Joan Chen: Xena is not my best friend anymore! How should women maintain friendships after marriage?

Chen Qiao En was participating in the program when she said Xie Na is not her best friend. Chen Qiao En said that Xie Na rarely cared about her after she tied the knot to give birth to a child, and they got together very little, so Xie Na is not her best friend anymore. Although, the two have clarified on Weibo afterwards that they are still good friends with each other, but the relationship is really not as good as it used to be. Women ah, especially after marriage, a heart is devoted to children and husband, a lot of people and their girlfriends go far away.

Waiting until the child is a little older, have their own time, only to find that the friends have long been gone, their relationship with their girlfriends is not as good as it used to be. In fact, women can still maintain good friendships after marriage. Just a little bit of time, to your good friends, friendship is still long-lasting .

Don't think that good friends don't need to contact, people are going to become, do not contact, good friends really no . Especially after a woman gets married, it's easy to put all your thoughts on your own family and ignore your friends around you. In fact, this is not right, you ignore friends, in fact, is to ignore your own. Even if you have children, you have to care for yourself and love yourself. Otherwise, you put all your energy on the family above, it is easy to lose yourself, which is the tragedy of many housewives.

Treat your good friends, please keep in touch, it does not need to take you a lot of time, because your girlfriends can be much more understanding than your children and husband, they are often the most sympathetic to you. Once a week can't be less than that.

Don't turn your real-life best friends into circle-of-friends point-and-click friends, make sure you keep meeting regularly. Once every six months, or once every two or three months is enough. Find a weekend where your kid's dad can take the kids and you go have a sisterly afternoon tea with your BFF. Or, even better, your BFF has kids too, and you guys can take the kids for a weekly playdate. Regularly meeting each other is the only way to really maintain your friendship, and it's hard to maintain a friendship when you haven't seen each other for too long and you're just online friends. That way, you can go square dancing together when you're old.

03, keep caring

Your good friend, you must also care ah. Not because they are married, and ignore the care of friends, so go on, your friends and you will only drift away. In your friends need time, timely step forward, is a good friend should do things. For example, if your friend is getting married, you can help, or if your friend has something bothering him, you can listen to him talk about it. If you go and do the math, you'll realize that, aside from your parents, you put the least into your best friend, but get the most out of him.

So, women must leave a little time for their close friends after marriage, just a little time is enough to keep in touch with them, keep meeting, keep caring, your friendship can really last forever.