It is said that people come crying, and finally, they leave silently. This does not mean that the world is purgatory, but that purgatory is in the world, but we unconsciously open the door …
Live on thin ice, die once and for all. This "once and for all" is-liberation, that is-letting go. Rest assured of what? What did you write?
It's panic The war is raging, the family is ruined and there is nowhere to hide.
Is a kind of despair! Separation of flesh and blood, looking for the ends of the earth, not life and death.
It's an anxiety! Having a home is like having no home, living under the same roof, but the three countries are always in chaos.
Is a kind of vacant! Life has no direction, and you can't be stable with it!
This is a kind of sadness! Know each other and love each other, but can't be together, yin and yang are separated.
It is a kind of loneliness! Raising children for a hundred years is a long-term worry; Can be full-fledged, gone forever.
As the saying goes: Life is worse than death! I was born fidgety, fondle admiringly, and can't afford it. When you die, it's over, and your skin is no longer bound and tortured by thoughts or spirits.
Apart from life and death, the most terrible thing is that the "heart" is half dead, and it can't see the meaning of living, but it can't ignore everything and live as an empty shell! ! !
Finally, there are more terrible things than life and death. No wifi! hahaha ...
Therefore, people really need to absorb sunlight from time to time, so that the seedlings in their hearts can get the "photosynthesis" they deserve.
Life and death, everyone has to face, whether you like it or not, is a matter of time.
For me, besides facing life and death, there are still some things that I feel terrible.
1, betraying relatives and friends. After establishing trust, one day this trust collapsed instantly. I can't accept it and I dare not face it. In a dark hut, I always can't figure it out and can't find the exit.
2. Open your mouth to admit your mistake, especially the person you love. I haven't communicated with my father for a long time because he is always hitting me. I admit that I have many problems, but I just dare not face him severely, so I try to avoid him.
3. After lying, it is also the most terrible. Everyone has lied, both well-intentioned and malicious, but in any case, facing it with evasive eyes is a person's first reaction. The eyes are oblique, and the evasive eyes tell everything, so I dare not face them. Someone said, are you looking at me? Terrible demons followed.
People's heart and sincerity are the most difficult to face. Just because there is a "devil" living in my heart, I can't sleep at night and I am always afraid of it. Just like a fugitive, he didn't dare to look up at people or hear the alarm, so he was nervous and didn't dare to arrest himself.
In our ordinary life, we will certainly encounter similar "demons".
Open your heart, face it calmly, and take the first step to beat yourself, just like fighting a disease. This is our only choice.
May I have a brand-new self in the new year. People who have sunshine in their hearts are surrounded by sunshine.
If yesterday is over, there will be no tomorrow.
No matter what happens, it is not terrible. Keep going, there will be unexpected scenery.
Only those whose hearts are full of sunshine can warm others.
The ability to love forever. Happy or sad, I decide for myself.
When watching TV and movies, I always feel that where will you go is the greatest pain in the world. It's heartbreaking to think that a beloved person will never see you again!
But after seeing menstruation, I think it is a happy thing to die on her.
Aunt is a kindergarten teacher. In my opinion, she has a gentle personality, never boasted in her life, never quarreled or scolded.
Such a good man is predestined.
I was beaten and scolded by my husband when I was a child. Because he couldn't run out in pain, menstruation and grandpa chased after him, caught him and almost killed him.
The most filial daughter died in her forties.
I always thought that I could live a good life in a few days, but my youngest son drank too much and called names every day, forcing them to transfer the house.
Aunt is a proud person, and she stopped talking slowly, especially after grandpa died. Then one day, her youngest son came home after drinking and forced her to transfer ownership. Aunt stood up in a hurry to go, and she tripped over a stool and broke her left arm and leg.
The 80-year-old man is lying in bed. During this time, she said that she was cured. The eldest son felt sorry for her and had a minimally invasive operation. As a result, he had a stroke and could not take care of himself at all.
During the hospitalization, the younger son didn't let her go. Every time he finishes drinking, he goes to the ward to make trouble.
My aunt hasn't said a word since she was in hospital, and she hasn't even opened her eyes. You can't bite your teeth and close your mouth when feeding, and you can't hit the nose tube.
In a word, life is worse than death.
After suffering for half a year, the old lady finally left.
Everyone thought the old lady was relieved except her little son who didn't benefit.
Of course, disobedience will come to no good end, and the liver ascites caused by the younger son's drinking is karma!
Besides life and death, I think what people are most afraid of should be the helpless process of waiting for death!
I've seen people who want to commit suicide after drinking paraquat. A person who wants to commit suicide is usually not afraid of death. But unfortunately paraquat has no solution, giving him time to regret, but not giving him a chance to turn over a new leaf! At first, he was talking and laughing, and he knew his mistakes, but his family thought it should be all right. When he arrived at the hospital, he realized that there was no solution! Death is inevitable! At that time, I began to regret, I began to regret ... he was really sad when he was waiting to die!
People's death is actually only a moment, which is scary, but when they really die, how can they feel scared! What really scares people is the helpless process of waiting for death!
May everyone be healthy!
Wukong, thank you for your examination.
Many years have passed and I have experienced many things. I have faced the death of my loved ones, my own life and death. There are not many things that can scare me, especially at critical moments, and I naturally developed a more calm and rational handling procedure. But many years ago, when I just left the state-owned enterprise and started my first job, I was really scared. My hard-working list was stopped by the old salesman, and I robbed three or four orders, and there were two big orders, including 300 thousand orders from the second textile machine at that time. For them, grabbing the bill is to grab more extra money, but for me, whether I can pass the internship period is the key to life and death. I argued with the company manager, and she said flatly, I don't think you are suitable for business. You'd better find a typist or something in the future. I also know that Manager Liu Juan likes those two old salespeople very much, because their performance accounts for more than 50% of the whole department.
After resigning in anger, I was very scared. I don't know the way ahead. What can I do? In particular, I smashed the iron rice bowl of state-owned enterprises with all the pressure. Although my father didn't complain, he only said: The first two months were too hard, go home and have a good rest, and then look for it slowly after work. I live in fear all day and can't sleep at night. Everything I learned from primary school, such as poetry, songs, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, is useless. The scholar said that it was me.
The most important thing is that I am less and less aware of myself. People are getting more and more depressed and less confident. I feel like a trembling grass in a storm, and like a boat in a stormy sea. There is no light, no hope, and I deeply failed my father's hope. This is my father's burden, not his pride. Lacrimosa doesn't want to meet people everywhere all day. I don't want to end my life like this, become a loser and be abandoned by society, but there is nothing I can do, and I can't find my way out and hope. I am a useless waste.
Thank God, my former high school classmate sent it on this day. After seeing me, he patiently listened to everything I said and only told me flatly: if a job makes people lose confidence, it is a bad job.
A word, like an awakening, woke me up in a daze. This sentence changed my life, "confidence"! If I don't even have self-confidence, what place do I have in society? More than half a year after this sentence, I have been an assistant manager of the purchasing department of a chain enterprise (the manager is the boss's younger brother, in name only), actually presiding over the daily work of the purchasing department, with eight or nine subordinates, all male, and even a 45-year-old old guide. My classmate is an important person in my life. Every time I meet at a party, I appreciate his help.
This job in the purchasing department is the real starting point of my career. I used "self-confidence", "courage" and "perseverance" to walk through the most difficult road of honesty in the world. I won't allow my subordinates to bully new employees, no matter how many days that person can live, because I have always been in an unparalleled position in business. I pay more and higher than the company requires, and I work hard with all my strength. I only compete with myself.
I knew many years ago that no matter what disaster I encountered, there was nothing. As long as my "confidence", "courage" and "perseverance" were still there, I could still make a comeback. Therefore, I am most afraid of losing my magic weapon in life: "self-confidence", "courage" and "perseverance"
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The most terrible thing is to die alone.
I think the most terrible thing in life is to die alone.
When I was a child, many people in the countryside cursed others for being lonely and old. Even now, some people use this sentence to curse others, meaning that they have no children, no relatives, and are alone, regardless of sickness and death. This indirectly shows how terrible it is to die alone.
It is also a terrible thing to die alone in modern society, especially when an old man lives alone in a high-rise building in the city. It was once said that his parents were just across the street. He didn't know that his parents had been dead for a week. This old man with a child is still the same. What about women without children?
No children, no daughters and no wives, good health is good, and poor health is even more bleak. In the middle of the night, a person was sick and wanted a sip of water, but he couldn't get up, but no one sent a sip of water. Or fall to the ground and can't get up. This is the most terrible thing.
So please treat your other half well, cherish ta and let ta grow old with you.
When people need company most in life, they are old. It is enough to have a lifelong companion to accompany you, be caring and attentive, and bring you tea and water.
July 20 18, I suddenly had stomach bleeding and vomited blood several times, which almost scared me to death. I really thought I was going to die. On the way to the hospital, my real thoughts in the ambulance: It seems that I am going to die, it's my turn, what should I do if my son dies! Where are mom and dad? The doctor will definitely save me. Then I told my dad about my insurance policy, Alipay password, bank card password and other things in the car. I refused to get off at the hospital. I told my parents to take good care of my son, who is unfilial. The result is acute gastric bleeding, drinking and drinking. Scared me for two days. After this time, I really figured out that money is good, but it can't save my life. Only the closest people can never leave. Now exercise every day, give up drinking and smoke less. I'm really scared. Living is very tiring. Since we underestimate life and death, we are fearless. But I'm afraid, afraid of death. After the divorce, the burden of my family fell on me. I can't afford to die!
What I fear most is loneliness and darkness.
Maybe I'm different from many people. I am afraid of loneliness, the feeling of being abandoned, and the darkness. This may also be because I contacted the outside world alone earlier.
/kloc-When I was 0/4 years old, I went to another city to study alone. Other children will be accompanied by their parents. My parents let me rent a house and live alone because I want to make money. I may be the only person in my class who has to face everything alone. My mother said it would give me exercise. It's hard for me to recall the time when I went to school alone, ate alone and slept alone. In a small room, I have a table by myself. At night, I will make a creaking sound, which is very harsh. I curled up in the corner of the bed in fear and cried helplessly. You will fall asleep when you are tired of crying. Every night, I don't know how I fell asleep. I only remember crying in the quilt and waking up to dawn. I don't know how those three years came. I have no memory, and I don't want to recall. Until now, I am still alone and have no habit. I just changed from being unacceptable before to being afraid now. For five years, I didn't like to talk because of depression. I like to shut myself in my room and sit there. I'm afraid that night will come, and the party in the dark will make me short of breath, as if to breathe.
This is what I fear most besides life and death, darkness and loneliness.
There is no denying that when we really face death, many people will be afraid, especially when we face the death of our relatives and ourselves. We will feel sad, helpless and even afraid, but what's the use of being afraid? The laws of nature, no one is spared, can only accept!
Compared with intuitive life and death, we live in different environments and have different experiences. Everyone is always afraid of things, such as lack of money, darkness, loneliness, lovelorn, parents' illness, children's poor education and so on.
Personally, when I was young, I was afraid to go home, especially when I saw my neighbor uncle who often made fun of me.
My family lives in a remote and backward village on the edge of Tengger Desert. The living environment and natural conditions are relatively bad. My family is a poor household in the village. Because I have more children and less work, I am the third daughter of my parents. As we all know, my parents are looking forward to having a son.
When I just had a little self-esteem, my neighbor's uncle often made fun of me and said that my parents wanted me to be a boy, but my parents had no idea that their children would be hurt by the heavy burden of life.
I became very withdrawn and my mother had a bad temper. When we do something slightly unsatisfactory, she will beat me up, so after I entered junior high school, I was very afraid to go home.
In the first month of 2008, my father was diagnosed with advanced esophageal cancer, and the climate in our family suddenly became gloomy. Although my father was almost 70 years old at that time, no one could accept such a deadly disease coming to his relatives. The word "cancer" has become a scar in my heart, fearful and painful.
After the operation, my father became the "lucky dog" of cancer patients with his tenacious will and love for life. Although he slept uncomfortably and ate happily after the operation, he still waddled through life until now, and the pain and fear gradually disappeared from me.
Now my son is about to grow up. As he grows up, I am more and more worried about his future, fearing that he has no good future.
From birth to old age, we will experience many things, some of which are expected and some are unexpected, but in any case, everyone will be afraid of certain things at some time, and these things are often things that they have experienced and sting their hearts.
Besides life and death, having no faith is the most terrible thing!
When I first joined the work in my twenties, I felt that growing up was as terrible as those aunts who were gossiping in the office in their forties and fifties. But with the passage of time, age is not what I fear most, because I found the value of experience.
Later, she divorced and took care of her daughter alone. I think having no money to raise a child is the most terrible thing. But through my efforts, my promotion went smoothly, and I seized the opportunity of the skyrocketing market and earned my first 500,000 yuan. I don't think it's terrible to take care of the baby alone. As long as I live with my brain, I can always earn money.
Then I got married and managed hard-won happiness with my heart. But once his ex-wife forced him to divorce me because she didn't want her children to go to school. People who heard the news at that time were shocked, as if they suddenly returned to the water from the other side of happiness. Because children are involved, I thought we would compromise. Fortunately, both parents came out to persuade him, but they didn't go that far in the end.
But at that moment, I deeply felt the feeling of despair and lack of faith.
When you don't love, you can survive even if you have material difficulties and beliefs. When I was still in love, I lost my faith and really wanted to abandon everything for an instant.
Without faith, the terrible thing is that you don't care about anything, even life and death.