When you drink a thousand glasses of wine, you have few close friends. It is rare to have a close friend in life, and the eternal voice is the most difficult to find. Yu Boya searched for a close friend in high mountains and flowing water. It can be seen that it is difficult to find a close friend and a close friend. It is even more difficult to find a confidant in a huge crowd of people who understands, understands and understands himself and can talk to him about everything.
In contemporary society, people's pace of life and work are accelerating, and psychological pressure and work pressure are increasing. The reinforced concrete jungle of high-rise buildings has increased the sense of strangeness between people, so people need to talk to friends and confidants to resolve their worries.
Nowadays, fair-weather friends abound, so let’s drink! There is a large group of people who huff and puff, never ambiguity, shouting and talking, talking about useless things, just talking with boastfulness, beaming, and capable of everything. When it comes to serious matters, critical matters, and matters that require help, there are not many people who can handle them!
Therefore, there is no need to make too many friends, as having too many friends will lead to death. A few close friends are enough. As long as you are willing to be sincere and treat each other sincerely, as long as the other person is not a villain, most of them can become confidants.
Why is it so difficult to have a confidant? When I saw this sentence, I remembered the saying "It is rare to have a confidant in life"... A confidant can be found but not sought. Throughout the ages, everyone has wanted to have a confidant.
Birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. In the vast world, you can truly find people with the same aspirations, appreciate each other, understand each other, have the same topics, etc. If you really understand, you will understand your life. Understand your humanity. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to come by, but a confidant is hard to find.
People often say: A close friend is enough in life. It is conceivable that a close friend is truly something that can only be found but not sought. In my opinion, it is better not to own it, otherwise it will be counterproductive and turn you into a stranger or an enemy.
Most people often encounter setbacks and troubles in life. When they are extremely painful and sad, they are also the most helpless and helpless. When your heart is the most fragile, you especially want to have someone. Understand you, comfort you, embrace you. At this time, the more you need to wake up to yourself, there is no free lunch in the world, otherwise it will be counterproductive, and you will suffer secondary damage. The kind of blow that adds insult to injury is heartbreaking and heartbreaking.
So, my point of view: When people are in the most pain, the most depressed, the most lonely, the most helpless, and the most helpless, they should seal themselves up and don’t have hope for anyone. How many confidants do you really understand?
Finding a close friend is like pie in the sky...
Why is it so difficult to find a close friend? There is a saying that goes like this: "A thousand glasses of wine with a close friend is too little, but half a sentence is too much to talk without speculation."
This means that if you drink with a person who has similar interests, drink a thousand glasses of wine with a close friend. I don't even think it's much; chatting with someone who has different views and opinions, even half a sentence feels redundant.
Some people say that a confidant is a person who understands you, understands you, and tolerates you; others say that a confidant is a person who cares for you, loves you, and likes you; I say that a confidant is a person who can reveal everything at any time. A thoughtful person; a person who dares to talk about all the good things and embarrassing things in his heart; a person who is not jealous, does not ridicule, and does not become sour about your stories.
It is difficult to find a confidant, and it is difficult to find a confidant. The difficulty lies in the fact that it is difficult for people to know each other's heart, mind, words, and bottom... People are selfish. In this world, there is no one. People will be nice to another person for no reason, unless this person has many attractive things that can be appreciated by the other person.
Boya and Ziqi became bosom friends because of Boya’s music that attracted Ziqi. Not only did Boya play the piano well, but Ziqi was also a good listener and could understand the meaning expressed by Boya’s music. and artistic conception. After Ziqi's death, Bo Ya lost his close friend due to pain, dropped his qin and broke the strings, and never played the qin again for the rest of his life.
In this realistic era of materialistic desires and impetuous people, what most people like to get close to is your bulging wallet and your beautiful appearance. They really care about you, understand you, and want to get into your heart. There are very few people who understand you and dispel the clouds for you!
When we were teenagers, we didn’t know what sadness was, what tiredness was, what unhappiness was. We laughed and laughed all day long, talked and laughed whenever we wanted, feeling that anyone in this world could be Friends, anyone can be a confidant.
As I walked, I suddenly discovered that life has another meaning that not everyone can enter into. Even if you occasionally meet someone who can express your feelings, he may not be able to understand what you are saying or what you want to express.
What is a confidant? A confidant is a person who can talk at any time; a confidant is a person who you don't doubt anything you say; a confidant is a person who can understand everything you say. A confidant is not a lover or a relative, but it must be someone close to you. A confidant is not a husband and wife, not a lover, but it must be someone who loves you!
Human life is full of ups and downs, and no one can live a smooth life; walking in the world, there is always sorrow, sadness, depression, negativity and frustration; When a person encounters setbacks or frustration, he wants to find a channel to relieve himself of his worries.
At this time, I really long for someone to talk to me and loosen the knot in my heart. However, I have gone through all the address books and I don’t know who to tell these words to? Who can you always confide in?
In this world of mortals and fireworks, how many people can give you their heart and soul without asking for anything in return? There are a few people who can have a heart-to-heart relationship with you and have a heart-to-heart relationship with you. If there is no sincere loyalty between people, how can they have the desire to express their sincere feelings to each other? It can be seen from this: "A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find." It's not surprising!