I am doing the Internet project turnaround. 17 years of entrepreneurial failure in debt of nearly one million two hundred thousand, no capital, choose not to need to invest in the industry, no experience, no contacts, all rely on their own to figure out. Now I pay off all the external debt. Once the efforts are not in vain, I want to say anything do not be discouraged, everything is valuable to adhere to, do not give up
First of all, I have to say a word, you have this "simmering" word used very accurately, that is, simmering, what can be done is not. No matter what reason you are in debt, as long as you now have more than a million debts, you can not take it easy every day, even if today a debt collection is not, you will be difficult to say so, you think about your own will not every day to blame yourself, regret? If you are indebted to the gambling debt that I have no good way to introduce to you, because I have no way to tell you, if you are because of entrepreneurial failure owed to the bank or credit card, online lending companies or individuals owe more than a million I can tell you how to get through. The first point, put aside unrealistic fantasies, do not want to get rich overnight and rise again, put aside your dignity in the past, hurry to find a way you can feed yourself or your whole family to money channels, there is no money to eat what to say to get through, if you can still sit in the house on the desk, driving a scooter to tell me that you still have to toss the you have to start a business, can not work. Then you are still here to say "simmer" what strength? This kind of people still have a little capital ah, if there is nothing to come here to talk about "boil", I see a lot of people send video, text said that the failure of the entrepreneurship still have to toss, can not work, those are nonsense, he went through the penniless, debtors forced to debt, unable to continue the cause of the bitter days? He simply did not come to the end of the mountain, forced to the point of no choice. He still has a house to live in, there are cars to drive, millions of debt can still be tossed, that his debt simply no one forced him, or forced him to force not powerful, in today's society to collect more and more judicial intervention, no matter whose money you owe you have to pay back, all of your assets can be frozen, the auction - unless you do the old man, or else which so Easy to talk about the second and third business, pure bullshit; the second point, in your failure to fall in this period of time, you may feel the cruelty of human warmth and cold, do not care so much, these should not be interfering with you to continue to live the factors you should do is to summarize the reasons for your failure, is to continue to accumulate capital experience in the Bank, waiting for a resurgence, or is this industry is not suitable for you, you need to re-search for a new Development direction, you must carefully choose the direction of the second start, do not look for those so-called marketing gurus, entrepreneurship, how many how many ideas, are useful, who told you ah, their own early sneak to do it, you should look for your side of the success of the people or do not do a good job of the boss to teach, to learn, to work for them is not a shame, you do not need to work to learn from experience. Then why did you fail? If you have a successful model area to learn, imitate you can stand up again, if you are still blindly forward, even if you give you another million you may have lost two million; the third point, no matter who owes money to any person or organization to negotiate with the gas, try to postpone or installment payment, really do not agree to have no way to do something is not you soften the good words, you are difficult to your pity they will have mercy on you, the come! The still have to come, have to hold on. Finally, a word of advice: good medicine is good for the disease, the words of advice is good for the behavior. All people say can not be immediately effective, some things have to be experienced to have a deep experience, do not go through the suffering how to get to the next level! Go for it! You can see my debt
Thank you! Debt million for an ordinary person and the average family is still relatively large pressure, I am also heavily indebted I believe is also more qualified to answer this question! Then when in debt do the following points can still come out!
One. Reflecting on the reasons for indebtedness revitalization
Debt is not terrible first of all we have to figure out what causes us to be in debt, because of bad habits or health problems or because of the failure of the business it! After we find the reason then we have to make corresponding countermeasures, and bad hobbies to draw a clear line is necessary to do, and then find a suitable job to solve the problem of food and clothing first, the general indebtedness to the point that we can not afford the time many people will have the idea of light, this time to think about caring for us such as parents, wife and children, and so on! To realize that we just owe the debt is not owed life!
Two. A new environment from a new start
Say this is not to let you escape debt, because generally to debt when many people around us will be looking at us with colored glasses, do things inevitably affected. Even some of the collection will make our life difficult, then this time we may wish to change the environment for a change of mood, but be sure to keep in touch with the creditor do not lose contact to escape!
Three. More go out and relax
General to the debt when most people like to put themselves in a sealed environment, not in like to socialize. After a long time will lead to depression or silence, in fact, this time we need to relax, such as going to climb the mountain, jumping square dance to go and so on. More to participate in some group activities will also help everyone's health, whether physical or psychological. Anyway, the debt has been heavy, rather than every day bitter regret to let go of the self to think of ways to solve the problem!
People inevitably go through ups and downs in their lives, don't be proud when you win, don't be discouraged when you lose. The normal mindset is a person really based on the fundamental. Everyone will experience success, everyone will experience failure. But everyone's mindset of success and failure is different. People often hope that everything goes well, everything is as it should be, but life is not so much as it should be, it is all ups and downs. Only those who have experienced great storms can talk about life quietly. If a person is a million dollars in debt, how to get through it? Everything in the world happens for a reason. I think when a person is facing difficulties and pressure, he should not think how come I am like this? Rather, one should think about why I was like that in the first place, and find a solution to the problem. Negativity will only make themselves a failure, then you have to think about when I was also good, and now it is in the test of me. Everything is divided into how to think, often those who are negative, the end of the collapse of the people not only not good, but worse than before. Only optimistic face, to face the positive heart of the people, not only through the difficult times, but also for life to win an experience, so people this life, do not experience some setbacks, that are not called life. So finally my sentence to everyone, born over a hundred flavors, life needs to laugh at.
First of all, adjust the mentality, and then organize the resources that can be used to review why the failure, there is nothing that can be used to start from the low resources, otherwise it is more and more waste, I am, a little less than you owe, at home in the muddled half a year, rely on the Internet loan borrowing money to make a living, and now from the stalls began to do, since the death can not be, that will die according to the death of the dry, **** reluctantly!
Winning or losing mainly depends on their own control, the reasonable distribution of the principal stop loss control heart in place, it is possible to bet as a career. Gamblers control heart, win is their own, not the dealer. As long as the loss can stop, dare to admit defeat will not always lose. Road playing method, that is certainly there, but it is not possible to a fresh move through the sky. Lose a lot of people are not admit defeat caused by, win ten twenty days, the result of that day lost money will not admit defeat, must win. So keep chasing money to smash the money, resulting in whitewashing, but if you admit defeat, do not engage in, then how to whitewash it. In the end, it is still a control problem. We are all in the circle, I just hope that my own experience can make gamblers realize something put! Many people say that gambling is bad, indeed bad, but into the circle of people basically can not get out, my idea is that since I can not quit that control, control themselves how to gamble, the gambling sea is endless, many people in the sea swimming in the hope of going ashore unaware of the sea of the sea is not big enough to go ashore on the death of La, I hope I can be sensible, in the sea of gambling to find a boat, and I myself is the helm of the people, to be able to swim in the sea on the good! I'm not sure if I've ever seen a boat with the same name, but I'm not sure if I've ever seen a boat with the same name, but I've never seen a boat with the same name. Of course, this ability is not random, need a strong mind, sensible play, reasonable chip arrangement. I got myself a mass production program, like a robot like the implementation of more than half a year, although the process is very painful, need time to need energy, but look at the earnings slowly accumulated, or more gratified, I personally believe that gambling this thing is mainly the control of the principal, the reasonable distribution of chips, as well as the combination of playing skills, 3 must be able to be a good combination of that link out of the problem is basically a losing game. I can now basically do more win less lose, but this thing is absolutely no always win the argument! Regardless of any play Any chips reasonable, after all, mathematical probability is here, many people say that the dealer kills people, in fact, many times depending on your own out of the node problem. You randomly messed up 6 hands, and you have a purpose in the right time to strike, the probability of hitting is certainly not the same. Another thing is human nature! Greed is the root of everything, a lot of people are not enough to win, lose do not go, win when you think of the trend and kill all the bankers, lose when you think of remodeling the undefeated body, alas in fact, win or lose is an antithesis, there is no forever lose or forever win, the main thing is to let yourself develop a good habit, win how much to go, how much to stop losing, of course, words are easy to say, but the thing is not easy to do, because the desire of the people is the most difficult to control. control, so the final result of the minutes is a direct whitewash. I hope that the brothers in the sea can really think about the future of the road, either quit forced ashore, or is honestly learn to play reasonably, scientific control
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