The exclusion of others is a behavior that everyone is born with.
An infant, who does not know people, does not speak, will use the heart of the sensibility and skin touch, and smell, these senses to feel the embrace of her people, some babies by some people will be embraced on the cry. This proves that people are born with the ability to exclude others.
Doing something to find a companion is even more casual to feel the scene and link of exclusion.
Those who are obedient, willing to do things together, have the same cognition and like, and are willing to take care of the group, have the same outlook. Get rid of people who have different opinions and different likes.
Just like square dancing, I thought it was a place where the masses could be together, and in fact it's pretty much the same. But there is still a small, more active group of people who are invisibly excluding others. These active daily dancers will slowly develop a uniform dress and movement code. Gradually, they will form two teams with those who do not have uniform costumes. The first is that the first time you have to go to the hospital, you will have to go to the hospital to get a doctor.
In the business world, it is more obvious. Some business is doing a lot of business boss, his interpersonal relationship is basically no herbicide. No matter what people come can take care of each other satisfied with the deal and then go.
And business is cold and quiet boss, is often spread herbicide. Come in a person, what is the character, what behavior speech, attitude, image, etc. are enlarged or emphasized, and then open herbicide spraying. Slowly these guests are not coming, successfully removed.
Often look at other people, can not tolerate people and people are not the same, is in the exclusion of dissimilarity, the same as spreading herbicides.
Weeding is worth it if it ends up being enjoyable for you.
In nature, no matter what plants and animals, as long as they grow out of their own ability to freely develop or eliminate, so they can nourish everything. Bonsai excludes dissimilarity so unique style. If a bonsai is not trimmed and pruned, it can not become a valuable object.
How big is the stage of the mind, how rich is the interpretation.
Either inclusion makes rich, or exclusion makes unique.