1, Spring Festival travel rush lost its particularity.
What was delicious in the past, we all kept it for the New Year, and our families would choose to get together on that day. On that day, firecrackers would be set off, and red envelopes would be given on that day, which was also a day to pay New Year greetings to our elders. Isn't this the most special day?
Now we usually eat whatever we like during the Spring Festival. When you have a holiday, you will go home. Relatives and friends also have mobile phone WeChat, and they can get in touch in time, and firecrackers are not released. It seems that National Day has always been like this! What's special about this day? That's what I usually do when I go home every weekend! In this case, how can I agree with the particularity of this day? Well, there is no taste of the year!
Because the traditional society is relatively poor, everyone agrees that the special thing about that day is the different way of eating, and everyone remembers this way of eating. Therefore, when the standard of living is good, the food eaten in the New Year is generally affordable, which can't reflect the particularity of the New Year's Day.
2. Utilitarian communication is becoming more and more serious.
"On New Year's Eve, I went home to have dinner with my parents. On the first day, I visited my neighbor's house next door. On the second day, I visited my mother-in-law's house. On the third day, I invited menstruation and my sister to go home for dinner and get together. This year is the completion of the task. " Xiao Yang, a white-collar worker, had no choice but to ridicule the "Spring Festival travel rush Task".
He admits that the Chinese New Year is becoming more and more boring now, just like the task set every year. In addition to these daily work, the most important thing is to exchange gifts, drink and look for opportunities for cooperation in the coming year. There is less affection, but the utilitarian heart is getting heavier.
3. the heart of comparison is getting heavier and heavier.
More and more young people are increasingly worried about the experience of "sad year". When I go home for the New Year, I am most afraid that my relatives and friends will ask three questions: "Are you married? What do you do? Did you get a promotion? How much is the monthly salary? Have you bought a house? " The child just got promoted, talked about the rich object and bought a 150 apartment.
To tell the truth, no matter how hard you stick to it, there are always relatives and friends who seize all the omissions and seamlessly connect 24 hours and 360 degrees to show what a soldier is like in the program. A series of high-frequency contrast combination punches will definitely aggravate your internal injuries. So the "Spring Festival Comparison Syndrome" was born in such a gorgeous way. Then, do you still think this year is meaningful?
4. Everyone has been holding their mobile phones, and they are all bowing their heads.
In the past, relatives and friends got together to eat snacks in their hometown, chatting about the big and small things of each family and nagging about the trivial things in life. Now even if friends and relatives get together, many people are playing with their mobile phones and are "bowing their heads".
Obviously, the most important and missed person is in front of us. Why can't you put down your cell phone and talk? The furthest distance in the world is when I am in front of you and you are playing with your mobile phone!