Chinese wedding etiquette habits, three days of marriage, the bride will have to bring a lot of gifts with the groom to go home, also known as three days "back to the door".
This is a Chinese folk ritual. The bride's parents attach great importance to the ritual of three days back to the door, is a major event for the bride's whole family, so the new bride three days back to the door, to have a good preparation in the gift, and strive to give the father-in-law a good impression.
The return gift should be prepared in advance, the gift must be the bride's parents like things, the return gift to buy fashionable gifts. Back to the bride's home must be between 10 o'clock to the bride's home, the bride and groom should first greet the old man, the groom should change his name to Mom and Dad, treating family, friends and neighbors should also show cordiality and enthusiasm.
In the family meal, the bride and groom to sit on one side, toast to thank everyone for their blessing of the wedding. After the meal, do not rush home, to accompany the parents to talk for a while or with the family to engage in some recreational activities, around 4 o'clock in the afternoon before the sun goes down to welcome the sun home, but also to invite the elderly and siblings to their own home guests.
2. What is the custom of returning to the door in Jinan
The return of the door is also known as "returning to Ning", or "returning to the mother's home".
The taboos are also mostly about the bride, but they refer to the taboos of the bride in returning to her mother's home. Around Henan, in addition to the above-mentioned taboos on the 15th of the first month back to the bride's home to see the lights, but also taboos stove, the first day of the first month back to the bride's home.
Because the female does not sacrifice stove, so the stove day is not called the girl back to her mother's home. The first day of the first month is the beginning of the year, married out of the girl out of the water, married to the husband's family is the husband's family.
At the beginning of the year, the family reunion, naturally, it is inconvenient to go back to the mother's home. The 15th day of the first month is also the first full moon of the year, fear of the daughter-in-law back to the mother's family will not be reunited.
So it is generally the second day of the first month back to the bride's home, the sixteenth day of the first month back to the bride's home. In order to take care of both sides of the marriage reunion celebration.
Luyi County, there is a "sixteen on the first day of the month please (daughter), February 2 to send, a lifetime of not sick," the proverb. Zhejiang and other places, the old taboo bride back to the door on the winter solstice.
Otherwise, it is thought that the husband's parents will die. Proverb: "Nyonya live a winter, the husband's family to a public."
Jiangsu also has this custom.
Shaan Beijin said, "I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I think it's a good idea for me to do it.
The custom of returning to the mother's home on June 6 in the northern Shaanxi area is said to be to contact the feelings between in-laws, when the mother's home to invite the daughter and son-in-law back to the reunion. Henan also has this custom, however, is associated with the season of wheat harvesting and playing field.
The rhyme goes: "After harvesting wheat, playing the field, who's daughter does not see her mother. If the daughter doesn't visit her mother, she'll die if not for her father-in-law."
Back to the door when the day of the taboo, is to let the bride to comply with the order of exchanges, should not go back to the door must not go back to the door, otherwise there will be bad things happen; the door back to the door, must go back to the door, or else, there will also be bad things happen. Generally three days after the wedding, the bride and groom to return to the door to visit the two old, but that night must return to the husband's home before sunset, because the newlyweds can not empty the new room.
The Linxian area of Henan, the bride three days back to the door to go along the road to welcome the bride, the so-called "three days do not walk two roads. Yi bride back to the door when the taboo on the road and the groom to talk to, the two like strangers like passers-by.
This is not down with the custom of the husband's home. Han Chinese back to the door when the two mouths are always kissing, talking and laughing.
The folk have "back to the mother's home" of the popular ditty. The gifts brought by the newlyweds are in pairs, avoiding the singular.
The bride's family can not be accepted in full, to return to the husband's home, but also to bring back a part. Some brides, influenced by superstitious thinking, until 120 days (four months) after the return to the peace, and some three years later to go home.
In some parts of Zhejiang, there are women's lives committed the so-called "broken family", such women, not at home on the sedan chair, the marriage by the male family to pick up the female out of the door, women wearing rags, dressed as a beggar look like a temple in the dress on the sedan chair, so-called "borrowed marriage", the female family! Parents and relatives must be hidden, all by the husband's family care. One hundred and twenty days after the wedding, before you can return to peace.
Otherwise, the mother's family will be ruined or suffer misfortune. There is also the so-called fate of the crime of "leave the hole" (husband and wife separated) and "back to Lu" (by the fire), are four months, or even three years before they can go home.
Generally speaking, after a month of marriage, in-laws can freely communicate with each other. The bride can stay at her mother's house when she returns home.
The number of days to live is quite delicate. Some areas of Henan have a few days to go to live a few days of custom.
The proverbial cloud: "eight to eight, two hair", "nine to nine, two have". That is to say, the eighth day of the return of Ning can live in the mother's home for eight days, the ninth day of the return of Ning can live in the mother's home for nine days.
In this way, the maximum number of days is to live a pair of months. If you live in this way, it is auspicious for both the man and the woman, otherwise it is not good.
However, there is also a taboo on living eight days, so-called: "live seven do not live eight, live eight poor mother's home." The formation of this taboo is generally out of the marriage out of the girl is not easy to live in the mother's home more than the ideological considerations.
There are emotional restrictions, moral constraints, but also economic pressures and production needs, is a variety of factors contributed to this customary agreement. If the bridegroom and the bride return to their mother's home together, there are different taboos regarding their accommodation in the mother's home.
In both the Han and Manchu there is a custom of the newlyweds returning to their mother's home to avoid sharing the same room. The Manchus allow the master to live in the west kang, other guests are not allowed to live in the west kang.
But the girl and the master can not live together, it is said that the newlyweds in the bride's home room will make the bride's family decline. This is also a result of the notion that the sexual act is unclean and would be blasphemous.
Folk often think that, between men and women, the woman is always at a disadvantage. For this reason, there is always a little bit of repression in the psychological aspect of the female family.
Besides, the mother's family, the mother-in-law's family does not belong to a lineage, how can the mother's family indoor for the mother-in-law's family to provide a place to pass on? If you are really pregnant in your mother's home, you will not bring your mother's family's "power" and "wealth" to your mother-in-law's home. The mother's family will surely decline as a result. So it is absolutely forbidden for the two children in the mother's home in the same room, which is this custom under the ideological concept.
However, the same in the Han, there are many places where it is not taboo to the newlyweds in the mother's home in the same bed **** pillow. Sometimes, these two very different customs will coexist in the same county, for example, in Henan Linxian these two customs exist at the same time.
After the bride returned to the door, the identity has changed, is the person of the family, and therefore, the mother's family also often "to prevent her". Oroqen married daughter back to her mother's home, taboo brush pot.
Otherwise, the mother's family's fortune will be brushed away by her. Xiuwu County, Henan Province has a similar taboo.
Local folk taboo out of the girl touch, take the mother's spoon and fire pole. It is said that "touching the spoon is not dead father-in-law, dead mother-in-law", "take the fire pillar is not dead father-in-law, dead son-in-law".
It is also taboo to take the mother's knife, scissors, taboo to catch the mother's dog and so on. Said: "I'm afraid that in the future to cut the relationship between the mother's family, bite off the road."
In short, it is the birth of a hundred laws to prevent the girl from getting married and then use or take away the things of the mother's family, if you get married and then take the things of the mother's family, and as a result of verbal disputes, disputes, it will inevitably affect the relationship between men and women of the two families, but, after all, it is not a good way to strictly prevent, how can we consciously let her not to take it? So with "dead father-in-law", "dead son-in-law" curse to scare her, to warn. The bride to return to the peace, avoid the in-laws encountered in the unhappy things to the mother's family to listen to, and avoid returning to the mother-in-law's home, and then the mother's affairs, regardless of the importance of the in-laws to listen to all.
This "learning tongue" results often cause trouble, affecting the relationship between men and women, the new woman will also fall a "rap mother" reputation. Therefore, there is a proverb that says, "If you are a daughter-in-law, you can't be a daughter-in-law, you can't be a daughter-in-law, you can't be a daughter-in-law, you can't be a daughter-in-law, you can't be a daughter-in-law.
This is in the bride to deal with both men and women.
3. Please tell me about the various etiquette and wedding steps in Jinan.
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And generally at the wedding banquet ceremony is as follows: 1. The bride and groom at the door of the banquet hall to welcome the guests; 2. Witnesses, introducers, guests, officiating guests and relatives to take a seat; 3. The wedding ceremony began, playing the "Wedding March"; 4. Male and female guests to introduce the bridegroom, the groom to take a seat; 5. Master of Ceremonies to preside over the marriage ceremony; 6. Witnesses to speak, read out the certificate of marriage; 7. Guests on behalf of the speakers, congratulatory remarks; 8. bride and groom exchange tokens; 9. open champagne, cut the wedding cake, drink a cup of wine; 10. both parents on the stage, parent representatives speak, congratulatory words; 11. bride and groom phase to both parents three bows, three bows to the guests, three bows to each other; 12. photo; 13. toast, the master of ceremonies to announce the banquet began; 14. bridesmaids to lead bride and groom to retire;? Wedding invitation writing This is the wedding party men and women applied to invite their friends and relatives to the invitation to the banquet. Generally by the bride and groom, the bride *** with the name, can also be named separately, or by their parents name.
Example 1: I signed the invitation we are pleased to be ** month ** day * noon ** hour seat ** hotel ** hall wedding banquet please come *** please book *** Example 2: Parents signed the invitation is pleased to be ** month ** day * noon ** hour seat ** hotel ** hall for the child *** (female ***) wedding banquet please come *** parents please book *** First, write the invitation letter should be noted ① Invitee's name should be written in full, should not write nicknames or aliases. ② between the two names should be written "and" or "and", without a stop or comma.
③ The date (day of the month, day of the week) on which the wedding is to take place should be stated.
④ Write the place where the wedding will be held.
Second, the hanging scroll General Greetings Samsung in the household / talent and beauty / a match made in heaven / coincidence of fate / God's good fortune / five generations of Qichang / phoenix in flight / heart to heart / dragon phoenix soaring / Jade Tree, Qiongzhi / Le Fu singing with / forever tie the knot / a hundred years of good luck / a century of good couples / sentimental dependents / unity and friendship / shoulder to shoulder / such as the drums of the qin and serpentine / flowers bloom and tibi / flowers in good fortune and moonrise / like-mindedness / Lian Li Jiezhi / happy and fulfilled / Changyi five times / good luck / good luck / good luck. Changyi five generations / good couple.
4. Please advise on the various etiquettes and wedding steps when getting married in Jinan.
Generic Wedding Preparation Process 1.Wedding Preparation 1.1.Decide on the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding banquet 1.2.Determine the wedding budget 1.3.Draft the guest list 1.4.Call your good friends to discuss the wedding plan 1.5.Determine the best man and bridesmaid 1.6.Determine the wedding witnesses 2.Wedding Pre-wedding Preparation 2.1.Communicate with all the stakeholders of the wedding project 2.1.1.Communicate with parents about the wedding preparation plan and the progress. Wedding preparation plans and progress with parents 2.1.2. send wedding stickers to friends and relatives 2.1.3. phone call to notify out-of-town friends and relatives 2.1.4. friends and relatives to attend the confirmation of the 2.1.5. to determine the day of the wedding auxiliary personnel, a clear division of labor (men and women, hotel coordination, firecrackers, the hotel to welcome the guests, the wedding signing, wedding candies, wedding site and the hotel cave decoration, wedding car, photography, videography) 2.1 .6. Draw a sketch of the wedding site, indicating the tables of friends and relatives 2.1.7. Men and women to welcome the guests and the bride and groom to familiarize themselves with the sketch of the wedding site and the parties seated in the orientation of friends and relatives 2.1.8. Make a wedding card 2.1.9. Make a wedding plan, determine the list of relevant personnel and contact information 2.2. Procurement of wedding goods 2.2.1. Joy letters, cold fireworks (depending on the situation), sign-in book 2.2.2.6. cigarettes, alcohol, beverages 2.2.2.7. sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea 2.2.2.8. digital camera memory cards or film 2.2.2.9. flowers, fruits 2.3. Bride and groom image preparation 2.3.1. the bride to start the skin care 2.3.2. the groom to cut his hair 2.4. the layout of the new room 2.5. to determine the wedding Host (or wedding company) 2.5.1.Communicate with them on the wedding day plan and vision 2.6.Wedding banquet reservation 2.6.1.Estimate the number of guests 2.6.2.Estimate the number of banquets 2.6.3.Select the location of the wedding banquet 2.6.4.Confirm the menu of banquets and prices 2.6.5.Confirm the acoustics at the wedding banquet site 2.6.6.Coordinate with the hotel on details of the wedding banquet setup, etc. 2.6.7. Reserve the banquet 2.7. Wedding Makeup Reservation 2.7.1. Choose the makeup location 2.7.2. Communicate with the makeup artist 2.7.3. Confirm the styling of the wedding day 2.7.4. Reserve the specific time for makeup 2.8. Wedding Vehicle Reservation 2.8.1. Determine the number of wedding vehicles 2.8.2. Reserve the time and location of the colorful car zapping 2.8.3. Determine the wedding day wedding car traveling routes and the required time 2.8.4. Reserve the wedding car 2.9. Wedding camera reservation 2.9.1. Determine the number of photography and videography 2.9.2. Select the wedding day photography and videography personnel 2.9.3. Arrange for photography and videography division of labor 2.9.4. Prepare photographic and video equipment 2.9.5. Appointment of photography and videography 2.10. Other 2.10.1. Exchange brand-new banknotes 2.10.2. Determine the children of the bed-roll 2.10. 3. Prepare guest rooms for friends and relatives coming from afar 3. Preparation for the day before the wedding 3.1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding 3.1.1. Communicate with parents on the completion of wedding preparations 3.1.2. Finalize communication with the preparation team on the status of preparations and division of labor on the wedding day 3.1.3. Finalize communication with the officiating hosts on the progress of the ceremony on the wedding day according to the status of preparations 3.1.4. Communicate with groomsmen and bridesmaids 3.1.5. Final confirmation of friends and relatives who will help 3.1.6. Final confirmation of preparations for the wedding banquet, vehicles, photography, make-up and other details 3.2. Confirmation of preparations for speakers on the day of the wedding 3.2.1. Preparation of speeches by witnesses 3.2.2. Preparation of speeches by representatives of parents 3.2.3. Preparation of speeches by representatives of guests (as appropriate) 3.2.4. Preparation of questions by the bride during the welcome 3.2.5. Preparation of questions for the wedding 3.2.5. Preparation of questions for the bride during the welcome 3.2.6. Preparation of questions for the wedding 3.2.7. Preparation of questions to be asked by the bride and groom 3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter during the ceremony or in the bridal chamber 3.3. Final confirmation of the preparation of all items for the wedding day 3.3.1. Final fitting of all dresses 3.3.2. Separate pockets for all the garments to be worn on the wedding day 3.3.3. Preparation of two bottles of fake wine 3.3.4. Preparation of fast food and dry food for the bride and groom to be placed in the bridal chamber on the wedding day, as well as drinks, fruits, fresh flowers, disposable Drinks, fruits, flowers, disposable cups 3.3.5. Final check of all items and hand them over to a person for safekeeping, and issue a list of items 3.3.5.1. Bride's new shoes 3.3.5.2. Rings 3.3.5.3. Red envelopes 3.3.5.4. Jewelry to be worn 3.3.5.5. Bride's make-up box 3.3.5.6. Sugar, cigarettes, alcohol, tea, drinks 3.3.5.7. Fireworks props 3.4. Special preparations for the bride and groom 3.4.1. Bride and groom repeatedly familiarize themselves with the wedding program 3.4.2. Rehearsal of the action of holding the bride 3.4.3. Rehearsal of the wedding proceeding steps 3.4.4. Rehearsal of the action of handing over the cups of wine 3.4.5. Relaxation, encouragement of each other 3.4.6. Attention to sleep, early rest 4. Wedding day process 4.1. make-up 4.2. wedding car, photography, videography Arrival time final confirmation 4.2.1. vehicle arrangements 4.3. welcome the bride 4.3.1. to the bride's home 4.3.1.1 groom ready to flowers, red packets 4.3.1.2 before leaving the door to inform the bride 4.3.1.3 10 minutes before arriving to inform the bride to welcome the firecrackers are ready to 4.3.1.4 enter the door to the bride before the bride's friends and relatives to ask questions to obstruct (optional), stuffed with a red packet, right 4.3.1.5 the bride to ask questions, Groom commitment 4.3.1.6 groom to the female parents tea, group photo 4.3.1.7 cinnamon, lotus heart, red dates (Shuipu egg) soup (depending on the custom) 4.3.1.8 out of the door before the bride to say goodbye to her parents, the groom to the bride's parents, commitment, the bride's parents blessing 4.3.1.9 firecrackers ready 4.3.2. to the bridegroom's home 4.3.2.1 arrival 10 minutes prior to the welcome to the bride's family informed of the firecrackers ready 4.3 .2.2.2 the man's parents to prepare to meet the red envelope 4.3.2.3 the bride to the man's parents tea, group photo 4.3.2.4 cinnamon, lotus heart, red dates (Shuipu eggs) soup (depending on the custom) 4.3.2.5 out of the door before bidding goodbye to the parents, the man's parents blessing 4.3.2.6 firecrackers ready 4.3.3.location shooting 4.4.hotel preparation 4.4.1. will be sugar, cigarettes, alcohol, tea and beverages, Celebration candles, etc. brought to the hotel wedding room 4.4.2. hotel wedding room setup 4.4.3. final check of the banquet arrangements, sound, check-in and other details 4.5. hotel welcome 4.5.1. bride and groom to the hotel to rest, make-up 4.5.2. check-in personnel in place 4.5.3. welcome personnel in place at the door 4.5.4. bride and groom, the bridesmaids and groomsmen to welcome the guests at the door 4.6. wedding ceremony (depending on the wedding Company arrangements) 4.6.1. host preparation, sound preparation, ring preparation, flower petals, ribbon preparation 4.6.2. music, the newcomers enter, colorful ribbons (flower petals) 4.6.3. host introduction 4.6.4. hosts speech 4.6.5. parents of the newcomer to the stage 4.6.6. bride and groom to exchange the ring, three bows 4.6.7. parents of both sides of the representatives of the speech 4.6.8. newcomers to open the Champagne, cut the cake, drink a cup of wine 4.7. Wedding banquet 4.8. cave 4.9. leave the hotel before counting all the items 5. Wedding project end 5.1 The best man and maid of honor rate of the preparatory group to find another place to summarize the project Related ceremonies: touching the happy eggs, small children press the bed (depending on the custom).
5. Wedding back to the door banquet process details What to bring back to the door what to wear have to pay attention to
(a) pre-preparation
10:30 minutes, the sound engineer to choose its tracks to create a scene atmosphere. 10:50 minutes, the chief arrangements for the welcoming matters. Both parents wear corsages, newcomers wear flowers, important guests wear VIP flowers. 11:16 minutes, the return banquet ceremony officially began. (According to the arrival of guests to determine the final start time.)
(B) opening
1. 9 bells ringing (accompanied by a live band)
Lighting requirements: to be the first bells ringing, the field lights are turned off one after another, the computer lights swaying, smoke, bubbles and a number of.
2. When the bell rings, the electro-acoustic band music is strong. Music style: suitable for the male host on the music, and both parents on the field and the newcomer on the field of music is different, the field lights come on one after another.
Host: from the audience walked across the red carpet to the center of the stage. (Lighting requirements: a beam of chasing light fixed; band requirements: to be the host of the self-introduction, the sound of the background music played.)
(C) the ceremony began
1, opening remarks
The host made a brief self-introduction and then took over: "Today is a good day, xx building is decorated with lights and colorful, joyful, all guests and friends to give up Sunday entertainment and relaxation time, come to participate in the x-fu: love son-in-law xx, love daughter xx yuan back to the door feast, first of all, please allow me to On behalf of xfu, x's parents to all of you to express (the) warmest welcome and (the) most heartfelt thanks! Now I declare: x House love son-in-law xxx, love daughter xxx back to the door feast appreciation will officially begin "! (Music)
2, the introduction of the new couple and the parents of the new couple
First of all: I solemnly introduce the VIP guests attending our today's event are xxxx. well, next A. Let's warmly applaud and invite Mr. and Mrs. xx to walk across the red carpet (music) B. Again, let's warmly applaud and invite the in-laws of the xx house, who have also traveled a long way from Taiyuan, Shanxi Province, to come here to the xx house of the xx house. Mr. and Mrs. Xi make their appearance. (Music)
3, the new parents speech
Next, let us use the warmest applause to invite today's 2 protagonists - the bridegroom: xxx, the bride: xxx shiny debut. (Music). xx month xx day, in xxx place, xxx and xxx two new couples held a grand wedding ceremony ceremony, today, these two new couples with their parents stood on the podium, in order to express to all guests and friends over the years to Mr. Chen Kai's whole family of care and love, specially planned this party. First of all, I would like to invite Mr. Chen Kai, who is the father-in-law of Tarzan, to make a speech. Please invite Mr. Xi Gong Gong from xx (address) to make a speech.
4, the new couple make a wish
Please stand in front of the wishing tree, the new couple to both parents and all the care, support of the elders and friends to make your best wishes to them. Please stand in front of the wishing ball and make your best wishes to yourself. (All lights will be cut off, only the wishing ball will be flashing, and only the newlyweds will be cut by the chasing light.) Please press the new couple to symbolize the eternal love of "handprint mud".
5, *** into the lunch
Please both parents on stage with the new couple together to all the guests three bows. (One bow, then bow, three bows). The ceremony is over. Thank all the guests. Please **** into the lunch.
6. Wedding back to the door banquet how to do How to do a good wedding back to the door banquet
Back to the door banquet how to do
First of all, let's understand what is called back to the door. The first thing you need to know is what it means to be married. That is, after the marriage of three, six, seven, nine, ten days or full moon, son-in-law with gifts, with the bride to return to her mother's home, visit his wife's parents and relatives. This is the last ceremony of the marriage.
Back to the door feast theme
Back to the door feast, also known as the thanks feast, and therefore must reflect the "thanks". But "thank" who, how to "thank", but also according to the change of the times, different. In ancient times, people had more respect for heaven and earth, so the proportion of thanking God in the return banquet was very important. Nowadays, thanking in the return banquet is mainly for the bride's parents and guests. Although it is not difficult for a daughter to see her mother and father after she gets married, the gratitude and love for her parents is not less than in ancient times.
Back to the door feast time
As far as time is concerned, Chen Yanxi July 19 wedding 22 back to the door feast, Lin Xinru July 31 wedding August 2 back to the door feast, are very standard three days after the wedding. However, Shen Teng's wedding 12 days after the wedding is not in the above time, is not it wrong?
In fact, now for the time of the return banquet requirements and not as strict as the ancient rituals, can be in the required time to do of course the best, if you do not want to be too rushed, in a month or so to complete is also possible, of course, there are also some because of the work factors or are too far apart, more than a month to do the return banquet is also there. As long as the new couple and both parents (especially the bride's parents) consensus on it.
What guests should be invited to the return banquet?
Because the homecoming banquet is the first time a married daughter goes back to her mother's home, of course, the first choice must be to invite the bride's mother's family elders and friends. Of course, if there are some friends and relatives because of time, distance and other relations, there is no way to attend your wedding, you can also invite them to come to your homecoming banquet.
Return banquet style
Because it is a Chinese wedding tradition, many couples will choose a Chinese style return banquet. Shen Teng's return banquet also includes a panda from the bride's hometown of Sichuan, which is creative and heartfelt. But if your wedding is a Chinese style, it is best to choose the Western style of the return banquet. So a Chinese and a Western more reflect the difference beauty.
In addition, the wedding, in order to take care of the views of the elders of both sides, many brides will cut their own wedding dreams to achieve a perfect wedding, so the return banquet, you can also choose the bride's favorite style to make up for her little regret.
Back to the door feast dress
Because the formal wedding has been done, so back to the door feast dress code is not as easy as the wedding. Although Lin Xinru still prepared three sets of return banquet dresses, but if you are afraid of trouble, just prepare a simple dress is also possible. There is also the fact that the return banquet can really put away those big tail wedding dresses, simple dresses, cheongsams and so on can be.
Back to the door banquet process
Seriously, now in the dowager see back to the door of the banquet process a lot of write the process of the wedding, so lead to a lot of newcomers is now the wedding, back to the door of the banquet can not tell the difference between the silly. In fact, we just need to remember what is back to the door banquet can not have the process, which is the need to highlight the process, on the line.
The return banquet does not need these processes: the exchange of tokens, the cup of wine, worship and so on. Because these processes are symbolized by a lifelong commitment, the wedding has been completed, there is no need to repeat here.
The return banquet can have these processes: champagne ceremony, cake ceremony, kissing, small games and other festive and lively content can be reflected in the return ceremony again. Of course, if you wish to be in the interesting point, you can choose some more lively opening, such as singing love songs.
In addition, has got the wedding video of the new couple, it is best to play your wedding video on the return banquet, on the one hand, you can show love, more importantly, can let the friends who did not participate in your wedding have a feel of your once-in-a-lifetime feast.
Ancient people believe that the end of the return banquet, the wedding is officially completed. From then on, two people, and even two families are truly united. Some people say, everyone is so busy, back to the door feast or save it. But life does sometimes need more ceremony, to teach us to honor the beauty of being respected, loved and cared for!
7. What are the procedures to get married in Jinan
To prepare a box. The case should be put inside the back of two beds. The so-called "three golds", the clothes bought for the daughter-in-law, the sweater, the shoes and the socks, are also put in the box. Sweaters, shoes and socks. Cotton jacket and watch. And then there's your condition. But when the man goes to the woman's house, he must put cigarettes and candy in the box.
The woman to buy a good suit for the man, shoes, tie and socks
The man also need to find a woman aged 40 years old or more to speak as a matchmaker (can not be divorced, widowed), the day is also to go, and the woman's parents to sit on the same seat. Secondly, the engagement day, in addition to the in-laws in-laws to give money after the girl to change their mouth to call parents, other male relatives such as aunt and uncle, aunt is also to give red packets. Girls as well as shouting aunt, aunt this is not shouting for nothing, aunt is also to spend money.
In Jinan, this custom is very different in each town and district. The best thing is to ask the woman to go home and ask her elders if there are any taboos and special attention.