1, you want to give people reason, you have to mix better than others, let you shut up is not reason, but identity.
2, all the connections are illusion, with the master to establish a network of only three ways, you have the same wealth with the master, you have the ability and resources he needs, you have the same wisdom with him, in addition to this, he will not pay attention to you.
3, and then good friends help to remember to express gratitude, either to send gifts, or treats, remember those who take the initiative in favor of letting you owe him are masters, so owed favors to take the initiative to return, or wait for him to open, most likely not a small matter. Life in the world, the most important thing is to insight into human nature, understand human nature can be unfavorable.
4. The weakness of human nature tells us that the beauty of the lover, the beauty of interdependence; the preciousness of friends, the preciousness of the snow in the charcoal.
5, the world was not absolutely right and wrong, the weak and the strong, the king is defeated, all the rules are set by the winner, like to complain about their own incompetence of the anger. Therefore, grasp the human nature, in order to distinguish the real good and evil, so do not belittle anyone, not one day you also become the appearance of their own hate. 6, a good old man in the end only injured yourself. Endure for a while in exchange for an inch, a step back in exchange for a more severe, this is the real society. Know how to refuse you will instead get the respect of others. 7, many people hate those who are skittish, but I tell you, in fact, you're wrong, with the age of growth, you will become a man to say people, see ghosts to say ghosts, and you'll be more and more sweet, which proves that you're growing up, but also learned to self-protection. If you are dozens of years old and you still speak in a snarky way, it only means that you are getting older and the rest is still in the same place. Think about it differently, do you like people to talk about you like this?
1. Don't be a person with a good relationship too fast. Do not make shallow words deep, remember that more words will be lost.
2. There is a foot in the mouth, and there is a degree of abuse. A lot of things come out of the mouth.
3. Be good to people.
4. Know how to keep a proper distance. Do not expose yourself completely, so that both sides have a certain amount of independent space. This is true for family, friends, and lovers.
5. Pay attention to distinguish between acquaintances and friends.
6. No strength to others is useless. Others will not care how much you pay, but how much they can get.
7. Do not say hard words, do not do soft things.
8. Never try to win the sympathy of others, because sympathy itself carries a hint of contempt. --Haruki Murakami
9. Observe words and learn to deal with different types of people. You can't just look at people by their skin, you have to look one more layer underneath it. Don't look at what they look like, look at what they say, then look at what they do, so as to launch what they want, what they want to do.
10. Thank you is the lowest cost of thanks, more grateful red heart out of the sun. More thank you to others, the most simple Pu real, gratitude can make double hair to produce pleasure and happiness.
11. Control your mouth and keep your heart.
12. When you encounter any conflict, please treat the matter not the person.
13. Never point to someone who can understand you.
14. Collective activities, either pretending to participate in a special happy, or pretending to be very painful to refuse.
15. Try not to deal with the brain blunt people, if you have to deal with, be sure to keep 200% awake.
16. Never say that you have a high emotional intelligence or that you will be able to deal with the world, so that people tend to pay the price in the end.
17. If someone invites you to dinner for no reason, it's best to excuse yourself, really can't excuse yourself, please remember to invite back afterwards, because there is no free lunch, no one will invite you to dinner for no reason.
18. People who do not know how to be modest, often do not know how to behave, do not care, listen to people bragging will not drop pounds less meat.
19. The truth is not told in full, and falsehoods are not told in full. --Ji Xianlin
20. Not to dislike is to dislike, you say to the other half of the "I never never dislike you short", but show that you really dislike him is not high enough. -- Jim Yong Liu
Let life grow with the trend, is a kind of ability, is also a kind of luck. The so-called path, it is your heart is not driven by utilitarianism, the truest desire. It can take you as far as you can go.
--Parboni
First, an old man can't joke with his daughter-in-law.
Second, older people should not crowd the bus during rush hour.
Third, employees should not hold their bladders and pinch their backs in front of their bosses.
Fourth, you can not use chopsticks to turn over the dishes during dinner.
Fifth, what you promise others must be done.
Sixth, to play in a friend's city must live in the hotel, the friend's hospitality can not be more than three times.
Seventh, don't go into the girl's room when you go to your friends and family's house.
Eighth, to coworkers and leaders can not sit down in the office, something to say on the way out.
Ninth, do not borrow money from friends and family, borrow a car.
Tenth, in the public **** occasion to control their own little bear child.
Eleventh, there are elders or leaders get-together occasions, can not be seated first.
Twelfth, no matter what the occasion, whether the boss is right or wrong, do not talk back to the boss.
Thirteenth, the identity or seniority of the dinner did not move chopsticks, others can not move chopsticks.
Fourteenth, the leader or boss to give you bucks, to use both hands to hold the glass.
Fifteenth, do not dance with the opposite sex outside of marriage.
Sixteenth, do not get close to people who have preconceptions about you.
Seventeenth, don't trust anyone.
Eighteenth, remember that there is only eternal interest and no eternal friendship.
Nineteenth, rely on anyone is better than relying on yourself.
Twentieth, the mouth must be less than the force.
Twenty-one, don't drink with colleagues with high blood pressure.
Twenty-two, don't carpool with colleagues of the opposite sex for years.
Twenty-three, don't send friend circles in the dead of night.
Twenty-fourth, usually free people do not crowd the attractions on holidays.
Twenty-five, don't send information in the work group that is not related to work.
Twenty-six, the bowl of the meal do not leave rice grains.
Twenty-seven, in the party occasions, do not ask the old friends who have not seen the children of the marriage problem.