If a child is diagnosed with mental health problems, parents should first adjust their mentality. Parents should face up to and accept the fact that their children are ill. Only when parents are emotionally stable can they give their children a better rehabilitation environment and support.
In addition, we should avoid two extreme manifestations:
First, parents are too strict with their children before reflection and decide to "repent" and completely let their children study and live. This is not recommended. Even with depression, children should maintain good circadian rhythm and living habits, exercise properly, avoid indulging in games and networks, and accompany their children to travel, which is good for emotional regulation.
The second misunderstanding is that parents think that their children's illness is not so serious. When they are depressed, they may show their addiction to the internet. In fact, this is their way of adjusting their emotions. At this time, parents need to guide and encourage their children to do their own hobbies to adjust their emotions.
Why are teenagers prone to psychological problems?
1, due to its own reasons
Adolescence is a special stage in the process of human growth, and it is an important transitional stage for individuals from children to adults. At this critical stage, the hearts of teenagers are sensitive and contradictory. On the one hand, they want to be independent and get rid of their dependence on their families, on the other hand, they don't have enough ability to get rid of this dependence easily. The contradiction between reality and ideal is constantly intertwined, which constitutes their extremely complicated emotional washing state.
2. Family reasons
Family environment and family relationship have a profound influence on the psychological construction of teenagers. Although today's teenagers are "well-fed and well-fed", many teenagers are burdened with high expectations. In today's society, many teenagers are only children, and parents' expectations are pinned on one person, which inevitably makes people breathless. Moreover, unfortunate news in the family breaks out frequently in society, and the disharmonious family atmosphere will make teenagers lack the warmth of the family, which will lead to bad psychological States such as loneliness and inferiority.
3. School reasons
At present, the teaching in many schools is still centered around the word "achievement". Students keep studying hard and competing for places, ignoring the all-round development of students, which is very unfavorable to the healthy development of teenagers' psychology. Too much emphasis on "grades" will bring great psychological pressure to students, which is not only not conducive to the improvement of students' academic performance, but also harmful to students' psychology. If you stay in this state for a long time, teenagers will easily have bad psychology such as weariness, anxiety and jealousy.
4. Social reasons
Everyone lives in society and cannot avoid being influenced by things in society. In society, there are many things that are not conducive to the healthy development of teenagers' psychology. Some places with irregular management, such as song and dance halls, Internet cafes, game rooms, etc., will illegally allow young people to enter consumption, and these places are not suitable for young people. Teenagers are also easy to get in touch with some pornographic and violent movies through the internet, which will have a huge negative impact on teenagers' immature psychology.