Liu Qi, known as "emotional dad", recently set up a "compound training camp". My first reaction is that if he is love rat, the sooner he breaks up, the better. The sooner you break up, the luckier you are. What can he get back? Later, I found that fortunately, Qilu was not confused. He said he would say, "Under what circumstances, we will never get back together."
Let me go first. If it's love rat, let's split up and leave love rat before it's too late.
Girl, please cherish your life and stay away from love rat.
1? The story of Juanzi.
Juanzi is a girl with both talents and looks. She is fair-skinned, and her height is 1 m 7, which is higher than other girls. She is easy to stand out from the crowd, but she is quiet and gentle. When I was a graduate student, a male classmate, D, chased her like a dog drooling over her bones. She was diligent and clingy, and D succeeded.
After being in love for three years, I continued to study for a PhD, and D returned to work in a provincial capital city. Juanzi doesn't think it's a problem to leave home. I will go to him after graduation.
She didn't notice the change, or she never doubted each other. D said the most to Juanzi is busy. He is often too busy to contact anyone. I can't come to see her at school because I am very busy; I forgot to call back or text, because I was busy. Juanzi went to see him in different places during this time. Later, Juanzi's mother suddenly fell ill and suffered from breast cancer, and Juanzi stayed with her all the time. Juanzi's mother said one day that I was relieved to see you get married.
Juanzi asked D to meet, she proposed, and he broke up. Juanzi is stupid.
She didn't expect this at all. She doesn't understand why. In the months of asking for reasons, D first gave a reason, "I don't deserve you" (hypocritical excuse, why did you go so early? Do you think you are worth it when pursuing others? ), Juanzi refused to give up, and later said, "My mother doesn't agree" and "My family doesn't agree". Juanzi refused to give up. Finally, he said, "Our family thinks that you may get this disease like your mother in the future, and we can't get married. Let's split it. " This sentence is like pouring a bucket of cold water on Juanzi from head to toe for three or nine days, and then making her stand in the snow all night. It's cold and my heart is full.
In fact, there is a follow-up. Juanzi later learned that after D worked, the family introduced the daughter of a bank president who worked in a bank. In fact, she changed her mind and betrayed Juanzi, but she must hurt him deeply. While secretly dating someone else to get married, I stabbed her in the heart and told her to get out. Juanzi said that he just told me that he likes someone else and wants to marry someone else. I'll leave him alone, but why did he do it? It hurts too much.
Girl, because he is love rat, his character is worse than shit. Unfortunately, there is such a love rat in this world, and even more unfortunately, you met it.
First, you can't trust him more than yourself. He doesn't contact you, you call him, he doesn't answer. Your relationship has changed. You must have noticed that you are deceiving yourself. I don't think so. I believe he won't lie to me. I don't believe that he will cheat. No, girl, the only person you should trust is yourself. You always trust your feelings, so that you can choose the right clothes, choose the right major, choose the right university and trust your feelings. In the dark night, you will choose the bright road instead of the dark, dreary and creepy path.
Second, people's hearts will change. He told you that he liked you for 10 thousand years, and he also told another girl that he liked you for 10 thousand years, the same person, the same lines, and his heart changed. How to compare? For example, if you eat meat buns every day, then you don't want meat buns, and you don't like meat buns anymore. You want to eat steamed stuffed buns, bread, hemp balls and fried dough sticks. . . Of course, people are not buns, and feelings are not eating buns. People should be responsible for their feelings. I'm just making an analogy to prove that people's hearts can be changed. So if you find something wrong, you should get out early (alas, it's a pity that most girls will be trapped by love and get stuck in the mire).
Third, after breaking up with love rat, you may not get out for several years, but believe me, when you get out of the haze, you will find how lucky you are to break up with love rat. Being with love rat is just a waste of youth. Isn't it more terrible to marry love rat? The sooner we break up, the more we save our time and stop spending it on people who are not worth it. What a wonderful thing. In addition, after seeing love rat, you will naturally know the opposite of love rat, and your ability to recognize people will be better, which will help you to know a good marriage.
2 Huawei lobular door
This is the true story of 20 14 in Huawei. A girl distributed leaflets in front of Huawei, accusing love rat and San Xiao. Some of the original leaflets were too big, so I avoided them. The general content is that they have been in love for a year and a half, and the man took care of her, so he got the license.
Then, the woman found out about the license, but the man didn't tell his mother. After the two quarreled, the woman decided that the man was cheating, and the man made every excuse. In a XXOO between men and women, the woman actually wanted to have children and proposed not to use condoms. The man disagreed, but she filed for divorce immediately afterwards. Then another night, the man tricked the woman into not using condoms, but when it came to that, he pulled it out again. Afterwards, he said that his parents didn't want them to have children. He said that if they couldn't, they would go their separate ways. The woman also ran into the man and Xiao San making out in the parking lot of the unit. She couldn't figure out why she was having an affair with other women and lied to herself to go to bed, so she went to the door of Huawei to distribute leaflets for exposure.
Is it stupid? This woman is really stupid, cheated and handled in a stupid way.
First, "there are only zero and countless times of derailment." If you tolerate it once, be prepared to tolerate it again. The question is, I ask you, why do you put up with it? You can make money with arms and legs. What are you afraid of if you don't eat his rice or his noodles for the first 30 years? Anyone who leaves this world can live.
Second, don't try to save your marriage by having children. It's unfair to children. What do you think of having a baby? Chips to make him change his mind? If a man changes his mind, five horses can't be pulled back, even his own children, but he doesn't love you. Will he be responsible for the children you have? Will he like it? Don't suffer for yourself and continue to be irresponsible to yourself.
3. What is the marriage certificate for? Marriage certificate is not a decoration, and not everyone can get married without a certificate anyway, so we got one. Marriage certificate is legal proof. Even though women are still in a relatively weak position at present, the law has not yet established a mechanism to let men go bankrupt because of cheating. Girls should also know the law and use legal weapons to safeguard their rights and interests. If you find your partner cheating, don't cry, don't make trouble and don't hang yourself. It's no use. You should quickly collect evidence and go to court. He wants a divorce. Compensation for mental damage The person who hurt you should pay compensation. How can you let him get married and divorce at will? Marriage certificate is so easy to open. If a baby has an affair with a man, he must be forced to give alimony to his wife and children every month. Babies can't be made by themselves, and marriage can be divorced. He must bear the main responsibility for the divorce caused by his cheating.
Fourthly, in order to protect myself, I don't suggest exposing love rat's crimes by distributing leaflets. First, it is likely that love rat will bite back and accuse you of invading privacy or something; Second, a lot of private life information, including sex, is released in the form of leaflets in a conservative family environment, which is not good for girls themselves; Third, will his company fire him, and will his colleagues around him despise him? His punishment is a piece of cake compared with your pain. If this company fires him, he can change his company and even his city. What is the contempt of others? As long as he is cheeky enough and has no lethality at all, love rat has no sense of shame. It is better to go through formal channels and resort to legal means. You have a certificate.
3? Female reporter committed suicide by jumping off a building for love.
201165438 2006+1In the early morning of October 27th, female reporter Duan announced in a circle of friends that her boyfriend had cheated before marriage. "Pan Ao, you have become too fast in just a few days, and you don't even have room to buffer me. You owe me a favor and a promise in this life. . . Sometimes I wonder how much I love giving up everything, even my life. Parents and all those who love me should not be too sad, don't stay up late, don't wake up, don't get hurt again, rest assured, you should be happy for me. " He hasn't answered her phone for a day and two nights, and Duan is outside her new house at the moment. After writing this passage, she jumped from 1 1 building and ended her life at the age of 29.
This incident has attracted a lot of attention on the Internet. I flipped through Weibo before Feng Dan, and my heart ached more and more. This is a woman with deep feelings. Her kindness and sweet words will never be forgotten until death. Faced with such pain and betrayal, she chose to end her life. Not worth it, girl. Look at those photos you took abroad before. The world is so big, you are free. You are only temporarily overwhelmed by pain, but as long as you get through it, you can set your mind free again.
First, you are still so young, and you still have a long way to go. When you meet this part of love rat, try to cross it! If you are depressed because of lovelorn love, or can't get out of the emotional shadow for a long time, you can seek professional help, such as a psychologist. Don't think you have to be seriously mentally ill or crazy to see a psychiatrist. If you are unhappy, have a knot in one's heart and feel depressed, you should slowly get out of the predicament through psychological counseling.
Second, girl, you should give yourself a chance, give yourself a chance to be happy again, eat all the delicious food in this world, visit all the good scenery in this world and read all the good works in this world. You should try to love yourself, not for anyone, because you are unique in this world. So, please eat and sleep on time, think about your favorite food, clothes, colors and smells, and live for yourself. Girl, even if it's really hard, you don't want to jump off a building or cut your wrist. If you have the kung fu, you might as well think about it. Why didn't love rat jump off a building? Don't lose the whole world just because you lose one person. Forcing love rat to jump off a building is your skill.
4 secret love
In Divorce Lawyer, Sebrina plays Luo Kun, a shrewd and clever lawyer who is abandoned by his boss and becomes a mistress. She was cheated by mistress. In the underground romance with the boss for several years, it was an office romance, so everything between them was unknown to outsiders until the boss's wife appeared in the company, facing the same unknown original match, Luo Gu's heart was bleeding, but his face could not show it at all. Like swallowing a broken tooth, Luo Gu left his boss, resigned and changed his job. Of course, we all know the ending. Luo Kun and Wu Xiubo played Chi Haidong together.
The stem of this story is that both women are victims, and only one person knows the truth from beginning to end. This man is love rat, who knows people's hearts like the back of his hand. Therefore, even if the boss is a famous lawyer, rich and talented, he is still love rat. Speaking of which, I have to say, girl, if the person you love doesn't love you, his position, money, job and status have nothing to do with you. Even if he has feelings for you, you have a shady relationship, so his position, money, work and status have nothing to do with you.
Many girls want to entrust a man for life on a whim because they think he is excellent, but apart from hardware conditions, his heart is the most fundamental. Compared with his CET-4 and CET-6 level, education background, annual salary, buying house strength, personality is the most important consideration.
I know that even if the IQ of a woman in love is not zero, she has a fuzzy function with its own aperture, which adds luster to the advantages of the other person and blurs the shortcomings to be negligible. We have experienced the sweetness of love together, we have completely given our true feelings and sincerity, and we have completely caught up with youth and sincerity. Even some girls are hurt to pieces in a love, and they are reluctant to let go. When they wake up completely and get out of the haze, they realize how pitiful and hateful they used to be, wasting their time for people who are not worth it.
Girl, please cherish your life and stay away from love rat. An animal like a man is a lonely medicine for women, but the medicine should not be eaten indiscriminately, so we must find a reliable one.
Girl, self-love is king, and heterosexual love is icing on the cake. No matter whether anyone loves you or not, you should love yourself.
Girl, whether love rat won the lottery for 5 million yuan or was killed by a car when he went out, you should turn around and leave, and everything about him has nothing to do with you from now on.