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"I give you children", this is a lot of women hanging on the lips of the words, about such a statement, many people think it is very strange, why is the child is a woman to give birth to a man? Is not the woman the mother of the child?
Everyone says that motherhood is the greatest love in the world, according to reason, all women should feel that the child is their own only right, why would a woman feel that the child is not their own child, but rather their own gift to the man?
This kind of three views of the woman, often give a particularly strange feeling, and in fact, women like this is very difficult to obtain real happiness, because they never know how to become a mother.
Qualified mothers treat their children as their own everything, the three views of the wrong woman, can never become a qualified mother, in their minds, the child is not their own blood, but a kind of bargaining chip, and even a gift to the man.
In fact, this type of woman usually have a kind of want to take advantage of the psychological, to give a very simple example, many women and want to get the child's filial piety, but also want to let the man unlimited gratitude for their own.
Since you feel that your child is born to a man, it proves that you don't have much to do with the child, and in that case, the child's favorite is naturally his biological father, not you, the "deliverer".
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in a room with a camera, and I've never seen one in a room with a camera.
In fact, it's ridiculous that a woman would give birth to a man, because women are the ultimate beneficiaries of children and grandchildren.
As the father left early, so they put most of their energy in the mother, they do not want to leave any more regrets in life, so they are usually very good to their mother.
Grandma Zhang stayed at her children's house in turn, not for six months, but for a month, so that they didn't resent each other, and her daughter-in-law and son-in-law were very good to her.
The daughter is a very understanding of life, they are a family of three food and clothing are excellent, after all, the son-in-law is also very good, and they will go abroad every year to travel, and every time they travel, they will take Grandma Zhang.
Grandma Zhang went to a lot of places, saw a lot of landscapes, and came into contact with many different cultures that Grandpa Zhang had never seen in his life.
Sometimes daughters also lament, if their own father is also in, it would be good, they can take their father together to travel to faraway places, so that it is really filial piety, their father so hard, a lifetime of hard work, not yet enjoy the blessings of the world, and left this world.
Grandma Zhang sometimes want to live alone, after all, do the children's home for a long time also want to live alone, so you can taste the freedom, and whenever you do, the son and daughter will give her a nanny.
Grandma Zhang usually like to square dance with her sisters, and sometimes go out together Travel, with a group or something, in short, the days are enviable.
Grandma Zhang is seventy-five years old, and her body is particularly strong, so I believe that it is not a problem to live for another ten or twenty years.
And moncler outlet store it's not the same at all, moncler outlet store since the age of sixty-five, the body has been downhill, after all, when he was young, he had eaten a lot of bitter, also did a lot of physical work.
It was because of this that he left the world two years ago.
Grandma Zhang also often quarreled with moncler outlet store Zhang before, and every time they quarreled, they said that they had a pair of children for him, as long as they said that moncler outlet store Zhang would definitely concede defeat, and Grandma Zhang would definitely have the upper hand.
Nowadays, it seems that grandma Zhang's children are not born for moncler outlet store her, but for herself, on the contrary, moncler outlet store she has been running for her children all her life.
Many women always feel that their children have the surname of their in-laws, so it means that their children are born for their husbands, but the fact is that most of the people who end up enjoying the benefits of their children are women.
As for the reason, I think everyone is very understandable, from the survey, the average life expectancy of a man is seventy-two years old, while the average life expectancy of a woman is seventy-five years old, in fact, in real life, the gap between the life expectancy of many couples is more than so big.
To give a very simple example, some men leave this world at the age of seventy, but their wives can live to be more than eighty, or even ninety years old.
In a sense, the sons and daughters that men work so hard to raise are for women, because by the time they can count on their children, most of the men have already left the world. Women, on the other hand, can enjoy a carefree old age and be honored by their children and grandchildren.
These are real-life naked cases, many couples are so over, you can also go to observe, through the census can also be seen, after the age of sixty-five, the number of men is less than the number of women, but before the age of sixty-five years old are more men than women.
What does this mean? This shows that after sixty-five years old, the men gradually left the world, while the women are still alive, women's life expectancy is longer than that of men, which is recognized by everyone, and this is also a fact that can not be changed.
Women's children are for their own, if there is no children, the woman's old age will be particularly terrible, and even can be completely used to describe nothing.
Mr. and Mrs. Wang are a couple who are known to everyone as the "Dinky Couple". When they were young, they lived a good life and never wanted to have children, so they thought they could live happily ever after.
But how can that be? Even if two people love each other again, it is not possible to leave this world at the same time. After Mr. Wang left the world, Granny Wang really felt what is called loneliness.
Wang was seventy-two years old when he left the year, and now five years have passed, Wang grandmother's character has changed very much.
Before, Granny Wang was a very lively person, after all, the days have always been smooth, the family is not short of money, and do not have to worry about raising children, so every day is the way they want to live.
The two of them loved each other, and it was probably the look that many people envied, but when Mr. Wang left, Granny Wang's life seemed to collapse in an instant, and she didn't know how to face the next days.
The previous Wang grandmother is a person who is particularly eager to be free, and absolutely not willing to stay at home, so as long as there is time to run out, either out of the travel, or to go to the square dance, or with their husbands to go outside to walk, shopping malls, see the movie is also very good.
But now the Wang grandmother has become very withdrawn, usually do not like to go out, in addition to buying food are almost not leave the house, her appearance is also emaciated a lot of eyes are full of loneliness.
And those old ladies with children, the result is completely different, although the husband has left the world, but because of their own children, so the days have been carefree.
People are all mutual, children will filial piety to their mothers, do mother's also have to afford this identity, take children chips, and even take the child as a gift to the man's woman simply does not deserve to be a mother, and does not deserve to get the child's filial piety.
Maybe this is a lot of people feel a little heavy words, but this is where the reality is, if you can go to ask your children to see what the world is a child is willing to accept the fact that they are the mother of a gift to the father?
If this is the case, the child's favorite will be his father, as for the mother, it seems to be a dispensable person.
Women want to get the love of the child, we must understand that they are a mother's identity, if people when not good such identity, it is better not to enter such a role, lest hurt two generations.
What a child really needs is always a mom, a mom who loves her, and definitely not a delivery person.
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