1. Take the baby's requirements seriously. When he asked hopefully on the phone, "Mom, milk." If you can't satisfy him outside, tell him the specific time: "When you go home, mom will get it for you, okay?" Often ignoring the baby's needs will make him lose confidence because he is not taken seriously.
2. Take the baby out on weekends and ask for his advice, but don't ask "Where do you want to go", ask "Do you want to go to the zoo or the aquarium? Giving him a choice and letting him make his own choice will increase his confidence in himself.
3. The baby just learned to speak. You taught him "big watermelon", but he said "catch the big west". Don't laugh at him, and don't deliberately emphasize it at that time. Teach him next time. During the baby's language learning period, your ridicule will make him lose confidence and interest in learning the language.
4. The baby asks questions and listens patiently. If you can't answer, tell him honestly. Let him know what no one can do, dispel his awe of others, and thus increase his self-confidence.
5. Let the baby do what he can in a consultative tone, such as "Take the book to mom, ok?" Letting children know that they are needed is the best way to improve their self-confidence
6. Let the baby stick his graffiti on the most eye-catching wall at home. Make a display stand for the baby on the cupboard to show his little creations. A sense of honor can best stimulate a child's self-confidence.
7. Give the baby a room. If there are no conditions, you can give up some rooms for him, so that he can have a free little world. Because he has his own "territory", his heart is full of pride, which will increase his confidence.
8. Don't always prepare your baby because his room or desktop is messy, but teach him to pick up the scattered toys and do it with him. Mother's tolerance is the soil to cultivate baby's self-confidence.
9. Don't tell the baby. "XX can already count, but you can't. You are so stupid! " Even if he is really worse than other children. Always compare a better child with him, which can defeat the child's self-confidence best.
10. Take the baby to the supermarket, give him the money to pay and ask him to give it to the cashier. He can't settle accounts yet, but at least let him know that money can buy things. Gradually letting children master their own pocket money and let him be the master will increase his self-confidence in life.
1 1. Buy clothes for the baby and let the children choose their own colors and styles. Maybe you don't like the color he chooses, but don't deny his eyes. Being respected for a child's opinion is the beginning of his confidence.
12. Watch his favorite cartoons with children, discuss his favorite characters and lines, and show interest in his views. Equal coexistence and communication are the steps to give him confidence.
13. Let the baby wash his own small socks and handkerchiefs independently, which will not be clean. The child's self-confidence comes from your recognition of his every little thing.
14. When the baby performs reciting poems, telling stories and singing, beat him to show harmony. Cultivating him to dare to perform on stage calmly is to cultivate his self-confidence
15. Let the baby get close to strange friends and actively encourage him to communicate freely with people of all ages. Cultivating his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence.
16. Help the baby to make a detailed plan and remind him to carry it out. For example, help your baby make a piano practice plan, negotiate with him when making the plan, and remind him when implementing it, "Baby, should we practice the piano now?" Let him get into the habit of doing things according to the plan. Do things with confidence, and you can be confident.
17. Don't stop your baby from playing with all kinds of rubbish such as coke bottles and shoe boxes. Your child likes to explore what he is interested in. If you control his interest, it will dampen his confidence in exploring.
18.？ The children encountered difficulties in the jigsaw puzzle. Encourage them to find ways to solve these difficulties themselves. If you really can't figure out a way, you can give directions. Overcoming difficulties can make him more confident.
19. When you get along with your child, you should always look for specific reasons worthy of praise and encourage him with praise language, but don't praise your child in an empty way. It can be said: "The baby knows that he has peed, so he has made progress." Don't say, "Baby, you are so smart. Mom likes you very much. Give him specific praise and give him confidence. Empty praise will make him arrogant.
I didn't want to take him to McDonald's at first, but I promised him to go casually, but it didn't come true. Your dishonesty made him lose confidence and trust in you.
2 1. Help the baby to play the positive aspects of his personality and make him a person with personality. If the baby is impatient, it will exercise his speed of doing things; If you are a slow learner, exercise his organization. Forcing him to change his nature will make you lose confidence in him and make him lose confidence.