A woman with a soul is an attractive woman. A woman with faith is a woman with energy. You can be at a loss for a while, but don't always complain. You can feel it for a while, but you won't be addicted all the time.
Someone once said such a passage:
"No matter what you look like, no matter what your family is like, you should have the ability to control your life independently. Maybe you are not short of money or someone to support you, but you should have your own career, which will bring you not only money, but also an independent personality. When you have an independent personality, love and dignity will have a real bottom line. "
Because in this world, no matter parents or partners, no one can be a permanent reliance and umbrella.
Zhang Youyi is no stranger to many people. An ordinary woman has created a legendary life. She married Xu Zhimo at the most beautiful age. In the long marriage life, she experienced childlessness and divorce, but she constantly tried to realize the counterattack of life and became a great woman in the business world, which made Xu Zhimo, who was once indifferent, sit up and take notice.
She spent her whole life explaining how important independence is to a woman.
Second, women who are kind and kind are the cutest.
What is the most precious quality of a woman?
Even if you are beautiful, you can't resist kindness and warmth. A kind-hearted woman often has deep self-restraint. She never squints at people or tells people what to do in public. Even if you step on her toes, she just smiles, making you feel that she is extremely beautiful and moving.
Xu Zhimo was a man who shattered Zhang Youyi's happiness, but after he was killed in an air crash, only this kind woman took her son to the scene to take care of the funeral. She took on everything that should not belong to her with kindness. After letting go, Zhang Youyi bloomed like a flower, and Zhang Youyi also had a happy married life in his later years. She used her kindness, responsibility and tenacity to protect her family and her dignity.
Third, I can let go and don't care about people and things in the past.
The so-called "affordable" is a state of mind, a kind of courage and a kind of courage.
Emotionally speaking, women's "affordable" performance is: dare to love, dare to pursue the person they like, dare to pursue the love they want. She doesn't care what other people think. She can treat her feelings and career wholeheartedly and do her best with her heart.
Lin Yutang said: "No matter where we go in life, we should like that time and finish what we should do during that time, instead of indulging in the past and looking forward to the future enthusiastically. Life is like this. "
A woman should be able to let go, face the facts, not drag her feet, and not be a dissatisfied wife emotionally. Only by letting go of the past can she have a better life.
Women can afford and let go, which is the most advanced way of life. I hope you can do the same for the rest of your life.
Fourth, don't be confused about big things, don't care about small things, except for life and death, you can enjoy the best and bear the worst.
I have read such a sentence: "If there is no height in life, you will see all the problems. If there is no pattern in life, all the entanglements are trivial. Life is a mirror. No matter how you treat life, life will reward you. "
After divorcing Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi studied in Germany and worked hard to become the president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank. Later, she had her own clothing company. When Xu Zhimo was short of money, she borrowed money from Zhang Youyi. In the face of this cold-blooded man who once hurt himself, Zhang Youyi didn't complain much and took out the money without saying anything.
How can such a generous woman be unhappy in this life? She should be Baoyu in the eyes of those who know her.
Fifth, knowing the world is not sophisticated.
A truly high-level woman knows the world, so she is not secular, and her calendar is smooth and real. After going through Qian Fan, they can still stick to what they used to stick to. In this impetuous era, they can still keep their own rhythm and stop to find the loveliness and beauty of the world and people around them.
They have love in their hearts, and they have the ability to get happiness and make others happy. You won't feel tired when you get along with such a woman. They have rich life experience, can appreciate the stillness of life, can bear the ups and downs of life, can always maintain a childlike heart and are full of hope for life. No matter what kind of wind and rain they have experienced, they all regard it as a rainbow, blooming on their faces and showing a sweet smile to life.