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The party's concern is to be the son of his son, and I pity the world's parents.
In this life, the people who really want you to get better and better are your parents. Only parents can love you selflessly without asking for anything in return. Perhaps, when you buy a house, parents even "coffin book" have given you; in your business, parents take money to you, but also take the initiative to help, a penny wages do not want.
However, when your parents get old, will you love them selflessly and honor them with your heart? Maybe you are a filial person, but you in filial piety parents, often feel that "the heart and not enough". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
In fact, many sons and daughters, not filial piety. The saying "raising children can prevent old age" doesn't work for all families. Some parents, raised a few white-eyed wolves; some parents, sent their children abroad, in the end, can not count on; some parents, just can not walk, but also rely on their own.
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"Poor people will be hateful", this saying, for those poor parents, is also right. As a parent, getting older and older, yet more and more miserable, often by their own hand, no one else to blame.
Auntie Wang, who lives in our neighborhood, had a son and two daughters. Auntie Wang and her husband work in the same big enterprise, although the salary is not high, but they save money, but also have a deposit of more than two hundred thousand, in the county, bought two houses.
The year before last, Auntie Wang's two daughters, one after another married, the eldest daughter married to Henan, the youngest daughter married to Xiangxi, are far away. The eldest daughter's in-laws, very poor, Auntie Wang is afraid of her daughter married over, suffering, gave the eldest daughter eighty thousand dollars, the bride price money did not receive. The younger daughter's mother-in-law's economic conditions are not bad, Wang Auntie did not give money, but also received 20,000 yuan bride price money.
When the youngest daughter got married, Auntie Wang said, "I didn't take the money to you, and I hope you can understand."
The youngest daughter said, "Mom, what are you talking about? As long as the family can live a good life, I am happy."
Last summer, Auntie Wang's son got married.
Auntie Wang said, "There is still a house in the county, so let's take it as your wedding room."
The son said: "I want to go to the provincial capital to buy a house, I do not want a house in the county."
Auntie Wang had no choice but to sell her house in the county, and take out her family's savings and give them all to her son, but the houses in the provincial capital are very expensive, and the money is still not enough. Auntie Wang had to sell the house she was living in and give the money to her son.
After selling the house, Auntie Wang and her husband lived in a small garage. The husband often complained to Auntie Wang: "You, on the children, too spoiled. Now we've become homeless." Auntie Wang said, "What do you know? If I treat them well, they will treat me well. The palm of the hand is all flesh, how can we be selfish?"
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Last month, Auntie Wang went to a square dance, and halfway there, she fell. When Auntie Wang was hospitalized, she only paid three thousand dollars, thinking that it was a small matter and that she would be fine after a few days. However, the doctor said that Auntie Wang was too old and had broken her bones, so she would need to stay in the hospital for two months, and her medical bills would cost at least a hundred thousand dollars. Although Auntie Wang has medical insurance, but counting, they still have to spend 30,000 to 40,000 yuan.
Auntie Wang called her son, hoping that he could send some money back.
The son said, "Mom, you are old and confused, my family's money, are being controlled by your daughter-in-law, I can not make the decision."
Auntie Wang had to call her daughter-in-law.
The daughter-in-law said, "Mom, we just bought a house last year, and there is still a loan that has not been paid off, which has the money to give you ah. You can borrow a little bit from relatives and friends, and pay back slowly later."
Auntie Wang called her eldest daughter.
The eldest daughter said, "My family is very poor, take a few thousand dollars to you, there is a possibility, if you take 10,000 or 20,000 to you, is not difficult for me?"
Auntie Wang picked up the phone and wanted to call her youngest daughter, but she gently put it down and sighed. At this time, the youngest daughter, also learned to be catty, how can take money to Auntie Wang?
Auntie Wang's husband, borrowed thirty thousand dollars from a friend. The husband said, "You, ah, just deserve it." Perhaps "deserved" is the best way to describe Auntie Wang.
Mengzi Gongsun Chou wrote: "Heaven's sins can be violated; self-inflicted sins can not live." Many poor old people are because they spoil their children and help them without reservation. Auntie Wang, is such a person.
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When you are slowly getting old, ask yourself : "You give all your money to your children, and rely on who to support you in your old age?"
Old age is a very real problem, is a need to spend money to solve the problem. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, if you are on your children's affairs, a big deal, you are doomed to not have a good life, especially parents who have several children.
The children compare themselves to each other, and as parents, it's hard to "level the playing field". In this case, the children can only be resentful of their parents.
All families have a hard time reading, and the children's small family, but also very sad, not so simple as you think. You want your son to be filial to you, you have to pass the "daughter-in-law" this pass; you want your daughter to be filial to you, you mostly have to look at the face of the "son-in-law". And, the financial situation of the children determines whether they can be filial to their parents or not.
There are many children who return the favor. Some sons and daughters, in the parents of the spoiled, turned into a nibbler, is their own ability to work, will not go out to work, but also forced their parents to give money. Some sons and daughters, they are millionaires, but do not want to give their parents a hundred dollars, on New Year's Eve, but also cheeky, from the parents' home to take a lot of food.
"Respect for the elderly and love for the young" is a traditional virtue, parents "love for the young" virtues can be reflected everywhere, children "respect for the elderly" virtues, but do not see can be seen everywhere. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with your own personalized products.
Smart parents, will "stay a hand". The old age also rely on their own, in the middle age, on the calculation of the old age of the way: more money to save, ready to pension, buy a good house, more exercise, cherish the husband and wife destiny.
Filial piety to parents, is the hardest character, is the bottom of the man, I hope you do not too wimpy.
Author: cloth rough food.
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