Understanding and perception of love

Throughout the ages, love is an eternal topic. Just like butterfly lovers, life can't be together, and it's a topic that people talk about in their spare time. From this point of view, longing for true love is the emotional desire and demand of human beings, and perhaps a period of true love can be regarded as a complete life. Otherwise, life will be incomplete and regrettable. Love needs a lot of tolerance, dedication, patience, and constant creation. It takes many twists and turns to cultivate true love. Moreover, love is not equal to a lifetime commitment, just as love at first sight is not equal to growing old together. No matter how intense the love is, there will always be a cooling day, and it will often retaliate against the previous fierceness. Previous lovers were full of love, and the process from love to hate was as painful as burning the heart. Such examples abound. They don't understand that love is a matter of both sides and is interactive. If one of them doesn't love, then love is over, dragging on, unwilling to worry. Others regard love as a kind of possession. If they can't love themselves or the other person doesn't love themselves, they will do many heinous and bloody things in the name of love, and they will also hurt innocent people for no reason. It can be seen that an incorrect view of love will cause unhealthy psychology and do great harm to feelings. In daily life, you are madly loved by someone you don't love at all. At this time, love is a heavy shackle, just like the palm of your hand. You should escape that love like a captive. Conversely, to love someone who doesn't love you crazily is like killing yourself. It's like casting pearls before swine. You are exhausted from playing, but you turn a deaf ear. Love is varied, and there is no reference to compare it with. Adapting to one person's love is of no value to others. Love or not, only the parties ... both parties who love each other can understand. Love is like shoes. Only I know whether it is suitable or not. Moreover, some love needs to be experienced before you know whether it is suitable for you. Just like a pair of shoes, it looks beautiful, but it is uncomfortable to wear at first, and it will take a long time to be recognized. Love is sometimes blind, love is love, there is no reason to say it, and there should be no reason to describe it. Sometimes people feel that a pair of lovers are not well matched, and it is incredible to watch them fall in love. What is this? What they love is their freedom, and whether it is appropriate or not is their business. Others can only observe and appreciate, not evaluate. Only those who love each other have the right of evaluation, and the only right of arbitration is time. Time can prove the depth and breadth of love. Love often makes people helpless. Running a long-term love requires many factors, which can also be said to be the external conditions of love. In addition to the same or complementary personalities of two people, there is still a lot of time and energy to cultivate, care for, care for and create. Love is connected with people's situation. In people who have a hard life, love is often relatively stable, even to the end. It's not that they know much about love, but that they don't have time to think. Many troubles more important than love, such as survival, bother them. In people with superior living conditions, love often becomes fickle. It's not that they don't understand love, but the prosperous and superior conditions have caused higher expectations for love. It is an insurmountable weakness of human nature. Love is a private matter between two people who love each other. Never interfere with others for love's sake. Love is based on the pain of others. This kind of love is no longer simple. Love has become like a transaction, and there is no happiness in love. Love first needs peace of mind and more consideration for each other. Only when both sides have no worries, love for each other will make people feel relaxed and free, and then they will really devote themselves to love and produce true love. Generally speaking, when it comes to love, men pay attention to the result, while women pay attention to the process. At the beginning of love, the difference is not obvious, and men may take the initiative. After a period of love, there is a big difference between men and women. For some men, love may not last long. They are always eager for new love and can't stand the unchanging love life. When everything is boring, the time spent together between two people will become unbearable triviality and burden, and the love that once existed will gradually erode the dullness. In order to give each other a good memory, when love disappears, men usually choose to leave in time and decisively. And what about women? Once you enter the field of love, you get deeper and deeper, and it is difficult to extricate yourself. They will remember a promise made by each other as a lifelong promise, but they will soon be easily denied by him. I once read a book that men are best at forgetting promises. Women who have a good memory in love will feel miserable and helpless, because love is always beyond their control. Then they chew the painful love repeatedly, but they are all bitter. That love will leave her with permanent scars. I want to forget him, dust him off and never mention him again, but I still can't help thinking about it. The person who hurts her the most must also be the person she loves the most. The person who thinks she can entrust her life in this life has given her all hope. A smarter woman only thinks, but has no hate in her heart, because the man she loves is the most perfect person in her mind. Love once occupied all her space, even if there is hate, it is also an interpretation of regret. I regret that my love is too weak to keep my lover, and I regret that I can't fall in love with the person I love all my life. To this end, they take all their mistakes on themselves, and it becomes unwise to think too much. In fact, the person in his heart is enjoying himself somewhere and getting carried away. He has long forgotten a woman he once loved. In fact, both men and women have to go through many emotional twists and turns and take a long time to finally understand what kind of love can really be retained and cherished. Therefore, the older a person is, the richer his experience is, the more he can understand the true meaning of emotion, the more he can test the truth of love with the touchstone of emotion, the more he can find his true love, and the more he cherishes it. Understanding and understanding of love II. To make love have a long-term tenacious vitality, it really needs the care, patience and care of both sides. Speaking of making it last, it seems profound, but once you understand the truth, it's actually very simple. In a word, it is: understanding, understanding and trust. These three factors are indispensable and are the essence of all love secrets. All the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are included in it. No matter love or marriage, as long as both sides have these three necessary conditions, they will certainly come true. There is another trick: to make it last, we need to keep it fresh, that is, we need to find some deadly "killer weapons" to deal with impatience, long-term sensory numbness and aesthetic fatigue, and deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love as quickly as possible, and transform them into "compound" feelings like family members. Only love with this feeling is the strongest and longest, and it will become more and more lasting and unbreakable with the passage of time. When one day, you suddenly realize that you are so happy, after careful consideration, you realize that the original understanding, thoughtfulness and trust have come to your side for a long time and have been silently accompanying you. When you realize their existence, you suddenly realize that they are not only the patron saint of love, but also the true meaning of life. True love should be that two people understand each other, respect each other, don't entangle, don't shrink back, don't possess, and then go through a long journey together. If I meet you, I will hold you tightly. If you don't know, don't know, don't love, don't love, how can you be so swayed by considerations of gain and loss and insatiable greed ... Love is mutual understanding and tolerance. If you really love someone, you won't force her to do things you don't like, you will respect each other, you will give her freedom, you will tolerate all her shortcomings, and you won't care about her age, her past, her shortcomings and her imperfections. (In fact, family, friendship and love are all the same, only the names are different), so my love for my friends and family is the same. This is my understanding of love. I only love one person in my life, because my heart can only hold one person at a time, but no one else. My love is sweet, full of energy and passion. I will give her all my love, either simple or vigorous. I have a dream: to travel around the world with my other half. As long as she still loves me, my love has no time limit, unless she doesn't love me anymore. I'm afraid I won't get anything in the end, so I won't love someone easily. Few people can come into my heart, but as long as I love, I will try my best. Mainly depends on feelings, appearance is secondary, and it is important to have an interesting soul, love in the heart and know what love is. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack. I don't know, and I dare not ask. The requirement is just to wait. The furthest distance in the world is not that you don't know I love you when standing in front of you, but that you are stubborn and dare not say I love you. The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you, but that I miss you deeply, but I can only bury it in my heart. The furthest distance in the world is that two people love each other but can't be together! Once we cherished it very much, because of the invisible hand of time, the aura of love was slowly stripped off, and the original oath was completed into crystal glass fragments. Love should be washed in time, either to precipitate into a yellow photo or to bloom in our simple life. We didn't meet by chance, happiness was not a momentary feeling, it melted into the sweetness in our hands and into the seemingly mottled life. There is a person who teaches you how to love, but he doesn't love you. There is a person, you always say you want to let him go, but you can't help but pick him up again. There is a person, you really want him to be happy, so you would rather not be happy; There is a person who smiled when you left him, but when you turned around, you were in tears. I once loved you, and love, perhaps, has not completely died out in my mind. I hope I won't bother you again, and I don't want to make you sad again. I once loved you silently and hopelessly. I endure shyness and jealousy. I once loved you so sincerely and tenderly. May God bless you, and another person will love you as much as I do. When love is dull, I don't talk about love, but I miss it every day, but it is deposited in my heart; When love is dull, short messages become shorter and more common, but it is difficult to hide each other's concern; When love is dull, we will expose our truest self to each other, and occasionally we will quarrel, but after the quarrel, we still feel that each other is the favorite and an indispensable part of life. If you can't be good to me all your life, please don't be good to me, even if it's only for a second; If you can't cheat me all your life, please don't cheat me, even if it's just a word; If you can't love me all your life, please don't love me, even for a moment. A lot of love can be met but not sought; Many things can only be owned once; A lot of things, we can never understand. Perhaps, only after experiencing pain will we become stronger. If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together. Love a person, together will be inexplicably lost. Like a person, you will always be happy. If you love someone, you will often cry. If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him. Love a person, when you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly. To like a person is to look at his merits. To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings. Like is a kind of mood, love is an emotion. I love you, there is no need to hold your hand and pretend to be happy, I will watch silently behind you; I love you without gorgeous words, and I will try to continue your happy laughter; I love you and don't need to be with you all the time to care about you; You have your sky, you have your wind and rain, you cry, I will pass a tissue to tell you that the world still has me; You are tired, I have your shoulders to lean on, and I am integrated into this life with you. Understanding and understanding of love 3 1. Good love doesn't need deliberate companionship, just an occasional smile at each other, which is so natural, but it seems to be worth a thousand words. 2. If life is a journey, happiness and sadness are two long rails that follow me closely. There is no predestined marriage in the world, but love at first sight and lifelong love does have fatalistic power. We all hope that the people we love can love ourselves, and we all hope that what we have paid can be rewarded. This is the ideal ending. A woman's best dowry is a considerate and warm heart, and a man's best dowry is lifelong accommodation and love. I dare not say that I will like you all my life, at least in the few years when I can see you, I just want to be nice to you. 7. Life is only a few decades. The most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. 8. The right person will appear one day. He will hold your hand, lead you through the turbulent crowd and whisper in your ear that I love you. 9. You'll never know. The most courageous thing I did was to give up the opportunity to be friends, just to let you know that I like you. 10, there are many passers-by on the road of life, and everyone has their own destination. Others go east, west, south and north, and I'll find you. 1 1. There are many things in the world, but you are my favorite. 12, why is everyone's feelings so happy and sweet? Why are you so bitter and bitter? 13, all the feelings of security are actually very simple, keep your distance from others and keep deep affection with your lover. 14, the desert hides endless beauty and danger, and so does love. 15, the rest of my life is too long, I want to hold your hand and accompany you; Life is too long, I want to hold your arm and watch the sunset with you.