The "year goal" made me look forward to the arrival of 20 19 for the first time.
Because of this article, I got excellent students, and the article was also pushed by Yong Cheng's official WeChat account.
At that time, I felt that these eight days had been an overvalued and overweight investment.
Unexpectedly, a month later, I was still frantically making annual goals. And if it wasn't the deadline for handing in homework on February 26, 65438, I wouldn't write the answer sheet here, I would probably do it for half a month!
I'm still in class, I want to improve, I want to explore, I want to ...
I think I'm enchanted.
I am a rational person, and I don't believe there is magic in this world.
However, that made me frantically spend 40 days in my spare time exploring what even foreign group buildings would hide in hotel rooms for classes. What is this?
Before the annual goal course of "Advanced Intensive Edition" began, Teacher Yong Cheng asked a question in the group:
The friends racked their brains to answer a bunch of answers, but they had no appetite, path dependence, limited resources and environment, mismatched nutrition and indigestion. The breeder refused to eat the panda, and they had no money to buy cakes and bananas for cooking. The panda had no psychological representation of those things. ...
Teacher yongcheng's teacher said:
At that time, I was full of expectations for the exploration of "identity" in subsequent courses.
So in the next month, the most time I spent was "doing my homework" and the most time I did was "clarifying my identity":
The first tool for identity clarification is the identity balance wheel. It divides the identity of present and expectation, and here I only post the identity of expectation.
After completing the expected identity clarification form, I feel full of positive energy flow.
Teacher Yong Cheng said that the identity clarification form he expected was sealed with plastic and carried with him. I feel a sense of "solemnity", as if to say:
So I decided to wrap it with plastic wrap, one on the front wall of the box and the other in my bag.
PS: When filling out this part of the form, I recorded some of my thoughts/feelings. Due to the limitation of space, I presented them in the form of documents:
Feeling of Filling the Balance Wheel of "Year Goal" —— Listening to Morning Rain
For the 2 1 expected identities I published before, I filled in 2 1 "Identity Clarification Form".
In the process of filling out the form, I got stuck in the "key milestone" link. Some identities don't know how to dismantle milestones, such as people with awe, lifelong learners and mothers of teachers and friends.
I tried to search the past &; Extract the interpretation of these identities on the internet, and list and analyze those examples that I think have this identity, but still have not got the dismantling results of milestone events.
My understanding of "milestone" is a bit like achievement event, which is the direction and goal of guiding action, but all I get from my analysis are some behavior notes, which I don't think can explain "milestone".
So I took it to the group and asked Mr. Yong Cheng, and Mr. Yong Cheng suggested that I do it by coaching:
Seeing the teacher's reply, I didn't understand what the teacher said at first. I think I didn't get the answer I wanted, or my question was wrong.
What do those identities mean? What kind of behavior (image) have I basically achieved through the following three means:
1, imagine yourself
2. Online learning
3. Example analysis
I know I can have some beliefs, principles and standards of behavior to guide me to that identity.
However, what milestones can I pass from my present identity to my future identity? I have never been able to separate them.
So, I am confused. Should I tear up milestone identities, or milestone events (results), or maybe they are not that important, so I can put them aside first?
The teacher saw that I couldn't do it, so he took me directly and did it once in the group as a coach (inner os: Teacher yongcheng coached it once, which was valuable, and he earned it on his own initiative).
In the process of following the teacher, I found the answer.
I call it "staged answer (hypothesis)". With a staged answer, I can start trying to do it, and then constantly revise my assumptions.
This counseling method is really effective, but I haven't really experienced it.
After that, I filled out the form smoothly.
When I finished filling out the 2 1 form, it was already past two o'clock in the morning, and I felt a kind of joy in my heart, not only because I finished filling out the 2 1 form and completed the task, but also because of the great power that identity clarification brought me:
PS: I also attach some thoughts/feelings that I recorded when filling out this part of the form.
The feeling of filling in the "annual goal" identity clarification form —— Listening to the morning rain
The glory timeline is a key milestone in filling out the identity clarification form according to the timeline.
When I tried to fill the key milestones in the domain identity clarification table into the glory timeline table, I found two problems:
First, when I fill in my key milestones, although I know that there is a progressive relationship to write, there will still be some cases where the order is reversed without taking the year as the premise;
Secondly, I found that some key milestones were written about task events rather than result events, so when I filled in the glory timeline, I could only filter out some result events from the key milestones.
So, I did two things in turn:
1) I went to my domain identity clarification form and looked at the items written on the glory timeline and the items written as "task events" in key milestones. I want to make another revision after the annual target homework is completed.
2) I added the year and time mark of the achievement after the milestone I wrote in the glory timeline, which helped me to go back and say whether my expectation and distribution of the achievement were reasonable.
After these two things were done, I thought, why did I fill in the glory timeline before I thought of doing these things? This seems a little behind!
Can I reverse improve the domain name identity clarification form from the product?
I started, and I did the following:
Look at the results:
I'll print it out for Mr. S (he is doing it), and Mr. S said that it is much more difficult to fill in this new form because it must be thought out clearly.
This is a good thing, so he has been using this watch ever since.
I also thought that I would have to fill in the 2 1 identity clarification form again when I finished the time-limited task.
PS: Attached are the detailed thoughts/feelings I recorded when I filled out this part of the form. "Year Goal" Glorious Timeline Fill in Feelings-By Listening to Morning Rain.
The phrase "internal logic has grown up" appeared in an article by coach Yu Yue. The first time I saw it, I was moved like an electric shock.
I suddenly know what makes me so convinced.
I am an overly rational person. In the analysis of disk behavior style, I am big C.
All the things that can make me truly feel the identity from my heart must be things that can be logically explained smoothly and thoroughly.
Teacher Yong Cheng has a strong ability to break down complex problems into logically clear structures, which is fully reflected in his courses.
He is very clever. From the beginning, he took us to "self-exploration" with an efficient domain map.
Teacher Yong Cheng cited her own example and defined eight fields, including "learning and growth, career development, wealth and material, physical health, family happiness, social relations, inner care and meaningful contribution", covering all the fields we pursue in life.
As soon as I saw it, I thought it was what I wanted.
Because it conforms to MECE principle (mutual independence and complete exhaustion), it has very high interpretation efficiency.
Any subdivision we write, such as friends, face value, travel, repaying parents, gratitude, choice, learning and so on, can belong to one of them.
Starting from the key field of life satisfaction, we have experienced the tool list related to this field, such as life satisfaction balance wheel, domain extraction strategy, identity balance wheel and domain identity clarification. I have to say that the division of this field is really advanced.
When I thought this was good, Yong Cheng gave me a heavy weight-the list of tools for domain structure analysis, which made me feel "very advanced" more and more.
I have listened to the course "Domain Structure Analysis" for five or six times. When I first heard this part of the course, I felt an involuntary "Wow!" This feeling.
It brought me the biggest harvest is:
This inspired me to think about some questions:
A. meaningful contributions and material wealth are the result areas.
Teacher Yong Cheng often said that we should "work hard for it" instead of "work hard for it" to avoid short-term interest traps. This is basically the strategy/principle in these two fields.
Here, the teacher cited an example of financial management, saying that no matter how financial management, there are only some benefits, and it is not enough to think about Qian Shengqian.
I think, even if I get more wealth through financial management, I still have to work hard in lower fields, earn more money and get more principal in the field of career development; Learn the knowledge of financial management in the field of growth and manage money scientifically.
B. career development and social relations are areas of competition.
The field of competition is the focus, which can bring achievements and wealth, and can be an important breakthrough in other fields, so we should do more.
At the beginning, I put learning and growth in the competitive field and social relations in the basic field. Teacher Yong Cheng is the other way around. Social relations is a competitive field, and learning and growth is a basic field.
Learning and growth are the foundation of all progress and achievements, and the key is personal input. From this perspective, it is more reasonable as a basic field;
Social relationship is a scarce resource, and it is essentially a field that needs us to compete with others. The key is to take the initiative and establish interpersonal relationships. So from this perspective, it will be more active to put social relations in the field of competition.
C. internal concerns are non-competitive areas.
Teacher Yong Cheng said that the non-competitive field needs "enthusiasm", which is the first time I heard "enthusiasm has methodology".
For example, just find something, do it, and set a time, such as 2 1 day. Nothing can surpass this, and even a miracle may occur.
So I have always felt that I have no enthusiasm for the development of some hobbies. It turned out that I didn't invest enough and gave me courage.
In addition, after the teacher explained this situation, I suddenly stopped worrying about my lack of hobbies. Everything has a focus and an order. From the perspective of balance and development, it is no problem to focus on the competitive field and basic field at present.
D. Learning and growth, good health and family happiness are the basic areas.
Teacher yongcheng's teacher said:
This concept refreshed my cognition.
This reminds me that in the past, when I was clear about my identity, I had different degrees of difficulty in filling in my grades in three areas: study and growth, physical health and family happiness, because these all belonged to continuous maintenance after a certain foundation.
So if I don't have any big problems in the basic field, then I will find the smallest key points to keep, such as:
Teacher Yong Cheng said that our core expectation for the whole year must include our expectation for the competition field, and this expectation is the most worthy of our time and energy.
I have "awakening" in this place, because I looked back at my three expectations on 20 19, and I didn't even have a direct "expectation in the competitive field"!
The three expectations of the novice version of the course are:
1. Improve the expressive ability to 80 points with practicing Chinese characters and writing with phonetic notation as the core.
2. Complete the study of a subject knowledge or skills every month and show the results to train your learning ability.
3. Accomplish the concept of family parenting with Mr. S to help children grow better in self-management and cognitive thinking of subject knowledge.
Although expectations 1 and 2 are related to the competition field and lay the foundation for the future competition field, they are not direct enough and tend to lay the foundation for "learning and growth".
There are two factors leading to this result:
First, I think my current career development has entered a bottleneck period, and immediate thinking and expression is an important bottleneck for my current development, and I try to break through with the realization of this expectation;
Second, I don't have a clear ability circle cognition and career development direction.
Teacher Yong Cheng said that although the foundation is important, you can't keep laying the foundation for ten or twenty years without results! This reminds me of something.
So, I adjusted my first two expectations:
Competitive field
-I want to dig deep into the product field and shape the image of product experts and industry influence through the practice and output of industry and amateur projects. Someone pays for me.
Learning growth field
-I want to follow the example/tutor and complete the in-depth study of six subjects' knowledge/skills on 20 19 and show the results. Someone will pay for me.
Both of these expectations, I brought a small tail of "someone pays for me". Because, I think I need to start from the results and see if anyone will pay for me. This is an important criterion to test my learning results.
In addition to attending classes and doing homework, I have completed more than 40 tool lists and done a lot of related practice, which has gained a lot.
1) according to the requirements of the preview homework, I completed my achievement events in 20 18 and sorted out "my 88 achievement events in 20 18". In 65438+February alone, I added 1 1, which is my intention to keep the achievements on the basis of 88. The arrangement of achievement events made me abandon those negative comments in my mind and see a positive and energetic self.
2) Xiu Yan Jie (yongcheng partner) saw the course comments in the homework written by the newcomer and thought that my product ability might be good, so she asked me to complete several advanced testing tasks: First, self-combing, including 10 events, achievements and other people's evaluation of my first half; The second is to study the transformation of the novice version of the course. I designed the questionnaire for the first time, and started to "infiltrate" yongcheng's team by combining the questionnaire and private chat, constantly trying, iterating and giving feedback.
3) June 65438+February 1, Sister Xiuyan asked me to help experience a version of the community notice, which received rave reviews. Sister Xiuyan immediately arranged for the partners of the operation group to study. (I saw that the notice received much more feedback in the group than the daily notice)
On the same day, Mr. Yong Cheng and sister Xiaoya were attracted to join the crowd because they actively fed back the problems of the three-person team system to the operation team and provided solutions.
Later, I was invited to discuss the operation problems and solutions of the annual target course with Xiuyan's elder sisters, Lemon Jia's elder sister and Shouxin's elder sister, and the opinions and suggestions put forward attracted everyone's attention and affirmation.
1 all day, until midnight 12, I was still chatting with Xiuyan's sister.
My sincere dedication won me a surprise gift.
4) Because I found that notice modification has strong improvement ability, I received three notice modification tasks in succession, one for course preview introduction video modification and one for business plan modification.
All these have been well received and used.
Regarding community message notification, I also wrote a summary "181203-what about community message notification?" -By listening to the morning rain
5) Influenced by the small partners of the target class Yongcheng in "In", I gave up the "five strokes input method" that I used for many years from the perspective of growth and marginal effect, and switched to the "small crane double spelling" with higher input efficiency, and I have left the five strokes, PC &；; Mobile phones always use double spelling, trying to speed up.
In the meantime, I also gave up the paid tick list and used a more efficient daily account.
I found that my thinking mode is slowly changing, and I pay more and more attention to growth and marginal effect.
6) Participate in the task of "Arrangement of Essential Skills of Happy Evolution Society" and output "18 120 1- How to make a knowledge card with curtains-by listening to the morning rain", which won the praise of the experience officer. During this period, I found that reading other people's information is completely different from my own understanding and gain of redoing information.
7) Referring to the self-introduction methodology of Yong Cheng and Yu Yue, I output a self-introduction with the most satisfactory version:
181201-"self-introduction" exercise-I feel much stronger potential energy by listening to the morning rain. I sent two groups that day, and many people came directly to add my friends.
8) Because the new version of my self-introduction describes the results of the fourth Spring Festival Evening and Lantern Festival in IP camp a year ago, it attracted friends from Yueneng camp to share.
Because Mr. yongcheng and Mr. Yu Yue are at the forefront, we can't admit cowardice and fear conflict. So I stayed up late to publish on time and successfully completed the sharing-"181218-how to plan a club activity well? -By listening to the morning rain.
Although it took me a year to make a comeback, I was impressed by enough investment at the beginning. The quality of my sharing is not bad, and the feedback from many small partners is very useful. I also observed that Yugo applied some skills that I shared when I authorized the camp.
9) Sister Xiuyan told me that she felt that I was the most user-friendly one among her friends and invited me to do a product project together, and I agreed.
Not only because this is something in my ability circle/major, but also because I want to be close to this excellent team and Mr. yongcheng.
10) Teacher Yong Cheng's invitation came as a bit of a surprise. I think I still need to make achievements in the project that Xiuyan's sister said, in order to attract Mr. Yong Cheng and ask him to be my tutor. I didn't expect him to come so early.
Teacher yongcheng said:
I am so happy that I can fly ~
With teacher yongcheng willing to take me, my 20 19 will fly!
So, you said, "Learn from Mr. yongcheng and set annual goals". Is it magic? Yes, there is.
Believe, do it, and you will understand.
Every Monday to Friday, there are questions and answers in the group at 5 pm. Everyone was silent every time they answered the question.
So, one day, teacher yongcheng sent this passage:
I suddenly felt a little ashamed. Yes, isn't that what I am?
Then I immediately sent feedback to the teacher in the group to answer questions. The teacher found that I didn't say the key point of his answer to my question and took me to the scene to be a coach. This is the advantage of the typical "timely feedback to the other party".
I still remember one day, a little friend came to ask me a question, and I answered her patiently. Later, she gave me a knowledge card, and I suddenly felt a sense of accomplishment and identity.
This learned a lesson from this incident:
If I do this in the future, it will definitely trigger more chain chemical reactions and bring me more gains.
I think I will be a grateful person, a well-connected person, and a proactive and altruistic person.
Yong Cheng's thinking mode is several energy levels higher than mine.
One day, I saw the word-for-word manuscript shared by the teacher when answering questions, and I was immediately attracted.
-A total of 10 higher-order thinking modes. I feel like I have found a treasure.
Although there are no unfamiliar, unfamiliar/difficult articles in it, I learned it in July and August when I chewed Yong Cheng's official WeChat account and model library, but it was still a little shocking to come out in this way.
So I made two pictures and shared them with my friends in the group as screen savers.
After becoming a screensaver, I watch it many times every day, deliberately staying to remember. I hope to turn them into my subconscious, into my decision-making principles, and affect me forever.
I think, if I do this, I will definitely become a better person, a person full of wisdom and an omnipotent person.
At the beginning of the annual target course of Advanced Intensive Edition, Mr. Yong Cheng sent the following picture.
At that time, when I looked at this picture, I didn't feel anything special except that it was "so complicated".
Here, I feel that Yong Cheng's annual target class has given me much more gains than I expected. Moreover, this is the time when I still have a big module class-"Life Strategy Map".
How can I thank him?
Follow him and be myself.
Let's start with the next 20 19, and look forward to it!
I hope that one day, I can also empower Yong Cheng.