Curious, competitive, one-sided vanity.
With the development of the body and the expansion of social communication, the self-esteem of teenagers is increasing day by day. However, this self-esteem is easily distorted by the pursuit of vanity. For example, one-sided vanity is used to satisfy one's curiosity, competitiveness and psychological desire for self-expression. In recent years, the number of teenagers smoking and drinking is on the rise, mainly because of curiosity, which makes them look like adults, easy to make friends, more relaxed, natural and unrestrained, generous, competitive and so-called "psychological rebellion." Some girls excessively pursue dressing up and emphasize high consumption before they go out of society. If this kind of bad psychology is left unchecked, it may go astray.
Dissatisfaction with spiritual and cultural life
Many teenagers in rural and remote areas share this mentality. They think that their real life is far from the way of life in books and movies, and their cultural life is poor, or they are overwhelmed by the increasingly heavy study burden and have no time to enjoy the fun of cultural life. The dull and monotonous life can't meet their spiritual and cultural needs, and they are dissatisfied or bored. In order to enrich their spiritual life, they will blindly seek spiritual stimulation and so-called joy in society. It is conceivable that if it is allowed to develop, what kind of consequences will be produced.
Immature love psychology
Due to the development of physical developmental psychological activities and the influence of objective environment, teenagers gradually have a good impression on the opposite sex, and the courtship psychology begins to sprout. However, limited by their knowledge structure, knowledge level and life experience, their understanding of love is still superficial and hazy, which seems childish and immature. Some people are eager to find opportunities to experience the taste of love, so there will be unhealthy phenomena such as puppy love, unrequited love and polyandry. These immature love psychology is harmful to oneself, others and even society.
Sexual Mystery and Sexual Impulse Psychology
After entering adolescence, due to the rapid development and maturity of sexual function, teenagers are interested in sexual knowledge. However, due to the relative lag of sex education for teenagers in China, a considerable number of teenagers have a certain sense of sexual mystery and ignorance. Driven by this psychology and the above-mentioned immature love psychology, people often lack sufficient understanding of sexual morality and sexual civilization, so that they can't control the temptation of external bad factors, which is easy to produce sexual impulses and eventually lead to deviant behavior and serious consequences.
Degrade one's inferiority complex.
Inferiority is a defect in the development of teenagers' personality, which degrades their ability and quality, and may be accompanied by some special emotional experiences, such as shyness, guilt, sadness and self-blame. Inferiority often affects interpersonal relationships, thus deepening inferiority complex. A large number of facts show that low test scores, repeated scores, frequent criticism, and even appearance and figure do not meet social aesthetic standards may be the reasons for inferiority. Inferiority can easily cause teenagers to give up on themselves and not strive for progress.
Right and wrong fuzzy psychology
Most teenagers are not deeply involved in the world and have shallow experience, which is easy to produce ambiguous psychology. In addition, some parents or teachers adopt closed education methods, which leads to various rebellious psychology of teenagers, which will lead them to distinguish right from wrong, run counter to the correct guiding ideology of education, and even go astray.
Adolescence is a very sensitive growth stage, and young friends should pay attention to adjusting and balancing many psychological misunderstandings during this period.
We should strengthen the cultivation of our own social, cultural, moral and psychological quality. If we have any bad psychology, we should show courage and perseverance to overcome and get rid of it after discovering it, and strive to make ourselves useful.