Ting and her husband was married by the son, the down payment to buy a house or the two families put together to the pressure to pay the mortgage so that Ting Ting two people feel the pressure, so after giving birth to the baby 6 months Ting Ting returned to the workplace, the child has been placed in the countryside grandmother's home to raise every holiday Ting Ting only went back to visit now many young couples due to the pressure and chose to turn the child over to the elderly with the old man, the old man is willing to help you with the baby that's the blessing, the two families can relax much, but also to help you with the baby. The two couples can be much easier, young people should be grateful. That if the elderly with children have the following three main performance, treasure mother or their own with it, the ultimate child's healthy and happy growth is important!
One, give the child snacks without restraint
Everyone has seen a boy in the mall, the old man accompanied him to the mall, as long as your child fancy snacks, the old man agreed to buy. The boy opened his mouth wide, significantly able to see a mouth full of yellow and black teeth, but also crooked, people at first glance did not have a good impression. The child's teeth into this way, and usually love to eat snacks and do not brush their teeth properly unrelated. There are some old people too spoiled children, only children to eat to me, but also do not understand the restraint, bad teeth is a small matter, feeding into a small fat damage is higher.
Two, do not want to let the child do
The old man is too hardworking, no matter what to do are hands-on, usually also do not want to use the child, and even eat hate to carry the bowl chasing after the child ass feed. The child lacks the opportunity to go out, will become what kind of person? It will become more and more serious rely on others, lack of independence, difficult to adapt to the environment, and poor resistance to frustration.
Three, too protective of the child
The biggest problem in intergenerational education is that the elderly are too spoiled children, can not see the child to eat a little bit of suffering, even if the child made a mistake are not teaching, and even block the child's parents education. This kind of favoring the child's behavior will cultivate the child arrogant and irresponsible temperament, into a rude "bear child".