Old people often say that there are three kinds of unfilial, and life without children is incomplete, but some people can't give birth to their own little baby because of congenital defects. I believe this is a great pity for every woman. But some people insist on having children for their own obsession. Once upon a time, there was a pocket mother, and the doctor advised her not to have a baby. After the baby was born, it made her family miserable. Today, let's learn about the story that happened to this pocket mother.
90 cm pocket girl meets true love
In a variety show hosted by teacher Tu Lei, there was a pocket girl who was only 90 cm tall. Due to birth defects, she was born with dwarfism and severe brittle bone disease. So she has been criticized and ridiculed since she was a child. Faced with this, the pocket girl is also very inferior and must always pay attention to her own safety. After all, according to his (her) physical condition, he (she) will be fractured and even life-threatening if he (she) is not careful.
God closed a door and opened a window for her. Although her body has serious congenital defects, fortunately, she has a beautiful face and a very gentle personality. Although she once felt inferior, she didn't degenerate because she was different. Instead, she faced everything positively and bravely and tried to live. Maybe it was God's blessing that she met her own love. They met and fell in love and entered the marriage hall.
Give birth to a child regardless of dissuasion
Her husband was naughty when he was a child, which disfigured half his face. This made the two appreciate each other and soon became pregnant with a baby after marriage. I thought they would live a happy life, but the doctor found that their condition was not suitable for having children. Because of genetic problems, it is bound to have a certain impact on future generations. In order to avoid this situation and prevent children from suffering the same situation as their parents, the doctor advised them to reconsider.
In the case of a pocket girl, pregnancy is really risky. After all, she needs special care in her daily life, even taking care of herself is a problem, let alone having a baby. If you encounter a bump, there will definitely be very serious consequences. But even so, the pocket girl insisted on giving birth to the child. For a woman, everyone must want to have a baby of their own, and Pocket Girl is no exception, so she gave birth to this baby despite the opposition of her family and the doctor's dissuasion.
After the baby was born, the whole family collapsed.
There is no doubt that the pocket mother also experienced great difficulties during pregnancy, but she successfully gave birth to a child with her tenacious will. The whole family was immersed in joy, but God played a joke on them, because the doctor found that the child also suffered from brittle bone disease after examination. Even if the family takes good care of it, the baby still has many fractures. The child born with hard work is a porcelain doll, which brings the whole family to the brink of collapse.
The baby is less than three years old and has only a dozen fractures, which is enough to indicate that the baby will face the same fate as his mother in the future. Such a disease is so rare that there is no way to treat it according to the current medical technology. In the future, this not-so-rich family is bound to spend a lot of manpower, financial resources and time to take good care of the two.
Is her decision love or selfishness?
The action of this pocket mother has aroused heated discussion among many netizens. Some netizens believe that since they know that they can't take care of their children and know what risks they will face when having children, they should have the awareness of adults and don't let their children repeat their own mistakes. Although she knew that the child would face such risks, she still insisted on giving birth to the child, which was a very selfish act, and because of her decision, the child would suffer from the disease for life.
Of course, some netizens hold different views. They feel that everyone has the right to be a parent, and no one can stop their choice. For this matter, Pocket Mom also expressed no regret. She thinks she has the right to be pregnant and have children. In any case, the great mother finally realized one of her wishes.
Adult consciousness.
We can understand that a pocket mother wants her baby, but we should listen to the doctor's advice, otherwise it will only be the child who will suffer in the future, so we must think carefully and be responsible for the future of the child. Now this pocket mother is also in pain, and she doesn't know what to do in the future. At present, she can only do her best to protect her son, and she can only take it one step at a time.
Now that I have grown up, I need to consider the problem from many aspects, and I can't just act on my own feelings. This is also the consciousness that we should have as adults. Mark Twain once said: Caution is purely a new quality. It is done by feeling, not by reason. The limit it can reach should be broader and nobler, so that he can detect and avoid any danger that does not exist at all. Therefore, in daily life, no matter what you do, you should think carefully from many aspects, and reckless behavior will inevitably bring irreparable consequences.
Now that it is irreparable, we can only face all setbacks and hardships, bravely fight against fate and not be defeated by the disease. I also hope that this pocket mother and her children can spend their lives in peace, and I hope that all people with defects in the world can live in peace. I don't know. What do you think of this?