One night not long ago, a drunken man caught the attention of many netizens at Nanjing subway station. Inquired by the staff of the subway station, the man was drunk because he was accompanying customers. The staff contacted his family through his mobile phone, and before long, his wife arrived.
Seeing his wife, the man said, Baby, I'm sorry, I feel useless. Regardless of her husband's filth, the wife hugged him tightly and comforted him, saying, "Don't talk about it, it's okay."
Many netizens are red-eyed when they see this, and the world of adults is not easy.
I agree with this view. At the same time, I want to say that this is a loving couple. Although the husband drank too much, his brain was not completely broken and he spoke clearly. He accurately expressed his gratitude to the subway station staff and his guilt to his wife. Such a husband must be a man with high quality and high emotional intelligence. On weekdays, he will put himself in others' shoes, and his wife will understand and love him.
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Colleague Li Juan's husband works in a building materials factory. When he has a rest day, her husband often invites colleagues to drink at home. At first, my colleagues would go to the appointment on time, but slowly, no one came, because her husband would get drunk every time he drank, so he went to bed when he got drunk, but he refused to take off his shoes and then stood on the coffee table to make an impromptu speech. It's not that any leader is having an affair with a female subordinate, but that his bonus was deducted last month.
Strangely, after smashing the bottle, he lay on the sofa and snored. Seeing the mess on the ground, Li Juan was so angry that she scolded her husband and reluctantly cleaned up the scene.
When her husband woke up, Li Juan told him about his drunkenness, but he didn't believe it, saying how he could make such a fool of himself. This happens almost once a week. Slowly, Li Juan lost patience, and she even thought of divorce.
Once, my husband went to a colleague's house for a drink, and the old trick was repeated. Colleagues called Li Juan and asked her to pick him up, but Li Juan chose to turn it off. Finally, my husband was carried back by his colleagues. Colleagues blame Li Juan for turning off the phone. He is your husband. If something happens, won't you regret it
I have no regrets. My husband died a long time ago. After saying this, Li Juan burst into tears and said that she had had enough for so many years and would go through the divorce formalities tomorrow. ...
Li Juan has always wondered why her husband looks like a different person after drinking. He denies others and suspects others. Even her father and husband have scolded him, saying that his father-in-law is a money addict, and it is so colorful to get married. In which year, his father-in-law scolded him because he was old and disrespectful ... When he saw glassware, his husband would fall to the ground.
To this end, she did an experiment herself: she bought a bottle of white wine, drank two thirds of it, and then kept vomiting in the toilet. "Everything is all right except dizziness and unresponsiveness. I just want to sleep, and I have no strength to smash things, let alone speak ill of others. Why did my husband react just the opposite to me? "
We often say that people who love to get drunk after drinking are mostly unhappy in work and life, weak in pressure resistance and poor in psychological quality, so they have to drown their sorrows by drinking-before drinking, he was a coward in real life, and after drinking, he became a hero in the hazy world-the feeling that the world was trampled by him was so cool.
Li Juan's husband is often criticized by leaders for not working hard, and fines and bonuses are staged almost every month. Instead of learning from his mistakes, he broke the jar and hated the leader, but he didn't want to lose his job. When he was depressed, he had to drown his sorrows in wine.
However, drowning in wine can't solve practical problems. Over time, it will only dust the relationship between husband and wife and even divorce.
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My cousin works in a pharmaceutical company in his hometown. Not long ago, he came to Lanzhou to talk about business and drank a lot of wine with customers. It was already one o'clock in the morning when he staggered back to the hotel.
Every time my cousin goes on a business trip, his wife will give him a video call before going to bed at night, so he will also give him a video after drinking with the client that night. On the busy street, my cousin will video with his wife while stopping a taxi, which is incoherent.
I finally got a taxi, and my wife dialed my cousin's phone again and asked him to give it to the driver. On the phone, my wife begged the driver to help my cousin to his room after getting off at the hotel, then gave her a call and gave her the phone number of the hotel front desk. The driver said no problem, and his wife hung up after thanking him.
When my cousin returned to the hotel room, my wife called the hotel front desk and asked the staff to pour me a cup of hot water. ...
Just after six o'clock in the morning, my wife called the front desk of the hotel again and said that she called her cousin, but no one answered. She was very worried. She wants the staff to go to her cousin's room to see if there is anything unusual. The staff went to her cousin's room. After a while, the voice of the staff came from the phone, saying that there was nothing unusual, and your husband was sleeping. ...
That night, my wife stayed up all night. She said that she even had the idea of calling me and asked me to go to my cousin's hotel to see the situation, but I was in the new district and had to give up.
I asked my wife that my cousin has been through many battles and can master the degree of drinking. Why are you always worried about him?
"When I was in love with your cousin, your cousin told me such a thing: one year he went to Xi 'an on business and drank a lot of wine with customers. At night, he returned to the hotel room alone, holding the toilet and vomiting all the time. That night, he hardly slept. At dawn, he suddenly had the idea of changing jobs. He always drinks with clients and then goes back to the hotel to rest alone. If he drinks and drinks, something will happen.
My wife said that many years have passed, but she always remembers what my cousin said. "Although he doesn't drink much, he has never been as drunk as a fiddler, but as long as he goes to see a client, I will be inexplicably nervous ..."
Why is my wife so nervous? Because I have a cousin in my heart.
In order to make a living, many people around us can't live without the wine bureau. However, when you came back with the client to open the door and stumbled, your wife had already opened the door, then helped you into the room, poured you a cup of hot water and wiped your face with a hot towel. Although your stomach is still very uncomfortable, your heart must be very warm.
Please cherish such a wife.