It's comfortable because older women are mature and tolerate their imperfections.
Many people say that for love, age is not an issue. Nowadays people are becoming more tolerant and generally give their blessing to couples who have a lot of age difference. Different people have different views on finding a lover who is much older, or much younger, than they are.
Traditionally, it is customary for a man to find a woman much younger than himself, and it is easily accepted. But a woman looking for a man much younger than herself often gets strange looks from others.
I don't have any requirements for a woman's age; those who are older than me have the benefit of being older; those who are younger than me have the benefit of being younger. I've been in love with both kinds of women, and my feelings are different.
With the woman who is older than me, she is very good at taking care of me, she is also very opinionated, most of the time I listen to her, my feeling is more affordable. In a relationship with a woman younger than me, she's a little birdie and makes me feel very much like a man, and I feel very honored, and it's pretty good too.
Different people have different criteria for choosing a spouse, whether they are looking for an older one or a younger one, as long as they love each other and as long as they like themselves. As outsiders, we all have to look at it with tolerance and blessing. The world is colorful, love should also be colorful.
There are also many people do not understand,
Mr. A small. Than Mr. A is not interested in those wives than the husband many years older than the marriage, in Mr. A can not be accepted even three years older, Mr. A do not know Mr. A think than Mr. A first reaction is ", is a sister. Mr. A birdie, let Mr. A will be very satisfied.
Some people's views are as follows:
When I was working in that former organization, there was a woman who was two years older than me pursuing me. At that time I didn't have the concept of age, two people just like each other and they got together. She was very good at taking care of people, like a big sister to take care of me, a lot of things I have to ask her how to do.
Later, because her mother did not agree, we broke up. Her mother said, "women married old eat steamed bread, married small eat fist", that is to say, women married to men older than their own, will be loved; married to men younger than their own, will not be loved, will be punched. I don't know if what her mom said makes sense, anyway, my ex-girlfriend believed it and broke up with me.