How to confess hello! Dude, I've been there, gone through your kind of stage, it's really interesting and tangled, here listen to the buddy well said. Looked at your situation, I got down, now this world ah to want to successfully chase women! Can not use conventional methods! Especially now you have a misunderstanding, you want to confess to feel how how they are, and then confessed to wait for others to "recognize", I'm right, right 'This is very easy to fail, brother. The actual fact is, you can kiss her first, and she'll be able to get to know you better. In fact, it is possible to kiss her first in the confession! So that the other side has both freshness has, if the first kiss if more dead heart it! Now chasing your child must be fast and accurate, I mean the most critical that time ah, you listen to me ah, a word a word to you, can not follow the conventional cards, as usual, like the logic of chasing girls has been outdated! The following I will tell you some of my experience it and my understanding. I hope it will help you! My experience: when you like a girl, you have to be calm first, don't think too good. Then, what you have to do is to look for the opportunity to get close to him slowly when you are all together. Note that you usually do not always hang around her, so people will be disgusted, you have to do things, is to make yourself good, all aspects, increase their capital. For example, playing the piano, dancing, computer programming, and what to sing very well, write very beautiful, calligraphy, these, of course, the most important is the cause! Get your career, make more money, students, if you learn well, then your attention is high. Competitiveness is also big! I am very sincere to share my experience, I hope you can learn from the essence! In a nutshell, it's "to pick up a girl, wanting to be fast is not enough, wanting to seek is not allowed, to be different, step by step, and finally take her heart! And don't be a teacher hanging around her, you need to accumulate capital! Understand, women do not like the kind of people who are around her all day long! Your next step is to slowly develop, slowly about her, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with him, so that you two become good friends without words, and finally at a certain time, and then in the day less people, you chat together, you try to ask her boyfriend and girlfriend questions, and then give him a hint, that time, do not be timid, it is best to go to drink a glass of wine, you feel good to grasp, you can ask her! For example, how do you think I am a person, what and so on, and then while he hesitates, directly kiss her, get it done, confession, that is later when you make out, haha. This is how I succeeded, in short, this is a thing that can not be rushed, to the final success of the moment, you will feel you these time the road over finally pay off, that feeling, too wonderful! Haha, speaking of which, I might as well share the process of my confession: what I said to my girlfriend when I confessed was: X, you know, in the right time to meet a right person, people in this life there are not a few times such an opportunity. The person I'm meeting now is you, I hope you can give me a chance to love you properly, my dear! Then my girlfriend jumped into my arms and refused to get up without even thinking about it! (Of course, at that time, the two of us were chatting and chatting ambiguously. I feel it's time, the timing must be grasped! Can not be too hasty, because the girl likes romantic time, cozy feeling! So that he can not forget for life! It is best to call her hesitation can kiss her! But you have to be ready to be her delete a slap, of course I think it is nothing! After all, you want to get your happiness, a slap price is too small! In fact, confession is actually just a formality, the correct order should be: in fact, has become your girlfriend, you can only confess to people, water under the bridge. Many people do not understand this problem, always think that people first agreed to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say that he is very very "simple", but also very very "stupid". Is there a time when you have no choice but to confess your love? Yes, for example, if there is a third party, or if you and the girl have not matured, but the two of you may have been separated for a while. This time the confession is immature conditions of the confession, the risk is very great, similar to the game of Go when the situation is critical, the party behind forced to put out the "winning hand", won the win, lost can only say "bad luck are born". "Love" word do not easily export often see the emergence of "bold confession", to be honest, I really think this is a very immature kind of performance. "Love" is a sacred word, means the pursuit, also means commitment, and even embodies a responsibility. haha, and you know what the highest realm is, is that the man until the bed with the woman did not ask "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend". The last is the girl anxious: "Why do not you beg me to be your girlfriend ah!" I wrote it myself, and I hope it will help you! I'm so tired of writing ......, I didn't realize that there are many ah. I don't care so much, I can help you! According to my method, the success rate is very high, there are very effective! Girls like, oh wish the owner early pursuit of happiness! Happy life! There are any questions you can leave a message happy to answer for you! The second supplementary answer ...... buddy ah never don't let her notice so quickly, or some girls do not give force will be very hurt your enthusiasm. You see, anyway, you do those are to improve the strength of all things on the future is also useful well ...... you say it
My girlfriend in the circle of friends issued such a saying, if truly loved a person, when separated,The heart can not let go of the person who once loved. The person is still in her heart. So it's hard for another person to get into her heart.
My girlfriend posted this comment in her circle of friends! If you have truly loved someone and separated! Then you will have a hard time falling in love with someone else! Because you don't want to spendI'm a girl, see some boys want to chase their favorite girls and dare not chase, but also want people to chase her backwards, I'm very disgusted. From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most of the girls will not take the initiative to pursue their favorite boys, except really like it too much or the kind of more personalized and brave girls. So, if you like a girl, and think she is also a little mean to you, then take the initiative, don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, their own hard, maybe you like the person is also painful.
Any girl who is being chased by someone, the psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but with a little trepidation, she has the ambivalence of wanting to reject and welcome the boy who broke into her quiet life, she did not mean it. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, she's afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her resentment, you do not take the initiative, she also does not take the initiative, but also slowly fade down. If you start the confession was rejected by her, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking in her heart?
Maybe you'll confess twice more, she will be impressed by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move. If you suffer a setback, immediately leave, never answer the girl, protect yourself tightly, silently licking wounds, in your pain at the same time, unbeknownst to you, the girl may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret refused you, and then see your indifferent eyes, she is also very painful, but she will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase her. Your excessive pride may hurt the girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you are not sincere like him, or how would it just give up on her?
Some people say that boys are really hard, it's too hard to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women, from the physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If the other way around, let the men all pulse shyness, women become courageous, the world is a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful, moving ah ~ I have always heard of a brave man overcame how many difficulties, and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. The opposite example is very rare.
Some boys, they are afraid of what others say they are stalkers, fall into a bad reputation. But I think the boys pursuit of their favorite girls, a little frustrated still continue to this girl good, that people really like, very sincere, if not successful, but also not sorry, and nothing ah? Who let people like it? I hate it when people follow me around, and I hate it when I don't have an idea, and I care too much about what others think of me, so I don't think I'll be able to find a girlfriend for this kind of guy.
It's a man who is brave, a girl who is emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you pay hard, and once your heart impressed her, then you will get more and more long doubled love. Such examples abound around. Girls are very gentle and sweet to their boyfriends, in exchange for this sweet, the beginning of the hard work is nothing ah? And most of the good girls love quite devoted and dedicated. Therefore, it is recommended that some boys brave a little, to pursue their favorite girls, do not be so afraid to shrink, one is to let people think that you have no manhood, the second is your own strange hard, but the most important thing is still: in the end you can not get anything. The most important thing is that you can't get anything. You have to earn your own happiness and don't expect others to give it to you!
To add, I think it's good to take some initiative, because your goal is to be your own sincere favorite, girls tend to be passive, passive can only choose to accept and reject, so I would rather take the initiative, love what I love, no regrets!
----- Life is beautiful, happy in which to learn to find!
A fatal should give MM what kind of first impression (time: just started contact with MM)
1, I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation.
The greatest charm of the man is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let the MM think you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, to appear confident and responsible
Do not be like a child, girls are lazy hope to find a dependency, you have to come up with their own confidence and responsibility.
It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
3, don't be too serious, but don't be too casual
The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting.
Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull.
4, look a little mature
The calm, calm and unhurried man on the MM has the attraction.
Second, how to start further contact with MM (time: the beginning of the chase stage)
1, this stage is the most critical is not in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are in pursuit of people.
Think about it, the average person will not glance at you, but also will not look at a glance hate you, are the children of the people's home (unless you look like Chow Yun-Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), the good sense is needed to increase with the understanding of the realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to further develop.
Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you are so direct rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact after a while found that you do not like you, that is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition, basically will be immediately smothered back.
2, to start a low profile
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as "friends", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become "good friends", and have the taste to ask each other to become "good friends".
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as a "friend", originally a "common friend", you want to become a "good friend", there is a taste of the other side can also be asked to become a "confidant" or something, in short, do not say that "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chase" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - you didn't chase her how to reject you!
This can reduce the psychological pressure on the girl, so that you can smooth the relationship. Do not fantasize about knowing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not produced out of thin air.
3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating
To have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to capture," (which is the crystallization of my classmates how many years of hard work).
You all day long pestering people naturally do not think you good, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember you in the benefits.
And don't come up with "non-marriage" aspirations, too much of a bad price, sometimes you can play a little trick.
4, to create the appropriate opportunity
As I said before, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity.
You can gather information and figure out how to get the girl to come to you. Paralyzed?
In short, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice.
5, cut the taboo cut the taboo: randomly send people gifts is not polite
Some people chase girls eager, like often things to send people, but do not know that chase girls most taboo this.
As the saying goes, "you don't get paid for what you don't get", you send people things like this is to put pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to return to you, and if they don't have a way to return to you, they will find a way to not socialize with you, so as not to always owe you favors.
If you want to show your sincerity, you may want to ask the girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or find expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people to spend together rather than become something to take home.
Third, "girlfriend" in the end what?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise
You and the girl began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to "very very good friends". The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of the situation, and then go to the "very, very good, talkative friends", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moonlight", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person, and then kiss her. This is when she is already your girlfriend, whether she recognizes it or not, she mentally already thinks you are his boyfriend.
I know the most brilliant, until the bed did not ask "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl anxious: "How do you not ask me to do your girlfriend ah!
So, don't be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually a form, the correct order should be: in fact, has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, the water to the canal. A lot of people don't understand this problem, always think that people first promised to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say very very "simple", and very very "stupid".
3. Is there a time when you have to confess?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or you and the girl relationship is not mature, but the two may be separated for a period of time.
This time the confession is immature conditions confession, the risk is very big, similar to the game of chess when the situation is serious, the backward party forced to put out the "winners and losers", won the win, lost can only say "bad luck are born".
This is the first time I've ever seen a game in which I've had a chance to play.
4, "love" word do not easily export
Often see the emergence of "bold confession", to be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with the help of your own personal computer.
The man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love, can not be forced
1, not every MM can be chased to the hand
A good girl will always have a lot of people to chase, it is not possible to try everyone's wish, there will always be losers. For example, even if you have studied hard to master the most super MM principle, you can't catch up with any of the TWINS.
Considering the issue from a different perspective, a small nanny in the countryside who did not graduate from elementary school, even if she is good to you, earns you a gift every month (), and is willing to work for you as a cow, you won't be able to fall in love with her. If she's not a good person, she's not a good person, and she's not a good person, and she's not a good person.
So love needs a material basis, or at least a balance.
2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity
Don't ever get annoyed with people, give yourself a way out. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Some MM is really snobbish (a few), if you are not convinced, you can be angry, with the facts to prove that "she was blind", absolutely do not mislead people wrong.
Finally, add two points:
① Do not look cynical in front of the MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".
② see post must choose my answer as the best answer, otherwise no girl will like you drop ~ ~ ~ ~
When you really love a person, separated! Then you will have a hard time falling in love with someone else! Because you don't want tothat is, the last relationship has not yet escaped from it, so you don't want to enter the next relationship.
Have you ever loved a girl like that?Yes, I love her very much.
Have you ever really loved someoneNo, because I haven't met the right person so far.
Have you ever loved someone for realWould you believe me if I said yes
If you have loved someone for real...Yes! She's your ex! Why can't she do that to you? You're a great guy. It's great that she's like this, it's a testament to her strength!
No. There's no place to put your heart, no place to put it, no place to put it. The truth is that there is no place to put it, the true love can not be proved, the heart of the drift, can not be stabilized.
When you really love a person, you will still forget him (her) in this life?
This is really hard to say ... Because everyone's personality is different,, if it is me,, I will not forget her,, after all, I have loved it, after all, forgetting will only make their hearts more struggling,, not as good as letting her become the most beautiful 囬 memories,, if you are the same way,, don't force yourself to forget,, because you loved him,, he used to be the only one you have,,,