A huge emotional difference:
In the eyes of women, this is a way to communicate feelings. Through verbal communication and emotional communication, they can better feel their partner's state and adjust their love strategies.
At this time, women feel cheated. Why didn't he talk to me? Don't you believe in yourself?
On the surface, I am curious about his daily life, and I want to know more about him. In fact, what I get to the bottom is the expression of love.
Therefore, a healthy relationship will inevitably find out the communication mode that your other half is used to.
If he is not good at language communication, you can increase the part of physical communication and pay attention to his eyes, behavior and movements. What these details reflect is sometimes more real than sweet words.
In language communication, we should also engage in post-examination and turn it into real emotional communication, guide him to actively share interesting things in life, and leave him with appropriate personal boundaries. Instead, he will often talk to you because he likes you.
However, if dialogue and communication become stale, it will bind and hurt each other in the name of love, making each other breathless and making each other just want to escape communication with you. When they accumulate to a certain extent, the relationship will break down.
When intimacy and transparency are excessively demanded, the relationship will be full of burden and boredom.
If in a relationship, one party has a high-frequency and intensive desire to chat, but the other party can't satisfy it, and he becomes cold, refuses to reply to messages, refuses to communicate, and evades conversation, then we must clearly see the other party's needs, find a suitable communication mode, and switch the conversation mode, so that the relationship can heat up.