Comrades often talk to Dr. Ask M. What is the best frequency of sexual life? The reason why I ask these questions is that I hope to have a correct guidance on the way of sexual life; The second is to worry that too much sex life is harmful to health; Third, the two sides have different requirements for the frequency of sexual life, hoping to have an objective standard. What kind of sexual frequency is the standard? It can be said that there is no recognized standard since ancient times. Dong Zhongshu, a representative of Confucianism in the Western Han Dynasty, advocated that "hunger is a trivial matter and humiliation is a major event". In summing up the art of sexual intercourse in the Spring and Autumn Period, he said, "Because of this, middle-aged people are twice as old as newcomers, beginners are twice as old as middle-aged people, middle-aged people are twice as old as old people, and the oldest people are on the same day as heaven and earth." The general idea is that young men can do it once every ten days, middle-aged men can do it once every twenty days, and those who are weak will be doubled. The book "The Secret of the Jade Palace" is more relaxed than the Confucian standard: people can give it once a day when they are fifteen, once a day when they are weak, and once again when they are twenty. On New Year's Eve, the prosperous person can give it once a day, and the second person can give it once every two days. Forty, those who are prosperous will be given once every three days, and those who are empty will be given once every four days. Fifty, the prosperous can be given once every five days, and the weak can be given once every ten days. Sixty, the prosperous can give once every ten days, and the weak can give once every twenty days. Seventy, the full can be given once every 30 days, and the weak do not have diarrhea. Both "giving" and "expelling" refer to ejaculation. Sun Si, a famous doctor in the Tang Dynasty, described the frequency of sexual intercourse as follows: a person said ten sentences and relieved it every four days. 30-year-old, discharged on the eighth day. Forty, sixteen and eleven. 50 people will be discharged from the hospital on the 20th. Sixty people, that is, turn off the sperm and stop draining. If they are strong, they will be lost in 1 month 1 day. Visible, China ancient experts have different views on the frequency of sexual life, which can be said that different people have different opinions. What is the current situation of sexual life frequency of modern people in China? Let's take a look at the results of a survey of 20,000 cases of sexual civilization in China hosted by Professor Le Dalin: among urban and rural couples, the average number of sexual intercourse per month in recent years is below 11.8% in cities and 7.8% in rural areas; 2-3 times a month on average, urban couples account for 30.5%, and rural couples account for 21.1%; 24.6% of them are in cities and 29.8% are in rural areas. 6-7 times a month on average, city 18.8%, 26. % in rural areas; 8- 15 times a month, urban 8%, rural 1 1.4%, having sex almost every day, urban 1.9%, rural 2.2%. The average number of sexual intercourse per month in urban and rural areas is 4.8. Another survey report in China shows that among 100 middle-aged men aged 40-49, according to the number of sexual intercourse per month, there are 27 1-3, 78 13, 4 10 and 15. These survey data show that under the same circumstances, the frequency of sexual life varies greatly, especially among middle-aged people aged 40-49. It is a far cry from 1 time a month or less than 1 time a month and less than 20 times a month. So it can be seen that the frequency of sexual life will not have a universal truth. Modern scholars agree that "it varies from person to person, let nature take its course". This means that everyone's sexual desire and sexual intercourse ability are different, and they don't insist on consistency. As long as the frequency of sexual intercourse is acceptable to both partners, and you don't feel tired, weak, low back pain and other physical discomfort after sex, it is normal. The data shows that the frequency of sexual life of gay men is higher than that of the general population, while that of lesbians is the opposite. However, the individual differences in frequency are really great. For example, a 40-year-old gay couple who just got along, although they are 25 years old, think that the frequency of sexual life may exceed that of couples who have been together for three years. The reason is self-evident. Dr. Mi once heard a saint mention a "nine-nine table" of sexual frequency, which was really fun. The algorithm is simple. A 20-year-old man is "29 18", which means "eight times a week"; The 30-year-old man is "3927", that is, "twice a week", while the 40-year-old man is obviously "three times a week", and so on, and the 70-year-old man is "six times a week". If you want the appropriate frequency of Dr. ask m, "Jiujiubiao" is a good answer.
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