy added, "I will help you pull out the weeds in the flowers." Mrs. Chen replied, "I have done my lawn mower, too." The boy added, "I'll help you cut the grass around the aisle." Mrs. Chen said, "The person I invited has already done it. Thank you. I don't need a new lawn mower. " The boy hung up the phone. At this time, the boy's roommate asked him, "Aren't you mowing the grass at Mrs. Chen's house?" Why are you calling this number? The boy said, "I just want to know how I did!" " "
Moral: Only by constantly asking customers' comments can we know our own advantages and disadvantages. Don't follow the rules, think clearly about the cause of everything and ask "why?"
There is also an apple.
Someone once told such an intriguing story: a sudden desert storm made a traveler lose his way. What is even more frightening is that the traveler's backpack full of water and dry food was also swept away by the storm. He searched all his pockets and found a green apple. "Ah, I still have an apple!" The traveler shouted in surprise.
He clung to the apple and looked for a way out in the desert alone. Whenever thirst, hunger and fatigue strike, he will take a look at the apple in his hand and sip his chapped lips, which suddenly adds a lot of strength.
One day passed and two days passed. On the third day, the traveler finally walked out of the desert. He never bit the green apple, because it was too dry, so he held it in his hand like a child.
While people deeply admire travelers, they can't help but be surprised that a seemingly unremarkable green apple has such incredible magical power!
Yes, this is the power of faith! This is the power of spirit! Faith is the starting point of success and a strong pillar to support the building of life. In the journey of life, it is impossible to always have smooth sailing and everything goes well. Some people may be physically defective or sick after birth, but they can become strong in life and create miracles that ordinary people can't create, which depends on faith. For an aspirant, faith is a magic weapon and a long river of hope.
The power of faith lies in that even in adversity, it can help you raise the sail of progress; The greatness of faith lies in the courage to live even in misfortune. Faith is the eternal flame in the heart. Faith is the internal motive force to ensure the success of pursuing goals throughout life. The greatest value of faith is to support people to pursue beautiful things diligently. A firm belief is a rose that never fades.
My life is in myself, not in heaven.
The story of time and love
Once upon a time, there was an island where happiness, sadness, knowledge, love and other emotions lived.
One day, the emotions learned that the island was about to sink, so everyone prepared a boat and left the island. Only love stayed, and she wanted to hold on until the last moment.
After a few days, the island is really sinking, and I want to find someone to help.
At this time, Fuyu passed by in a big boat. Love said, "Wealth, can you take me away?" Richness replied, "No, there is a lot of gold and silver in my boat, and there is no place for you."
Love sees vanity in a gorgeous boat, "vanity, help me!" " I can't help you. You are soaked to the skin, and you will ruin my beautiful boat. "
Sadness came, and love asked her for help: "Sadness, let me go with you!" " ""Oh ... love, I'm so sad, I want to be alone for a while! " Sadness replied.
Happiness passed by love, but she was too happy to hear love calling her!
Suddenly, a voice came: "Come here, love, I'll take you away."
This is an elder. Love was overjoyed and forgot to ask his name. After landing, the elder walked away alone.
Love was very grateful to the elder. She asked another elder knowledge, "Who is that person who helped me?"
"He is time." The knowledge old man replied. "Time?" Love asked, "Why should time help me?"
The old man smiled: "Because only time can understand how great love is."
Three sets of passwords to interpret life
Jiang
Mentality and behavior
A psychologist wants to know what kind of influence people's mentality will have on their behavior. So he did an experiment.
First, he let 10 people pass through a dark house. Under his leadership, 10 people all passed the customs smoothly.
Then, the psychologist turns on a light in the room. In the dim light, these people saw everything in the room and broke out in a cold sweat. The floor of this house is a big pool. There are more than a dozen crocodiles in the pool. There is a narrow wooden bridge above the pool. They have just crossed the bridge.
The psychologist asked, "Now, which one of you would like to walk through this house again?" No one answered. After a long time, three brave people stood up.
One of them walked carefully, much slower than the first time; The other stepped on the small wooden bridge trembling, and when he was halfway there, he climbed over. The third one just took a few steps when he suddenly fell down and never dared to move a step forward again.
The psychologist turned on the other nine lights in the room, which made the room look like daytime. At this time, people saw a safety net under the small wooden bridge, but they didn't see it just now because the color of the net wire was extremely light.
"Now, who wants to cross this small wooden bridge?" Asked the psychologist. This time, five people stood up again.
"Why don't you want to?" The psychiatrist asked the remaining two people.
"Is this safety net secure?" Two people asked in unison.
Many times, success is like crossing this small wooden bridge. I'm afraid the reason for failure is not weak strength and low intelligence, but the deterrence of the surrounding environment. In the face of danger, many people have long lost their balanced mentality, panicked and lost their minds.
Despair and miracle
At a military airport in the wild of France, a pilot named Saunier was absorbed in cleaning the fighter plane with a tap water gun. Suddenly, he felt someone patted him on the back. Looking back, he let out a cry of horror. Where's the guy who filmed him? A huge bear stood behind him with two front paws! Sonny used his quick wits and quickly turned the tap water gun to the bear. Maybe it's too difficult. At this extremely urgent moment, the tap water gun slipped from his hand and the bear pounced on him ... He closed his eyes, jumped with all his strength, jumped on his wings and shouted for help.
The sentry in the post heard the cry for help and ran out with a submachine gun. Two minutes later, the bear was killed.
Afterwards, many people were puzzled: Sonny jumped up without a run-up when his wing was at least 2.5 meters off the ground. Is this possible? If that's the case, Sonny won't have to be a pilot anymore, but a high jumper will set a world record.
However, it is true.
Later, Sonny did countless experiments and never jumped on the wing again.
People are increasingly skeptical about the truth of this matter. An expert who studies human potential said: "This is entirely possible. When people encounter an emergency, the body will secrete a strange hormone, which can stimulate the hidden extraordinary ability of the human body. The more critical the situation is, the easier it is to bring the potential into play, and under normal circumstances, the potential is silent. "
Despair is both a challenge and an opportunity. Maybe you will create a miracle beyond yourself.
Man and faith
In new york, there was a young policeman named Arthur. In a chase, he was shot in the left eye and right knee by a gangster with a submachine gun. Three months later, when he came out of the hospital, he was completely different: a handsome guy who used to be tall and burly with bright eyes has now become a cripple who is lame and blind.
The New York City Government and various other organizations awarded him many medals and flags. A reporter from new york Cable Radio once asked him, "How will you face the bad luck you are suffering now?" He said: "I only know that the gangster has not been caught yet. I want to catch him myself! " "There is an exciting and angry light in his intact eyes.
After that, Arthur ignored anyone's dissuasion and participated in the action of arresting gangsters. He almost traveled all over the United States and even once flew to Europe alone for a trivial clue.
Nine years later, the gangster was finally arrested in a small country in Asia. Of course, Arthur played a very key role. At the celebration, he became a hero again, and many media praised him as the strongest and bravest person.
Six months later, Yasser took a pulse in his bedroom and committed suicide. In his suicide note, people read the reason why he committed suicide: "Over the years, the belief that kept me alive was to catch the murderer ... Now, the murderer who hurt me has been sentenced, my hatred has been resolved, and the belief in survival has disappeared. In the face of my disability, I have never been so desperate ... "
Maybe everything can be lost in life, such as losing an eye or a healthy leg, but you just can't lose faith.