Everyone's attitude towards life is different, some are muddle-headed and get by; some are serious and organized; and some are impatient and go with the flow. In fact, no matter what attitude to adhere to, as long as it suits you, you can live a good life on the line.
But then again, only once in a lifetime, is very valuable, if it is too casual and hasty, not to mention some waste, a little more thought, do some of the necessary plans, but also to make life more smooth and happy point.
65-year-old Lu Da-ma is a rigorous and meticulous people. She said that after she retired, she did three things step by step according to the plan she had previously set up, and now she is very happy in her old age.
65-year-old Auntie Lu described herself
I lost my husband a long time ago, and I've been living alone with two children, and I've slowly realized that I need to carry everything on my own after a hard life. I've developed a habit of saving for a rainy day.
My children have started their own families, and my job is done. The next step is to live a good life, and try to give them as little trouble as possible. To this end, I have formulated 3 small plans and will try to accomplish them after my retirement.
The old Chen was my colleague, he loved to talk and laugh, quite an easy-going person. The original consideration of the children's feelings, for personal life, I did not think too much.
After the retirement, once the old Chen found me, said he understood my previous feelings, at that time all for the family, for the children to pay, now the situation is not the same, but also for the rest of their lives should be planned.
I agree with him, I have suffered for most of my life, and it's time to implement the plan, and he has a companion to live with, and help each other, not only can the children rest assured that some of their own are no longer lonely and lonely, why not do it?
For this matter, many people feel that there is no need to say that they have food and drink, free and easy, why do you have to find a partner? In fact, not, everyone is emotional, regardless of age, there is a person with the side will always be a little more down to earth, encounter difficulties to discuss with each other, nothing to talk about, the mood can also be a lot of comfort.
Particularly when you're older, people are afraid of being alone, and even though you have a lot of experience, you can see through all of this, but some of the disasters and illnesses that come to you are the kind of things that make you feel afraid and helpless. So, don't pay attention to other people's eyes, don't care about other people's comments, listen to the voice of the heart is the best.
When people get old, they can eat, drink, and move around without bothering others, which is a good thing, but as their physical strength gets worse and worse, the problem of old age is a hurdle that can't be overcome. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car.
Think about it, people are getting more and more realistic, whether it's a nursing home caregiver, or a home nanny, relying on the few thousand dollars a month, who can sincerely take care of you? That's why children's affection is still our most solid support.
People say that children are their hope and future. In every family, children are very important. To capture the hearts of the children you need to win the approval of the grandchildren, and this truth is taught by the mother.
In the beginning, my mother was not too well, but she insisted on helping our siblings to bring up a few children, and established a deep relationship with them. To two generations of nurturing love, let us remember in our hearts can not be cut off. We are filial to our parents, in order to repay the grace of birth, but also in order to set an example to pass the blood thicker than water of the family love.
So, I and Lao Chen partnership, not like others so dashing, either out of the game, or to enjoy the world of two, but the two sides of the grandchildren are received to the home, to take care of their lives and learning.
Everyone has their own personal agenda, and even if they are as close as parents to their children, they may not be able to keep their minds off of it when it comes to money. I'm no exception, but I have my own principles of doing things, and I won't reach out to them or take the initiative to help them until it's absolutely necessary.
Money in hand, not panic. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do that, and I'm going to be able to do that. One year, I was admitted to the hospital with an old illness. The two children advanced the medical expenses for me. A little more than a month's time, spent more than 30,000 yuan, which is not a good life for them, is also a not a small amount of money.
Although they did not complain, but after the hospital, I still took out my savings, the money back, and told them, can contribute to the care is very good, now I still have the ability to wait until the future is not able to say it.
I feel that keeping a good "pocketbook" is not only a responsibility to myself, but also the most direct love for the children. This is both selfishness and love.
Conclusion:
A happy and joyful old age is not dependent on the help of others, but their own careful planning and hard work. In the face of reality, the concept of raising children for old age cannot be completely changed, and children are still our indispensable dependence.
When we are old, treating ourselves well is also helping our children. When we live a happy and joyful life, we reduce their burden, and we can also make them live a comfortable and happy life! So it's the smartest thing to do to try to organize your old age as well as possible.
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Author: A hint of pendant, a cheerful character, love to joke about the emotional narrator, willing to accompany the teachers and friends taste of life, laughing about life.