Shandong Channel Jinan May 18 The annual senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination are related to the candidates' future and destiny, which makes candidates and parents face great pressure. Psychologists point out that in less than a month before the entrance examination, candidates are prone to psychological changes such as anxiety, resentment and despair, which seriously affects the examination review and improvisation. At this time, parents should pay special attention to their children's mental health. Professor Quan, a tutor of master students in the School of Education of Shandong Normal University and a member of the International Family Therapy Association, analyzed that most candidates can calmly cope with the pressure of entering the college entrance examination, but some candidates will have serious anxiety and worry too much about the test results, leading to blindly adopting "fatigue tactics" and working overtime in the sprint stage. Some candidates will still have grievances, transfer the pressure that they have nowhere to vent to other places, and even lose their temper with their parents, which makes their parents very scared. Individual candidates even feel desperate because they feel that there is no hope for further study. These psychological problems will not only seriously affect the children's review effect and improvisation before the exam, but also lead to other excessive behaviors and bitter results. It is understood that there are many reasons for the violent fluctuation of children's psychological state before the college entrance examination. One of the factors is that the psychological quality of the candidates themselves is not enough. Some parents simply pay attention to their children's pre-test review, which puts too much pressure on their children and is also an important reason for their psychological changes before the test. Some parents simply think that mental health problems have nothing to do with exams, or they are afraid of delaying time. Even if the child's psychology is obviously changed, he is not aware or unwilling to guide and treat it, which eventually leads to the deterioration of the situation. According to Lu Chao, parents should give their children "individual therapy" in time to solve the mental health problems before the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, and encourage their children to speak some positive internal and external languages, such as "I can do it myself", so as to avoid the most harmful negative internal languages and increase their self-confidence. At the same time, the family has an unshirkable responsibility for children's mental health. Parents should actively participate in their children's psychological counseling and carry out "family system therapy" with their children. Parents should adjust their own mentality, start from themselves, decompress their children, communicate with them psychologically, guide their children to review scientifically, and take them to seek professional psychotherapy when necessary.
Love is a tree that provides shade for children.
Key words: love grows healthily, and there is love in strictness. Abstract: In elementary school enlightenment education, it is very important for teachers to educate children about love, which is an important link to ensure their healthy growth. This puts forward stricter requirements for primary school teachers: they should have noble teachers' ethics and educate their children with strictness and love. Love makes children grow up healthily. Lu, the first middle school in Dongying District, loves the wind and blows thick clouds. Love is a cloud that turns into timely rain; Love is rain, which moistens the trees after a long drought; Love is a tree that supports the shade for you. For a class teacher in the lower grades of primary school, educating children with love will make them grow up healthily. Teacher's love will help children to establish correct concepts from childhood, and will also help children to be self-motivated from childhood, thus forming correct moral values. The love of teachers, especially class teachers, is the rain and sunshine scattered in children's hearts. Without love, there is no education. In fact, it is relatively simple to love students: to love students is to enter their emotional world, treat themselves as their intimate friends, and feel the joys and sorrows in their hearts. I remember that in the first few days of school, students' mood fluctuated greatly. He is lively and lovely these days. He sits alone in his seat, doesn't talk, doesn't play with other children, and sometimes stares blankly at a place. As a class teacher, I soon discovered his change. During the break, I found him and asked what was going on. At first, he just hesitated, and soon he began to cry. I was even more surprised and said, "You are a lively and cheerful boy. Why are you always moping these days? " Tell the teacher what happened, and the teacher will help you, okay? "Later, in his intermittent narrative, I learned that his parents had a big fight for some reason and didn't make up with each other for several days. He was in a hurry, but he couldn't think of anything. His mother hardly does anything at home now, and his father doesn't care. I was shocked to see that such a young child was so sensible and knew how to think of his family at such a young age. So I said to him, "You are really a sensible boy, but if you can't think of a good way, you'd better study hard and the teacher will help you think, okay?" Looking at the innocent smile on his face, I couldn't help thinking deeply. Afterwards, I called his parents to tell them about their children's performance and how sensible they are. His parents said that they would never quarrel in front of their children again, and I felt really happy. Taking care of children at all times will have unexpected effects on a child. I remember one day last winter, my student Yang Yang didn't come to school. Children have never been to kindergarten, rarely play with other children, don't listen carefully in class, are always absent-minded and inactive in answering questions, and their grades have always been at the bottom of the class. I saw that his seat was empty, so I called his home to know that the child had a cold. After telling parents to treat their children quickly, I put the child on the phone and told him, "You should cooperate with the doctor at home to treat the disease and get well as soon as possible. The teacher expects you to come back to class as soon as possible. "A few days later, he came back to class, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that he changed his previous listlessness, listened carefully in every class, actively answered questions, and had a loud voice. He is willing to communicate with teachers and children and often asks questions with me. Soon his grades improved. His Chinese teacher asked me what I had done to make such a child who didn't like learning interested in learning. When I called his parents again to tell them about their children's progress, his mother said, "Yangyang said that Teacher Lu was very kind to him and he wanted to stop studying. "Just because he is ill. Sometimes, my phone calls make him motivated. This deeply touched me. In fact, this is a teacher's duty, but it is too important for a child and may change his life. As a teacher, no matter in school, in class, or in the meeting and communication with children outside school, as long as you always care and love your children, you will sow healthy seeds in your young mind and make your children strong and brave in character. I remember some time ago, because my daughter caught a cold, I accompanied her to a private clinic for intravenous drip. In the process of accompanying her, I suddenly heard a child crying outside. It seems to be Xiao Hao in our class, so I went out. As soon as I saw him, he hung his hands around his father's neck, struggled not to go forward, and cried and said, "I won't have an injection, I want to go home." "It turned out that he was crying because he was afraid of an injection. So I called him: "Diandian (the real name of Xiaohao), why is such an obedient child crying?" "As soon as he saw it was me, he stopped crying and called' Teacher Lu'. As I spoke, I walked up to him, held him in my arms, and said, "Come here, good boy, the teacher will accompany you for an injection to make sure it doesn't hurt." You must be very brave, right? " He nodded and obediently followed me into the clinic. He didn't say a word when the doctor gave him an injection. In fact, what children need is the affirmation and encouragement of others. In the usual education, in the accumulation of love for children, children also want to surprise their teachers and let them see their strength. To love children is not to spoil and indulge them blindly, but to be strict with love. This is especially true for children in the lower grades of primary school. It is particularly important for them to learn the truth of being a man from an early age. When I first entered school, some children were always late, or adults were always asked to carry their schoolbags and accompany them to the classroom. So I came to school early and waited at the door of the classroom. Seeing that the children are late, I will say, "Be early next time, or everyone will wait for you. It's impolite to keep everyone waiting. "As for the children who let adults carry schoolbags to accompany them to the classroom, I will say," When a good boy grows up, it's time to carry schoolbags and do his own thing, right? "At the same time, I also told parents to cultivate their children's ability to live independently and not always worry about their children. After half a month, almost no children were late again, and no children were sent to the classroom by their parents carrying schoolbags. The famous educator Si Xia once said, "Giving all your love to your children is the source of career success". As a primary school teacher and head teacher, I have a deep understanding of this. I am willing to cultivate children's innocent hearts with noble teachers' morality. I would like to be a model of wisdom, words and deeds in children's hearts and leave beautiful memories in children's hearts. In short, in teaching and daily life, as long as children, especially those in lower grades, are given love education, they will move from home to school, quickly adapt to school life, make a smooth transition and grow up healthily. In years of education, I have seen children grow up healthily and happily. I am proud, I am proud! As the head teacher in the lower grades of primary school, I have no regrets. About the author: No.1 Middle School in Ludong District
Read the Diary of a Laughing Cat-a turtle that can only smell children.
Once I went to a bookstore to read a book, I accidentally read a book called "Diary of a Laughing Cat-a Tortoise that can smell children", which was deeply inspired. The story mainly tells that the laughing cat found a turtle that can only smell children in the "Summer Palace" of the old mouse. This turtle has lived for a long time and has many ancient inscriptions on it. Ma Xiaotiao's parents will be away for a while, and Ma Xiaotiao and Zhenzi Du will be taken care of during their grumpy menstrual period. When menstruation comes, I am anxious to give Zhenzi Du a schedule in Ma Xiaotiao. There are only six hours of sleeping time and three hours of eating time on the schedule, and the rest are study time. The good times didn't last long, because the tortoise couldn't understand Ma Xiaotiao and the general education methods in menstruation, so the tortoise lost a little and drove menstruation away. Finally, the tortoise feels that with the change of the world, more and more parents want their children to succeed, so there are not many children with childhood in the world. After reading this story, I was deeply inspired. Isn't my cousin two years older than me? Her parents always want her to learn this and that, and take some books that her cousin likes to read, such as "100,000 Why" and "Mystery Detective" as waste books, while her mother buys her many books that her cousin can't understand. But in the end, I learned nothing. A person's childhood is beautiful and essential. There is a truth in what the tortoise said: your heart is like a seed, which was cultivated by your parents. When you just grew a little seedling, your parents forced you to learn this and that, and your childhood was deprived. Childhood is like sunshine and water. Without sunshine and water, seedlings will slowly wither and age. Is your heart getting old?
Damn "summer bug"
Damn "Summer Bug" Recently, the composition I posted on the composition connection network was generally evaluated by a person named Summer Bug. Being evaluated is a good thing. Because you can know your own shortcomings and advantages from it. Who knows that the comments this summer bug gave me are all comments that belittle my composition, and some even contain personal attacks. What do you mean, "just you, still in the fifth grade! What the hell are you? ! It stinks! It sucks. ! ""Look, you are still in grade one or grade two! What the hell are you! " "I see you, there is no hope." "Piss you off! I am so angry with you! " And so on. It's hateful. This summer bug doesn't post articles on the internet himself, but also specifically cracks down on belittling pleasure, damn it! Summer bug is hateful, but one thing I found today makes me hate this summer bug even more. I went to my friend's house to play computer games this afternoon, and suddenly wanted to apply for a screen name of Xia Chong when surfing the Internet (although I already have a screen name). So I put the name summer bug in the author's column. When you are ready to enter the password to register, put the mouse in the password column a little, and Xia Chong's password will appear on its own. This situation will only appear when the computer remembers the password when logging in, but now Xia Chong's password appears on my friend's computer, which surprised me. After logging in a little later, Xia Chong's details appeared, and the email address on it was actually my good friend's. But my good friend was not surprised to see everything, and he didn't show panic at first. But she argued that once a classmate came to her home to surf the Internet and applied for a screen name with her email address. Maybe she did it. But no matter how she defended me, I still thought, "This summer bug may be her!" " "Later, I used her password of another screen name to log in to Xia Chong, and I actually logged in successfully. Suddenly, I was cheated. I didn't expect my best friend to cheat me one day. At this time, I really realized a sentence: "People are not afraid of being cheated. The point is that they have been cheated and don't know it. They still regard him (her) as a friend. "
Visit the Insect Museum
In the fifth grade, the school organized the whole grade students to visit the Xinong Insect Museum. The purpose is to increase our knowledge and lay the entomological foundation for future study. At the entrance of the museum, the students lined up at the door and were led into the hall by the narrator. There is a bust of an old grandfather in the center of the hall. He looks serious and solemn, with a pair of glasses on his nose. The base of the statue is engraved with the words "Zhou Yao", an entomologist. I suddenly realized: Oh! This is the famous entomologist Professor Zhou Yao! Accompanied by the instructor, we walked into the exhibition hall, facing a sea blue wall, on which were written six golden characters of "lofty science, caring for nature, protecting the environment and sustainable development". The commentator told us about Grandpa Zhou's great contribution, works and many deeds. I am amazed at his outstanding contribution to the insect cause in China. Subsequently, we were led into the "Insect Life Museum". There are a row of dragonfly fossils and trilobite fossils covered with glass covers, as well as scorpions soaked in medicine. The commentator told us about the evolution of insects, which benefited us a lot. In the cadence of the commentator's explanation, we unconsciously came to the "Insect World Pavilion". There are so many kinds of insects here that I am dazzled. Among them, butterflies are the most. The students pointed to colorful specimens, talked happily and occasionally expressed surprise. Among them, many are national first-class protected animals. I like butterflies in Brazil best. It's silver blue. With the change of viewing angle, its wings will become various colors. When I stood in front of the two-meter-high barrier "Hundred Butterflies", I seemed to be integrated into nature, as if I were in the country of butterflies. These beautiful butterflies flap their wings happily and fly around me ... It took me a long time to look back and feel that nature is so wonderful and magical. We walked through the exhibition hall of "Insects and Humans" and learned that insects cannot be separated from human protection. I realize that we should protect insects, care for nature and maintain ecological balance, so that all of us can have a beautiful and diverse home.
Insect medicine
Yesterday, my mother was ill and was taking Chinese medicine. Mom told me that there were bugs in mom's medicine. I don't believe it. So we went to the kitchen and poured the residue from the medicine jar into the basin. I rummaged around with chopsticks, looking for bugs carefully. After a while, I caught a bunch of bugs, including five cicadas, six silkworms and seven scorpions. Through observation, I found that cicada clothes are actually cicada shells, with six legs, long front legs, pliers and small teeth. Bombyx batryticatus has short legs and eight feet. I think it must be walking very slowly. Scorpions also have eight legs and a pair of pliers in front. Their tails are made up of many small pieces, and there are stingers on their tails. I didn't expect bugs to be used as medicine. 164