What is the greatest filial piety to parents in the world?

First, to establish a reasonable family relationship between the eldest and the youngest "reasonable family relationship between the eldest and the youngest" is different from the feudal patriarchal system, the one-word hall. The so-called "reasonable" means that all members of the family (including children) are first of all democratic and equal, parents should respect the independence of the child's personality, especially in dealing with the child's own affairs, we must fully listen to their views, as far as possible, according to their reasonable wishes. At the same time, the family is a whole, can not go their own way, there must be someone as a parent, to "lead" the family, management to guide the life of all members of the family. Parents are the providers of family life, and with their rich life experience, they should naturally be the core of the family and the main person in charge. Children (especially minors) should live and study under the guidance of their parents. Nowadays, many families, the child is the "little sun", but the parents have become the moon around the child, valet, which provides the soil for the formation of the child's I-centered bully character, not to mention the cultivation of filial piety and respect for parents of good habits. Therefore, we need to let the child understand the relationship between himself and his parents, know that parents are the elders, is the family life of the main person, and can not reverse the order of priority, let the child in the family to be strong and reckless.　　Second, let the child understand his parents for him and the hard work of the family Now many children do not know their parents work, do not know how their parents get the money, only know to ask their parents for money to buy this and buy that, that parents give their children to eat well, wear good, with a good is a natural right. How can such children honor their parents from the bottom of their hearts? To this end, parents should consciously and often tell their children about their work and income, the more specific the better, so that children understand that their parents' money is not easy to come by. Naturally, the child will gradually cherish their own life, but also from the bottom of the heart to produce the parents of gratitude and respect.　　Thirdly, we should start from small things to train and cultivate children's behavioral habits of filial piety and respect for their parents The general requirements for educating children to respect their parents are: listening to their parents, caring for their parents' health, sharing their parents' worries, participating in household chores, and not causing trouble for their parents. In order to turn these requirements into practical actions for children, we should start from the daily small things. Such as caring for parents' health: children are required to greet their parents when they come home from work every day; when their parents are tired, children should take the initiative to help or ask their parents to take a rest; when their parents go out, children should remind their parents whether they have forgotten something or pay attention to the weather; when their parents are sick, children should take the initiative to take care of them, say a lot of words of relief, and receive guests on their behalf, and so on. Children should take on household chores that must be done, even if it's just setting up chopsticks during meals. According to the child's age, ability, learning situation, reasonable distribution, specific guidance, patient training, enthusiastic encouragement. This is not only conducive to the child to develop the habit of housework, but also conducive to the child to continuously enhance the concept of filial piety and respect for parents: "My parents raised me, I should do more for them."　　Fourth, to set an example, parents should be a model of filial piety and respect for elders The child's attitude toward his parents is directly affected by the parents' attitude toward their elders. There is a story that is worth learning from. Once upon a time there was a middle-aged couple who were very ungrateful to their elderly parents, they whisked the old man away to live in a dilapidated hut, and sent some unsavory things to the old man with a small wooden bowl for every meal. One day, they saw their son carving a piece of wood, so they asked the child what he was carving, and the child said, "Carving a wooden bowl, so that you can use it when you get older." The middle-aged couple snapped out of it, invited their parents back to the main house to live with them, threw away the small wooden bowl, and took out the best food in the house for the old man. As a result, the children changed their attitude toward them, and the three generations of the family lived in harmony ever since. We can see how much the parents' example affects the children. Nowadays, the situation of middle-aged couples neglecting their parents still exists. Some middle-aged couples not only do not take care of their parents, but also try to "scrape" the old people's belongings, which gives their children a worse influence. Therefore, we should not only take care of our own small family, but also not forget to take care of our elderly parents, and never forget the old man when we have a new son. If usually live farther away, busy work and the elderly can not spend time with the elderly, then on vacation days to try to take the time to take the child to visit the elderly, to help the elderly to do some chores, with the elderly **** get together with the fun, to do a child's due diligence and obligations. So long time, the child learns from experience, implicitly, will gradually develop respect for elders, filial piety and good habits of parents. Insight: life we often lament that children are always self-centered, parents do not understand enough to sympathize, the cause of the problem is still in the parents. We are overly concerned about their role as parents, but ignored the child's independent personality, the child feels that they are not valued, and even have a sense of isolation and loneliness, in fact, this is also a parent-child relationship is not dealt with the performance of a close relationship, care will be self-recognized and naturally arise. Especially the second point, they also do not do enough, not consciously cultivate the child's daily behavior, just tell him that he should be filial piety to his parents, tell him to filial piety to his parents is such an important virtue, now it seems to be just empty words, but when the child bumped into you or you are not enough to care for you, their hearts will have a sense of loss or even complain, the child's occasional thoughtfulness in life without special thanks to encourage and to strengthen. Although the child now also share a little bit of housework, but he is undoubtedly a burden, can let go of the hands.