Second, understand children, be good at teaching people, and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Understanding children means understanding their psychological requirements and personality characteristics. Children's physical and mental development has stages, and their psychological quality and personality characteristics are different at different stages of development. In order to make family education more effective, parents should first study and master their children's psychological requirements, find out their interests, hobbies and specialties, and then teach them in accordance with their aptitude. Secondly, it is necessary to find out children's personality characteristics, educate children to know beauty and ugliness, right and wrong, good and evil, and help children resist the influence of various wrong ideas.
Third, create a good family education environment. Modern psychology believes that environmental factors play a decisive role in the healthy growth of children's body and mind. Marx pointed out: man creates environment just as environment creates man. ? Cultivating children's healthy growth requires a good family environment. First, create a good family culture atmosphere. Family culture is the main environmental factor in the life of school-age children. Therefore, parents should establish a positive life ambition in family life, be diligent and enterprising, be eager to learn, maintain a strong thirst for knowledge and receive lifelong education. Let children live from childhood and learn more than just good edification. Secondly, create a quiet learning atmosphere. Ancient times? Meng Mu moved three times? This story is to tell people that a quiet learning environment is very important for the healthy growth of children. We should create a quiet and elegant atmosphere for children to think and rest quietly. Third, to create a harmonious atmosphere means that family members should live in harmony and treat each other as equals. In fact, if family members, especially husband and wife, respect and care for each other, their children will know how to care and respect others, and this will come true? Moisturize things silently? The educational effect of.
Fourth, adhere to a variety of family activities. At present, schools advocate activity teaching and oppose studying dead. Family education should be more colorful. Various forms of family education activities are conducive to the development of children's various interests and the cultivation of multi-dimensional learning ability. Especially in the current situation that children have a heavy learning burden, it is particularly important to carry out beneficial family education activities.
How to educate children to grow up healthily 2: First of all, we should put a low profile, treat children with a peaceful attitude and the concept of equality, and be their friends. Being friends with children can provide children with a relaxed and happy living and learning environment; Being a child's friend, the child will be willing to talk to you, and you will be willing to talk to you if you have difficulties, so that you can grasp the child's psychology and learning dynamics in time, find problems in time, and correct them in time; Make friends with children, see the world through children's eyes, accompany children to read and watch TV, guide children to see more, speak more and think more, and improve their language ability and appreciation level.
Second, set an example. As a child of senior one, his cognitive level is low and his imitation level is high. We give them reason, especially reason, but they don't understand. Everything we say and do will have a subtle influence on them like a mirror, both good and bad, and the consequences are incalculable. Therefore, as parents, we should set an example, always play an exemplary role, educate our children with our own behaviors, and enhance their ability to distinguish right from wrong.
Third, give priority to encouragement, supplemented by criticism. As the saying goes, it is better to praise your son than to praise him. Patience, encouragement and praise can inspire people's self-confidence, which is the characteristic of every successful person. Children's psychological endurance is very poor, and a praise or criticism from adults is often an evaluation of their whole world. So I think as far as children's daily behavior is concerned, they should be praised in time for doing well, and at the same time, they should point out their own shortcomings and put forward higher requirements. In this way, she will keep in mind her own advantages, gradually correct her own shortcomings and make progress in an orderly manner.
Fourth, cultivate children's sense of social responsibility, compassion and good self-quality. In today's material-rich, materialistic era, having good moral quality can enhance people's taste and character. A person with social responsibility and compassion often has a good relationship, and a good relationship can make children develop better in today's society. Cultivating children's good character of kindness, honesty, diligence, courage and humility from an early age will benefit children for life.
Fifth, it is the most common point, and it is also the point I value most, that is? Love? ! Let the child believe that you love her; Let the child know that you have paid love for her; Let children know that love needs to be returned.