Is your family's child on their own or with the help of an elderly person?
Yesterday, my best friend called me, and kept spouting, said his mother-in-law is too much, this is what era, but also do not allow the child to use diapers, to the child to buy all the clothes to choose the larger two yards, but also said that the child grows fast, clothes to buy some bigger, more wear two years, so that is the most affordable, the best friend of the gas is not light.
Listening to my girlfriend's spit, I also secretly thought in my heart, for many young mothers now, mother-in-law will really be a kind of, can not beat and dry the existence of.
Because of the pressure of life, the young couple had to work hard to make money, or home mortgage car loan, the child's milk powder diaper, all to open the window of the sky, the two people are out of work, there is no other way, can only take care of the children's task accounted for the old man at home.
But not all old people are like girlfriends mother-in-law so conservative thinking, resulting in the deterioration of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relations, if the family has these three old people, it is very suitable for bringing children, not only can the children more and more with the more intelligent, but also ease the family relations, there is such an old man, it is really a blessing for the children and mothers.
A look at your family has such an old man.
Nowadays, a large part of the old people who help to bring up children are highly educated, high quality cultural people.
They themselves have been well educated, but also have their own set of relatively scientific parenting concepts, so the old man will be very measured in bringing up the child, can do rational treatment of the child, but also because of their own cultivation, to guide the child from childhood to develop a good habit of living and learning.
Most importantly, such old people, generally more avant-garde thinking, more adept at learning, for new things are not excluded, as long as it is the right direction, they are willing to move with the times, so in the child education issues, and mom and dad communication will be more harmonious.
If your family has a higher cultural cultivation of the elderly, mothers can also rest assured that the child to the elderly with, which is equivalent to your child to find a great teacher of enlightenment, the elderly on the body of a lot of good qualities of life habits, will be in the accumulation of time, silently pass to the child, which is the role of the role of the teachings of the word.
From a person's character can be seen in his attitude towards life, if you have an optimistic and cheerful family, full of confidence in life of the elderly, then you can rest assured that the child to him, I believe that in the leadership of such an old man and under the influence of the child will grow up to be more sunny and cheerful.
People in old age can still maintain confidence in the future of life, this old man, generally are open-minded, especially measured, never like some of the mouth is not covered by the same chatter, endless.
No matter what the problem, always be able to calm down, keep a careful mind, give yourself a space to think, to others to leave some room.
Such an old man can not only bring up a good child, but also easy to deal with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, so that the whole family has become warm and harmonious, the family has such an old man is really a blessing.
Once I took the children to play in the park, I heard an old man complaining that: I am more than 70, but also have to help my daughter-in-law with grandchildren, no freedom, my neighbors across the street people are only more than 50 years old, the two families go out every day travel, really envious.
Now my living conditions are getting better and better, a lot of older people's old age is more and more colorful, dancing ah, playing cards, out of the company travel, etc., are very common older people to enjoy the old age of life, so we are looking for the elderly to help, but also need to seek the views of the elderly.
If the old man is willing to take care of the children, and he likes the children, then even if the children are a bit hard, the old man will feel happy, and watch the grandchildren grow up day by day, the old man will feel very satisfied, very happy. The child feels the love of the old man, and will naturally live a very happy life.
But if the old man explicitly or implicitly out of their own heart is not enough, or do not want to help, then the mother should be clear, the old man to help with the baby is a love affair, do not help with the baby to understand, do not have a heart.
So if you meet a particularly willing to help bring up children, and still from the heart of the favorite child's mother-in-law, then bless you, you really are too lucky.
As the saying goes, if the family has an old man, there is a treasure. If the old folks have all three of these qualities, even just one of them, moms and dads can be completely at ease with leaving their kids in the hands of the old folks.
The children brought up by such old people will not only be more and more intelligent, interpersonal skills will also be very strong, to the day the child grows up, everyone will praise this is a very good upbringing, then, do not forget the old man's credit Oh!