November 24th I received the second sister from the hometown of Heilongjiang called, said son December 7 wedding, let me go back some days. Put down the phone, I looked at the calendar, from the nephew's wedding day there are thirteen days, time is short, I must seize the time to make arrangements for the family, this time, I have to go back to my mother's home to live a few days.
Since ten years ago, our family left Heilongjiang to Jilin business, there is little time to go back to the beginning of the year to the end of the year can only rush back to a trip, sometimes and brothers and sisters for two or three years can not see on a side. For this reason, the furthest away from home I became the relatives of the worry, they are looking forward to I can go back to live a few days, the family together to make out. In fact, why would I not want to? But I'm not sure if I can put it down and walk away from it, but I'm not sure if I can put it down and walk away from it.
After two days of preparation, I was on November 27th at 5:30 am, with the return of the mood of the arrow on the train to the north.
Along the way, what I saw through the window was the depressed scenery along the way and the scattered villages, compared with the high-rise buildings in the city, they are like stars scattered in the night sky. Seven hours later, the train whistle into the Harbin station, I with the flow of passengers out of the station. As the saying goes, "Winter solstice is short, summer solstice is long." It's only two o'clock and the sky is approaching dusk. I do not dare to stay for a moment, out of the station and hurry to take a taxi to Daowai passenger terminal. The road vehicles, especially more, helpless cab stop and go, I due to motion sickness, two hands propped up in a plastic bag spit out more bitter than Huanglian green water, but also do not forget to urge the driver to try to drive faster, I want to catch the last class from the city of Harbin to the Zhao Yuan bus. The driver helplessly shook his head and said: "The road conditions in Harbin City are like this everywhere, I try my best." About half an hour later, the cab stopped, the driver shouted to me station to, I lifted up the head of dizziness, from the bag out of the money to the driver, and then wobbling out of the car, stood on the side of the road with the wind to sober up a little bit, and then back and forth to see the direction of the left and right and then carrying a travel bag across the highway and around the guardrail into the station. Just pushed open the door, I heard the "shouting station" people yelling about the different directions of the bus. I hurriedly bought a ticket to Zhao Yuan, ticket sellers told me to hurry to the nine checkpoints check, I wore two-inch high heels even run with a bump to check the ticket stirrups, to the car to see a car full of people, I've been walking to the end of the car, just sat down on the car opened.
The bus out of the city of Harbin on the highway, along the way to pass through Zhao Dong, Zhaozhou to Zhao Yuan. The bus on the highway at breakneck speeds, the window, the sky is getting darker, the driver turned on the small red light on his head, because it is a long-distance car, so the car is very quiet, not long, the carriages out of the sound of snoring. I sat in my seat just looking down and vomiting, the cell phone in my bag rang one after another, it was my second brother and my eldest nephew calling. In the morning I called them at the station to say I was coming home today and asked my eldest nephew to pick me up in Heshoga, it was dark and they were anxious when they hadn't seen my call yet, that's why the phone was ringing one after the other. I was powerless to tell my brother and nephew where my trip to where. From Zhaozhou to Zhaoyuan halfway down only one of me, I threw up in the dark, the car is a little dim, I worry that the driver will forget to stop, so every now and then to ask again, three and a half hours of driving makes me feel like half a century. The car finally stopped, the driver called me out of the car, I was confused, away from the crooked out of the car, squatting on the side of the road and open make vomit. The car drove away, I stood up and looked around, it was dark five meters away from the invisible objects, the road was not a person, I discerned the direction to go home, and then back on the pocket staggered forward a few steps, and suddenly saw a silhouette walking toward me, I heard a question: "Is it the old aunt?" After tossing and turning all day to finally see my relatives, I excitedly replied: "Great nephew, it's me." Speaking, people have come to the front, the great nephew one hand took my shoulder backpack, one hand to help me ask: "old aunt, this way you vomit how ah, all right?" I smiled and replied: "Nothing, as long as the vomit does not die I have to go home." Big nephew heard me finish also laughed. Big nephew helped me to the car, I saw the nephew and another nephew I do not know standing in front of the car waiting for me, nephew also asked and big nephew the same words, I smiled and said: "big nephew, this is your wedding, otherwise I do not come back, this way the motion sickness, almost did not vomit me to death." On the car, I instructed the nephew to drive to the front of the Limin food store to stop, I give the children to buy some food to take back, great nephew laughed and said I: "You are what kind of, but also want to buy food for them, hurry home, and so on, when you get well tomorrow to buy it again." Said all the way to the shortcut to the door of the second brother's house, the second brother has long been waiting at the gate, he opened the iron gate, the car slowed down and turned into the yard parked in front of the house. Over seventy years old mom and sister-in-law are welcome out, nephew opened the door, I seem to be an old lady as crooked as a car, surrounded by relatives into the house on the kang, closed his eyes do not dare to open, open the want to vomit, lying in the kang feel kang are shaking, as if still traveling on the bus. Every time I come back by car, I get carsick and vomit like this, so my family knows that I have to lie down and rest when I enter the house, and I have to wait for me to rest for a while before I can say anything.
Half an hour passed, and my sister-in-law, my great-nephew, my little nephew, and my little nephew-in-law all came. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good look at it. More than nine o'clock, sister-in-law and his entourage went back to sleep, the second sister-in-law asked me if I was hungry, to go to the kitchen to give me rice, I said no, I go to the kitchen to eat it, I lifted the lid of the pot, the pot is hot rice and "old man fish", all the way to the car vomited as if the stomach inverted, at this point, see the delicious food will be devoured, after a full meal to return to the house. After a full meal back to the house to continue to lie and mom's brother's sister-in-law nagging will be rested.
The next day, get up in the morning, all right, rested overnight, the body back to normal.
After breakfast, I softly let the second brother ride a motorcycle to take me to the Luminous Food Store, to the two little grandchildren to buy some food back. At noon, two cars parked at the door of the second brother's home, from the car down is the eldest sister's nephew and nephew-in-law, the second sister's nephew and not married nephew-in-law, big brother's nephew and roughly daughter-in-law, the second brother's family of nephews and nephews daughter-in-law, a line of people in the hands of a big pocket of small pockets of the things one after the other, laughing and joking into the house. Mom asked in surprise: "Where are you coming from?" Little nephew said with a smile: "milk, we just came back from Zhao Yuan, my old aunt came back, I buy some food, the night are here to eat, let's get together." After saying that, he called his mom to go down to the ground to cook. The second sister-in-law let the little nephew went to find the big brother and sister-in-law, the two sisters-in-law in the kitchen in a short while to make the meal. Dinner, because there are many people, a table can not sit, the second brother suggested, big brother, second brother and I, the three of us sitting in the living room on the coffee table to drink, big brother also said: "Today, the old sister came back, happy, the three of us drink some." I drink beer, big brother and two brothers drink white wine, I picked up the wine first statement: "I first toast big brother and two brothers a glass, thank you for the hospitality of the relatives, I first dry for the toast." I said I drank it all. Big brother smiled and said: "Aiya, my old sister line ah, these years in the outside exercise is good, but also can drink. Today I am really happy, forty-four years (I am forty-four years old this year) the three of us sat together for the first time to drink, today have to drink more." After saying that, the elder brother picked up the wine glass and drank a big mouthful of white wine. The second brother then said: "sister, you are home, but also say what thank you words, you are far from home, do not often come back, the remaining four of our sister often meet for dinner, this time back, you stay at home for a few more days, in a few days, the second brother to give you to kill a pig to eat." After saying that the second brother also drank a big mouthful of white wine. The three of us drink is hot, attracted the younger generation of nieces and nephews to join the banquet, was the eldest brother and second brother laughed and blasted out, the second brother said: "Today we drink on the three brothers, who do not want." Big brother said: "Our brother and sister for more than forty years to sit together for the first time to drink, you follow the stirring of what, go go go, you to the house to drink to go. In a few days, I call the big sister, the second sister back, we sister five sit together and drink." The younger nieces and nephews laughed and said, "Don't want us to get involved, let's go to the house and drink." After that, they all went into the house. Words more and more, the more the wine drink more pain, turn big brother and two brothers half a cup of white wine to see the bottom of the ground, I also two bottles of beer down, I said: "big brother and two brothers, today are drinking almost, don't drink, stop here it." The second brother did not agree, said today's drink happy, open another bottle of beer, a person poured a cup, today's old sister back happy. As a result, the two brothers because I came back to happy, white wine and beer are drinking big, mom care about me, asked me to drink more than, my mouth said no more, in fact, also confused.
On the morning of the third day, my nephew drove me, my second brother and sister-in-law to visit my sister and brother-in-law in Xiaowanzitun, and it so happened that my sister and brother-in-law went to Zhao Yuan by car, and no one in the house, only the lock of the door. The second brother said: "have come out, do not go back, let's go to the second sister's home to see it." So, the car turned around and pulled us to Yumin second sister's home. Just pushed open the door of the second sister's home, the second sister was happy to welcome out with a smile, she patted me on the shoulder and said: "Sister, you can come back, your nephew the first ten days and I said, I'll be a lifetime to take this marriage, my old aunt if not back, I'll be and she has nothing to do." After listening to my second sister's words I was a little surprised, and then said with a smile: "So my nephew cares so much about me ah, thanks to me coming back, or else I will have to have nothing to do with me in the future, which can not be." Everyone laughed and went into the house.
The second sister's west house is being renovated, and the newly bought furniture and appliances are temporarily placed in the house where they are not in the way, so it looks like the house is very messy. The first time I saw this, it was a very busy day for my sister's family, and our arrival only added to the chaos. After dinner in the second sister's home, the second sister stayed with me, I quietly told the second sister: "I just came back, mom and I haven't kissed enough it, before going out also urged me to go back today. Tomorrow I lead my mom to come, live down and not go." I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
On the fourth day, early in the morning, my sister opened the phone and said that her family kills geese, let me go to help pick goose feathers. In fact, I know that picking goose feathers is false, let me go eat goose meat is true. I can't help it, last night, my great-nephew daughter-in-law told me to go to her house, also to kill the goose, I can only say with my big sister that I can't go today, I'll go tomorrow.
After breakfast, my mom and I came to the front yard big brother's house. Push open the door of the house, the house is steaming, the ground put five has killed the goose, sister-in-law is busy in the pot on the steam goose (steam goose: is to goose feathers good plucking.) When my sister-in-law saw me and my mom coming, she said, "Come on in, I've steamed two of them." Mom and I took off our shoes and went to the bed to pick the goose feathers together with my elder brother. After a while, my eldest nephew's daughter-in-law came over after cleaning up the house, and she said, "Old Auntie, see how fat my goose is? We'll cook one tonight and pick the biggest one for you to take back to Jilin." After listening to my nephew-in-law's words I was warm and touched ......
On the morning of the fifth day, we were having dinner, the big sister's phone called again, I said: "Big sister, a moment after dinner we will go." After breakfast, my great nephew drove me to my big sister's house with my mom and my little nephew-in-law. Big sister's home and big brother's home, push open the door in the house are hot and steamy, the difference . The difference is that the eldest sister's husband is steaming geese and ducks in the pot, and the eldest sister is plucking goose feathers. Seeing that we came several people, brother-in-law smiled and said: "I know that you come a lot of people, I killed more than ten ducks and geese today. It's enough for you to pluck for a day. Older sister, if you pluck a few today, I'll get you a few when we leave." "Really?" I said jokingly. "Of course it's true, this year your sister raised more than forty chickens, ducks and geese." Also really hit brother-in-law's words came, it was almost dark before picking. Brother-in-law after steaming geese and ducks on the brush pot cooking, and so we picked duck feathers rice is also done, stewed duck, steamed blood cake, in addition to fried two dishes, brother-in-law's cooking is very good, this I have long known, a sumptuous dinner let me eat is full of wine and rice, it is dark, the little nephew daughter-in-law, they drove back, I and my mother in the eldest sister's home to stay down.
On the sixth day, after dinner, my mom and I went directly to the second sister's home by car. The second sister's house is busy decorating the new house, help work more people, I can only help my sister cooking fried vegetables. In the evening, nephew and fiancée from Zhao Yuan to buy things back, said two mattresses are still missing did not buy, sold mattresses are too thin. The second sister said: "then don't buy, tomorrow I go to the second station with your aunt to buy you cotton and mattress surface, we do it ourselves." The nephew's daughter-in-law said, "That's fine." After that, we all went back to the house to rest.
On the seventh day, when I got up in the morning, the sky was cloudy, and the northwest wind was blowing very cold, which was the coldest day since the beginning of winter. After breakfast, my second sister and I rode our bicycles separately (because of the motion sickness of doing buses.) We went to the second station to shop for our nephew's daughter-in-law. From the second sister's home to the second station of a round trip of more than ten miles, I have not ridden a bicycle for many years, the legs are not under control, back to the second sister's home off the car, legs are shivering. Into the house after the rush and mom, two sisters together to nephews renewed cotton mattress, the second mattress is not done, the second brother rode a motorcycle to pick up my mom and I go back, the day is cold, pork can be frozen, tomorrow to kill the pig. The second brother said he wanted to kill the pig before I went back to Jilin and wanted me to eat more pork. The second sister spoke up: "Since your second brother has come to fetch you, you can go, and I'll sew the rest of the mattress myself." Second brother said: "Old mom, you wait here first, in a moment I will go back and let your eldest grandson drive to pick you up, I will pack my old sister back first, she can't make the car, second sister, tomorrow all your family will go early." So, I and my second brother in the flurry of snow riding a motorcycle to go, just out of the door, the second sister's nephew came back from the outside on business, he saw me sitting on the motorcycle to go, he hurriedly put on the body wearing a down jacket off, thrown in my lap, this is the motorcycle has been started to go, nephews stood at the door shouted: "Auntie, put the clothes on, it is cold do not catch a cold. " I took my nephew's down jacket to look back, my nephew is only wearing a small shirt now in the biting wind and snow, my tears instantly blurred eyes ......
The eighth day, the second brother's family to kill the pig. Early in the morning, the second brother called relatives and friends to notify everyone to eat pork. In the countryside, the three seasons of the year are busy, only in the winter to get free, usually there is no big deal, so only to come to the VIP or relatives only kill pig slaughter sheep, and then friends and relatives to get together, there is no pig sheep on the killing of chickens, ducks and geese, in order to show enthusiasm.
We ate pork in the second brother's house and left, before leaving, the big sister told us to go to her house tomorrow to eat pork, tomorrow her family also killed pigs. I joked: "You either kill pigs or kill chickens, ducks and geese to let me eat, when I go back, not fat drop can not walk ah." The company's website has been updated with the latest information on the company's website, including its website.
On the ninth day, my nephew drove us to my sister's house to eat pork. The day after tomorrow is the nephew's wedding day, our party in the eldest sister's home after dinner and take the great nephew's car directly to the second sister's home. That evening, my cousin drove my old aunt to the house as well, and when she saw me, she said, "Lao San, I haven't seen you for more than a year, and when I called your mom and heard that you had come back, I came here today, or I planned to come back tomorrow." I pulled my aunt onto the bed and sat down beside her to get close to her. The previous winter, I called my aunt and said I wanted to eat a goose, and she said, "I'll save it for you, and when you come back, I'll stew it for you." I thought it was all said and done, but, when I went back home to visit my old aunt the following summer, my old aunt said: "Lao San, you said you want to eat goose, my old aunt has been in the freezer for you to keep it, early in the morning out of the melted on the moment to go to you to stew." After listening to the words of the old aunt my eyes and wet ......
The tenth day, know close to the relatives are a day early to come, three aunts and six aunts, four uncles and five uncles, cousins, full of a room full of people, during the day, we are busy feeling a moment on the past, to the night, years of relatives who do not see each other who are not looking for a place to go to sleep. Everyone in the kang group sitting around, you a sentence he said, nagging ...... because we all know that tomorrow the wedding is over, everyone will go their own way, so, we sat the whole night, said the night.
The eleventh day, today is the nephew's big day of marriage, the day dawned, the fiery red sun left the horizon, slowly rose, cold for many days the temperature actually rose back, everyone tsked: "This kid is blessed ah, look at this day is more good." After breakfast, to participate in the wedding people came one after another, the house has not been able to sit, so they have to go to the hotel, 10:30, the wedding car came, everyone rushed to entertain guests from afar to send the bride, to be all seated, the wedding in the famous "Red Rose" orchestra under the auspices of the master of ceremonies grandly began, people have to put the blessing and applause! People have given their blessings and applause to the most beautiful bride and the most handsome groom today, wishing the couple love each other and grow old together. The second sister's family entertained the guests who came to the wedding with the most sumptuous food and wine.
In the blink of an eye the wedding was over, and the well-fed people left off and on.
I said goodbye to my second sister's family and got into my nephew's car with my second brother, and a short while later, the car stopped in front of my sister's house, and we got out of the car and went into the house, I came to say goodbye to my sister's family, and my brother-in-law heard that I was going to leave, and he got up and went to the barn and put two geese and two chickens into a silk bag for me. We raise our own, do not feed no feed, pure green, you spend money to buy are fed feed, not as good as this." The hospitality is difficult to resist, the second brother filled with chickens and geese bag into the trunk of the car, I said goodbye to my sister and brother-in-law on the car, my eyes once again wet ......
A few minutes later, we got off the car in the big brother's house, the second brother took the bag down from the car, to welcome out of the big brother said: "Take the bag! Take the house to go, chemical I chopped up the chicken and goose, old sister back to the car good to take." Since I came back, I live in the second brother's house, big sister's house, second sister's house, the only big brother's house is still a night did not live it, this is not, big nephews directly to pull me to his home. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it.
On the twelfth day, after breakfast, my sister-in-law put the soaked rice into her pocket, and then my nephew drove my sister-in-law to the Limin Rice Factory to grind the sticky rice noodles. Only left me and my big brother and mom at home, at this time, the second uncle's cousin came, he came into the house and said with a smile: "Big Aunt and the third sister are here, I thought the third sister in the second sister's house did not come back it, the third sister came back just right, I killed the pig, a moment you all go over to eat pork." I said: "Brother, forget it, I won't go, sister-in-law panning rice, a moment to beat the rice back also hair flour it." Cousin heard me finish a little upset, he said: "Third sister, this you're not right, this is you back in time, or I kill pigs can not go to Jilin to find you to eat pork. One o'clock dinner, you and big aunt, big brother and they all early past it, I still have to find others to go." After saying that, my cousin opened the door and left. After sending my cousin away, I thought about it, I'd better go, it's not right not to go. So I waited for my sister-in-law to come back and went with her to the kiosk, bought two boxes of things to take to my cousin's house to eat pork.
In the evening, mom and sister-in-law are busy sending noodles, I let my big brother to accompany me to the third uncle's home, my big brother took the flashlight and I went out the door, and went to the kiosk to take two boxes of things to visit the third uncle three aunts and uncles.
It turns out that I a *** have four uncles, has died three, now only the only remaining third uncle. To the three uncle's home, three uncle hurriedly put down the hand is busy string of sorghum straw curtains, three aunt poured me a cup of sugar water, I saw the three uncle's home on the kang is also in the hair surface to steam the beanbag. I and the third uncle just said a few words, the third uncle opened the freezer box to pour out things, and must let me come to his home early tomorrow morning to eat, I said: "No, the third uncle, the morning is too cold, I do not like to get up, I do not come to eat, do not let the third aunt tired, I will eat tomorrow morning in the big brother's home I'll go." I said a few times, three uncle reluctantly agreed that I can not come to eat, but tomorrow and three aunt get up early to give me a pot of steamed bean buns frozen on the take, I repeatedly refused, big brother also said that he gave me to take the bean buns, three uncle do not have to take, I did not expect the three uncle was not happy, he said to me: "your big brother to you take line, three uncle take it can not be ah." Look at the third uncle was not happy, I hurriedly said: "Third uncle, I take, I take it is not okay." Listen to my promise, three uncle face only showed a smile, sat for a while, I and my big brother to go back, three uncle and three aunt has been sent us out quite far before going back.
On the 13th day, after breakfast, my mom and I, my nephew's daughter-in-law, wrapped up a pot of beanbags together, and in a short while, my sister-in-law went to load the pot, and my mom and I washed our hands to go to the backyard of my brother's house to say goodbye to my brother and sister-in-law. When we arrived at my brother's house, my brother and sister-in-law said they wouldn't let me go, and my sister-in-law said, "You left right after the pig was killed, and you didn't even get to eat the dumplings, so I'm going to chop up the stuffing and noodles now, and you can eat the dumplings at lunchtime before you leave." The mother did not let me go, so I had to stay and eat the dumplings.
The dumplings are finished, I should go, the second brother went to the barn to take out a white chicken, and then with the mother accompanied me to the front yard of the big brother's house to get things.
To the elder brother's house, sister-in-law told me, just now the third uncle came, give you a plastic bag of bean bags and a flying duck, you are not, the third uncle put down something to go back. I'm going to give you to take the bean bag is also loaded, this time the big brother found a large silk bag, the big sister to take the two geese and two chickens; two brothers to take a small chicken; a large nephew daughter-in-law to take a goose; three uncle to take a flying duck and bean bag; big brother to take the bag of beans are loaded into the bag, a bag full of bags, bags on the mouth of the strong tie. At this time, the great nephew drove into the yard, from the car down yesterday just married nephew and nephew-in-law, they know that I have today, is a special trip to send me. It is just big brother and second brother carried a bag full of things out, big nephew opened the trunk to put the bag in, I was in the crowd of relatives reluctant to get into the car, big nephews to the car out of the yard to the village out of the car, through the car rear window glass, I saw my mother and two brothers have been sent to see me turn the corner out of sight, the tears of parting as a flood of the dyke, instantly drowned out the smile of the I just pretended to be strong.
Since the day I came back, my great nephew's car has become my special car, at my beck and call.
On the way to my mother-in-law's house in Zhaozhou, the car suddenly broke down. The nephew repaired half a day is not helpful, helpless, the car to Zhaozhou Street repair department, and so the car is repaired to the day to be dark, the nephew sent me to my mother-in-law's house and even did not enter the house, move down the things in the I do not feel comfortable in the sound of the urge to drive away.
I went into the house with my mother-in-law, put down the things I bought for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law let me sit on the bed, so I took off my heels on the bed, and my mother-in-law nagged for a while, I asked my mother-in-law if she had a cousin's cell phone number of the old aunt's family, and I would like to do his cab to Harbin. Granny said: "I don't have it, I'll go to your cousin's house in the front yard to look for it, he has it there." Granny said and left. Not long after that, my mother-in-law came back with my cousin's sister-in-law, who came to see me when she heard I was back. Granny said, "The car will pick you up at 4:30 tomorrow morning. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of this, and I'm going to be able to get out of this.
Three and a half days in the morning I got up, to the house in a look, the sky is not yet bright, the ground is a thick layer of snow, and snow also under the sky flying. Back to the house, my mother-in-law to give me to cook, I did not agree, I said to eat also eat, a moment to take the car seasickness also spit out. I packed up my things and waited for my cousin's car to pick up.
At 4:30, the car came, mother-in-law opened the barn door, cousin put the bag into the trunk, and then I said goodbye to my mother-in-law and got on the car to go. Sitting in the car, I said to my cousin, "It's a big snowstorm, the biggest one since the beginning of winter." My cousin said, "I saw the weather report last night, and it said there would be a big snowstorm today." "Oh, no wonder it keeps snowing." Cousin to the street to pick up three more passengers and then drove directly to Harbin. Because of the snow slippery road, the car are traveling very slowly, so along the way also saw several cars slipped into the road side of the deep ditch. Until nine o'clock cousin just sent me to the station, unloaded things simply said a few words on the drive away.
I stood in the flurry of snow, looking at a heavy bag of things worry, what to do? I had to tug on the bag step by step laboriously sliding forward, and then deposited the things in the small store in front of the station, and then rushed to the ticket hall queue to buy tickets. Although today's weather is not good, but out of the people seem to be no less, look at the long queue to buy tickets, it was not easy to take my turn, after buying tickets to see, it is 2:40 p.m. train, I have to stay at the station for more than five hours, however, I was not in a hurry, reach out of the bag out of the cell phone to live in Harbin network girlfriend to make a call, the other party immediately braved the wind and snow to the station to accompany me for an hour, the other side, the wind and snow. We are friends who have known each other online for many years, and have gone from the network to the real earth, every time I go back home, she came to the station to accompany me and invite me to dinner, and then until I sent me on the train to the south she turned back, and I was loaded with the warmth of family and friends embarked on the road home.
Time passes, years of sand. A wobbler has been back from the old home for more than a month, in the old home in just fourteen days, every day let me have a touch from the affection, very warm, but also very cozy, affection - the first love of mankind, the warmth from the relatives is enough to accompany me through the future of every cold winter.