Question 1: How important do you think sex is in the relationship between men and women?
Teacher Zhao (39 years old, dealer): It is very important, perhaps the most important factor to maintain the relationship between the two sexes.
Teacher Ma (24, computer engineer): Sex is an important part of gender relations, but it is not the most important. Because there is love and responsibility. When two people establish a close relationship, they should not rely too much.
Teacher Tang (3 1 year-old, lawyer): I don't think sex can be labeled. Sex has its peaks and valleys, and sometimes it is extremely important and can be said to be fatal. But sometimes having dinner with your lover, quiet and intimate conversation is more important than sex. If you can coordinate your needs with your partner, you know that sex is important, but you should let it happen naturally. You can't have sex for sex's sake.
Teacher (18 years old, temporary employee of the company): Sex is very important in both sexes, but having sex can't play a big role in improving gender relations, and harmonious gender relations can improve the quality of sexual life.
Teacher Zhang (30 years old, teacher): A healthy sex life is very important, but it is more important to get along and communicate.
Miss Li (34 years old, investor): I'm not sure. It's a bit like you arrange your daily work schedule. You think this is the most important thing today, so you put it at the front of the schedule. Tomorrow, you may have more important things to do, so move it to the back of the schedule. That's it.
Miss Sun (26 years old, tennis coach): Sex is a thing, but it is not the most important thing.
Question 2: What is the first and best step for a woman to attract your attention and make you take her seriously? How to make a girlfriend?
Miss Li: Let me know that she has brains, and let me see that she has worked hard and dared to show herself. I'm looking for my girlfriend in the office.
Miss Zhao: Doing stupid things without knowing it, such as forgetting three things and worrying about friends.
Teacher: If I see the woman I like looking at me and smiling at me, I will talk to her or go with her out of courtesy. If I can be sure that she and I are on the same level and have a good impression on me, instead of just flirting with me or letting me entertain her, I will be serious about her. I don't deliberately go anywhere to find women, but I always pay attention to the existence of good women everywhere.
Teacher: A sexy woman in a short skirt can easily attract my attention. This is a man's instinct, but if a woman gets up in the morning to make breakfast for me and bring it to me, I will take her seriously. I met women in bars, dance halls and some nightlife places.
Question 3: How often do you call after having sex with a woman? Have you talked about sex on the phone? What made you stop calling her?
Teacher: I will definitely call her, but it may take a day. On this day, I think of her and hope she can be like me. In this way, when I call her, I know what to say to her and how to say it properly. The topic won't be sex at first, but it will definitely be discussed later.
Teacher Zhang: If she is good in bed, I will call her the next day, but the conversation will not involve sex.
Miss Tang: Even though I know that our relationship will not develop, I will call her to say hello out of courtesy. God, I wish I wasn't the kind of heartless person who threw her aside after having such a close relationship with a woman.
Miss Zhao: Women like to challenge men. I'll call her back in a day or two and explain how much I miss her. I won't discuss the last time I had sex with her on the phone until I see her again.
Question 4: Do you talk about your sex life with others?
Miss Zhao: No, unless it's a one-night stand, because such a fact is really rare.
Miss Tang: I won't discuss sex with anyone except my partner. This is between us.
Joe: Yes, I will tell your best friend like a' sister', and occasionally tell one or two friends at school.
Miss Li: Yes, I will tell others about it. You know, when you pick up the phone, some production partners will ask you if you have had an affair recently. Sometimes, you can't shut up.
Teacher Zhang: Sometimes, I tell my brothers about me.
Teacher: I won't tell anyone, but when two men and women who are so close stand together, everyone will see something in their eyes. Most people know the taste of romance.
Teacher: I talk about my sex life with my best boyfriend or girlfriend.
Question 5: What should I do if I feel anxious about my sex life? What can a woman do to relax you? If this happened the first time you had sex with a woman, would you still call her?
Miss Zhao: It won't be a problem to have sex with a woman for the first time. However, at the stage of developing feelings with women, if women say that I have any problems in making love, I want to make sure that I can satisfy her, which may cause anxiety. If two people have sex, if it's not ideal, then don't say anything, and things will be fine. If a woman says to me, "What's wrong with you?" No matter how hard I try, it doesn't help.
Teacher Zhang: I have never encountered such a problem.
Teacher: Sex is mutual pleasure. Two people cannot be satisfied forever. If she doesn't have any doubts about sex, then I will be relaxed.
Miss Li: I get nervous during the day or when time is limited. Besides, nothing will happen.
Teacher: I often have problems, but women don't help me.
Question 6: What do women do in bed that makes you most depressed or excited?
Teacher: It hit me the hardest to hear her call someone else's name. I am moved by the shyness of women.
Miss Li: I put my job first, but some women always want me to sign a contract with her. She won't let me get up, and she wants me to have sex with her more, which proves that I value her more than work. I'm tired of such women. What excites me most is that I once dated a woman who lived in my building. When she needs to have sex, she walks into my room, says nothing, takes off her clothes and leans back on the sofa.
When I get close to her. After that, she put on her clothes, just like when she came, and drifted away. When I have sex with her, I feel very close.
Don: Women with rude manners discourage me. Once, my wife and I stayed up all night and went to a restaurant for breakfast in the morning. Because my girlfriend was dissatisfied with the waiter, she pushed and shoved the waiter and spilled a glass of water on the table. I sat there, ashamed of my girlfriend's rude behavior. Afterwards, I gave the waiter a lot of tips to compensate for my guilt. We'll talk later. I have never been to that restaurant again, and I have never gone out with that girl again.
Teacher: I hate pushy women. Nothing annoys me more than a woman who is always shouting and opinionated. Especially I can't bear to interrupt my conversation with others easily. As for what makes me emotional? Those sexy underwear with many decorations can greatly enhance my' sexual interest'.
Teacher Ma: A woman's infidelity or indifference and fatigue during sex will make me discouraged. What excites me most is the aggressive, energetic and adventurous woman in bed.
Miss Zhao: I don't like women screaming. You don't moan during sex, you scream. I once met a girl who cried during sex, and almost everyone in the building could hear her crying. My feelings were gone at that time. I like oral sex, and I also like women who have sex with me to swear unscrupulously when making out.
Question 7: What is the first obstacle in the relationship between men and women?
Miss Zhao: Women like to regard men as their own works, which is an important part of their own plans. Some women are always trying to reform me. As soon as I see her motives, I will run away.
Teacher Ma: If she is unfaithful to me, the trust between two people will be destroyed.
Miss Li: I hate it when a woman puts on an exaggerated posture in bed, that kind of pretending passion and action, and then praises how skilled, rare and trustworthy you are. Please, please.
Teacher: I broke up with many women because they were arbitrary. I once dated a woman whose salary was as high as mine. When she goes out to eat, she always insists on paying separately or taking her car out instead of mine. No way! I am a big man, so I have to pay the bill. So, I ended up with her.
Teacher Tang: At my age, women often regard me as a good prey: I am old, not ugly, and have a stable job and income. I once knew a woman who always took me to the jewelry store to find the right engagement ring.
Question 8: Who takes the initiative during sex?
Teacher Zhang: Everyone has the initiative. I like women with a variety of amorous feelings in bed.
Teacher Ma: This is a mutual thing. If I think she cares about me and wants to have sex with me, then I am not wrong.
Teacher: It is certain that men take the initiative. Women send signals, but they don't take the initiative to have sex.
Miss Zhao: I don't think men will always take the initiative. I like women who show their love voluntarily.
Miss Li: I think women should wait for men to take the initiative.
Teacher: It's not that women can't show their love on their own initiative, but that only when men start to act can everything work freely.
Question 9: When you don't love a woman so much, is it possible for you to have sex with her?
Teacher Zhang: Yes.
Miss Tang: You can't say that. Because I have never had sex with a woman I don't love, at least I think I may fall in love with her one day, otherwise, I won't sleep with her.
Teacher: It's impossible for me. Sometimes, I think I don't love the woman I have sex with anymore, but in fact I can't stop loving her.
Teacher: Of course, I love no more than half of the women I have had sex with.
Miss Li: It's not impossible. This is normal.
Question 10: was your most memorable sex without any constraints or restrictions?
Miss Zhao: Yes, of course.
Teacher Zhang: Of course.
Miss Tang: I want to say no, but the fact is yes, yes.
Miss Li: This is a very' ghost' question.
Teacher: This is my most natural question.
Teacher Ma: It's not over yet.