Let me tell you a story. In the past, my doll got up from the lazy bed and didn't eat breakfast. She never eats in a hurry. She will be late soon and hasn't eaten yet. Two bites, and she's going to school!
Later, change the method, stop urging, and communicate with the teacher in advance. You may be a few minutes late. Don't urge him when eating. You have to linger for a while when she wants to eat, just let him worry. This problem can be corrected twice. The same is true of homework. Let him say when he can finish his homework, put it away and stop writing. Leave unfinished homework to the teacher. Remember to be gentle and firm all the time, don't worry! Very useful, try it, remember to give feedback if you use it well!
There is a reason behind the child's procrastination. When we don't understand these truths, we will only feel that children don't take your words seriously, or that children are so bad. When we know the reasons behind it, we won't be so impatient.
Children loaf about for the following reasons:
1, children lack goals and have no concept of time. For example, adults go out for a walk to exercise. It is expected to end in 30 minutes, and they will do other things when they come back. However, children go out without a goal. They had gone out for a walk. As a result, when they saw the square dance on the roadside, they stopped to watch the dance, and they didn't have time to budget until the people finished dancing.
2. Children pay more attention to the process, and the smaller the result, the more so. For example, children take a bath, not paying attention to whether the body is clean, but how fun the water is.
3. Children's continuous attention time is short and easy to transfer. For example, when a child is getting dressed and sees the little penguin on his clothes, he spreads his clothes on the ground and looks around. 10 minutes later, the clothes haven't started to wear.
4, the child's ability is not enough, and things are slow. For children, everything needs to be studied and exercised, and it needs to be tried constantly. It takes time to learn and try, and there will be many episodes in this process, from basic self-care ability such as eating and dressing to learning a skill such as drawing and playing the piano.