October 21, Guiyang, Guizhou Province, a funeral being processed in front of the funeral hall square dance, cheerful music in front of the funeral hall is particularly abrupt, attracted passers-by have stopped to watch. After the video was sent to the Internet, it immediately caused an uproar, some people have condemned, this behavior is disrespectful to the dead. But the response, obtained after much understanding, said it was a local? Customs? The custom is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is happening in your neighborhood.
1, the square dance of the joy and sadness of the deceased out of place. In our country, parting is a very serious thing, for the deceased has been respected the concept of the dead is great, so that the dead into the ground is a very important thing, and in the whole process is a more sad atmosphere, dull. But a family in Guiyang, Guizhou is doing funeral, but in front of the funeral hall square dance, and sophistry called traditional? Customs? , said out can not help but make people laugh. Square dance is the rise of the rise in recent years, in front of the dead square dance called a custom, can not help but let people find it difficult to accept, in the name of traditional customs, doing something against the tradition of things is to let many people can not accept.
2, this ? ugly custom? should be abandoned. This kind of behavior can not be called a custom, can only be a local people an ignorance and even childish practices, this practice hurts many people's psychology, for the deceased and his family, this is likely to be another psychological damage. Loss of family grief and joyful scenes to blend, is a very should not appear the scene, this kind of ? bad custom? should be immediately eliminated and discarded by society, and should also be condemned by the nation.
Many absurd and ignorant behaviors have been staged with great fanfare under the title of traditional customs, which are not allowed and should not occur. A civilized society, should not appear these ridiculous behavior, for traditional customs, should take the essence, remove the dross, and should not be unreasonable inheritance, traditional customs of the four words should not be for some ridiculous and ignorant behavior back.