"As the next generation, it is an indispensable responsibility to let your parents live in peace. And because of the parents living habits and mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is not good to make the son of a very embarrassing, some old people are always other people's daughter-in-law good, their daughter good. Some daughters-in-law of their own mother is the mother, mother-in-law only as a servant." In fact, it is only one-sided understanding, and ideological reasons, with the progress and development of society, people's ideological concepts and will change, after marriage, not only will be good to their own parents, but also to the other side of the parents of their own good. Just social progress and development of the same, the change of ideas and concepts to have a process.
Because of family planning, the vast majority of families in the current five years or so are only children. As the only child's family, as the only child's parents, there is a comparison? There isn't. It's either a son or a daughter, so there's a comparison of whether the daughter is better, or the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are better. When an only child marries, she can inherit inheritance and property from her parents' family, including the accelerated urbanization process, the expropriation of the daughter's house and land, and the daughter's share of the inheritance. As an only child, after marriage, she can live in both the man's and the woman's parents' households, and the children she gives birth to can take either the man's or the woman's family name. As an only child after marriage, it is obligatory to take care of both the man's parents and the girl's parents.
In the past, the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship can not be as sweet as the mother-daughter relationship to get along, in addition to the differences in the formation of each person's education and living environment. Differences caused by the environment which is there, but now young people's thoughts and ideas more inclusive, including the mother-in-law's mindset is also updated with the development of society. We see that many mothers-in-law nowadays dance in the square when they have nothing to do, go out and travel, see the outside world and broaden their horizons. In the past, mothers-in-law were always worried that their daughters-in-law would steal their sons from them, that they would treat their sons badly and that their sons would suffer, but nowadays mothers-in-law don't think that way, they are all in the same family, and they all want to work for the harmony and happiness of a family of people which is the most important thing. Knowing that the son to find a favorite daughter-in-law is not easy, can not afford to offend, they live their own life is important. As a daughter-in-law, also know and men married, to live a happy life, you must love the man's family, you must improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a family will be happy.
In the past, the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship can not be as sweet as the mother-daughter relationship to get along, may have to blame the son. Because of the parents habits and mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is not good to make the son of a very embarrassing, not the son's embarrassment is the son's incompetence, is the son will not deal with the role of the bridge in the middle. As a man should mediate and communicate. In front of the mother to say that the daughter-in-law's good, to use their own money for the mother to buy daily necessities, such as clothing, said the daughter-in-law purchased. In front of the daughter-in-law, to say that the mother-in-law's good, parents every day to the meal as a hair waiting for the daughter-in-law to come back to eat.
Home is a warm harbor, home is not a place of reasoning, home is a place of love. As long as everyone in the home to pay sincere feelings, home is happy and happy.