I think there will be more lovers if there is no quarrel in the relationship. Quarrel seems to be a coolant between lovers, which gradually cools down and freezes the feelings between two people. Because of the quarrel, two people wrapped in resentment will only think of each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and will only see the fog and obstacles of feelings. When the frequency of quarrels gradually increases and feelings gradually wear away, two people begin to have resistance, disgust and impatience with each other ... especially when they don't give in to each other, those two people are doomed to be different and irrelevant. Emotionally, I hate quarreling. I hate two people who like each other and finally break up because of a chicken feather. However, because we are not cared for, taken care of, and taken care of, our brains are dominated by emotions and we have no time to think about right and wrong, so we let emotions wander in our bodies and then gush out. If the other party still doesn't know why we quarrel with him, the quarrel will become more and more serious ... Sometimes, the quarrel is really cool, but it is also true that it is uncomfortable, especially after quarreling with someone you care about. Regret why I didn't control my emotions, regret that what I said was so ugly, and regret why I didn't have a little more tolerance and understanding ... If, in the emotional camp, we can all learn to understand and tolerate slowly, give each other more consideration and care, and face the problems calmly together, then maybe even in a different place, we can go hand in hand to happiness.
I think if my parents and I don't quarrel, our family will be closer and happier. In the years since my mother went to accompany my sister to high school, I have had fewer quarrels with her. I don't know if it's because of the lack of meeting, or if my mother and I are more and more understanding and considerate of each other. In the past, as long as I was with my mother, I would quarrel and bicker within three days. I can't stand her nagging all the time. She can't stand my untidiness and inadaptability. So that when I open my mouth, no one will give way to anyone. If I speak louder, she will think I am mean to her. If she talks to me more, I will be impatient ... so, unless everyone is busy, there will be little family communication. Later, my mother went to accompany my sister to high school. I can hear her voice except calling my father every day. She seldom has time to go home in one semester. She always said on the other end of the phone that she hoped I wouldn't stay up late, eat less junk food and go on a diet ... Although she always cared about me, I felt heavy love. If my mother and I hadn't quarreled, we might get along so well. I even miss her seemingly nagging concern. I don't have to talk back. ...
I think, if there is no quarrel between friends, then when I am old, I can definitely watch the sunset and dance square dance together. My friends and I seldom quarrel, not because I have a good temper, but because they can tolerate my bad temper. Sometimes, I get impatient in front of them because of some things, and sometimes I even get angry for no reason like taking a gun medicine. Although I have never quarreled head-on, I will alienate them. However, they can always perceive my emotional fault. If the distance is far away, they will ask me what happened on WeChat or on the phone. If everyone is at home, talk face to face. Sometimes, it is inevitable that there will be differences and unhappiness between friends. As far as I can remember, we had the most serious quarrel. At that time, because of the seriousness of the matter, a friend of mine deleted all the contact information of the four of us. We felt very unhappy and said that we would never contact again. But out of concern, several young ladies took the initiative to go to her house to find her, fearing that she could not do stupid things. Now think about it, our feelings were already so deep at that time. Deep enough to understand each other's small emotions, deep enough not to care about their own feelings, deep enough not to be shallow even if there are differences ... If friends can quarrel less, be more tolerant, seek common ground while reserving differences, and work together, what a fairy-like feeling it would be.
If only there were no quarrels in life, more smiles and more understanding. I think that the air must be full of harmony and comfort, and the world will be more harmonious and happy.