Growth is an experience, and maturity is an experience. Your ability to control your emotions is becoming more and more stable, and you are no longer so easily angry, angry and sad. But also, you won't get excited and excited so easily. You don't know whether this change is good or bad, and sometimes you feel that your life has lost its fun.
A person's maturity is not without desire, nor is it to suppress desire, but to know how to rationally channel desire. Secular desires are like water in a river. Without water, it cannot be called a river. If the water is blocked, there will be no beautiful rivers. Let the river flood everywhere. Only by letting the river flow properly, limiting the direction of water flow with the shore, and finally planting beautiful trees on the shore, will a beautiful river appear. The same is true of human desires.
One day, you will understand that people can't be too kind, because people only pick soft persimmons. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you. Sometimes you have to have a little temper, and you can't be too gentle and patient with some people. Because being too kind will make us lose our value and dignity, and being too kind is also a kind of stupidity.