However, this is not the case for older parents. There are Yang Jiang-like old man, still diligently writing, contributing to the wealth of mankind; there are dedication-like parents, still for the children and grandchildren to worry about labor, to provide valuable life experience.
There are also parents like Su Daqiang, who play themselves as the weakest, justifiably asking for their children's attention and care, and picking up where they left off in the past. Who says the world's parents don't ask for anything in return!
The scary thing is that in life they are exactly like a harmless good guy, equally loved and pitied.
Ming Cheol cares for him in his busy schedule and buys him a house, Ming Cheng puts up with him, and Ming Yu does everything he asks, all because he is a father. Su Daqiang thinks, "I'm old, you guys have to take care of me anyway."
Pathetic, making all kinds of demands!
No matter what the requirements are no problem, because he is our parents, everything must be accepted, because he is our parents. To parents, children speak of filial piety.
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However, removing the identity of parents, he is still a human being. So it becomes complicated to get along with father, daughter, mother and son. How to deal with "Su Daqiang", that is, to be a filial son and daughter, but not be swayed by them, this is really a problem.
Mingyu's sanity: gentle and action-oriented, decisive but not rigid.
After the death of her mother, who was so heartless to herself, she arranged everything properly, led her father to buy a full set of clothes and pants, hid the truth and gave her father the money for his failed investment, and immediately ran to the hospital when her father was hospitalized, leaving her work and other important matters behind. She is the eyes of the fire, can understand the father's mind in a second, immediately discern the truth, to give the best and most appropriate solution and care.
Myung Sung misunderstood her too much, misunderstood that she was too cold, Myung Chul did not understand her temper, his father was afraid of her powerful. Too smart and too outstanding people are so often not understood, but not afraid, this is exactly the direction we should run to. Who would call her cold? Sister-in-law just thinks she's cute! After suffering so many grievances, her blood is still the blood of the Su family. She says, "I don't care about the Su family anymore," but in reality, she can hold up half of the sky in the Su family's affairs. The most important thing to remember is that Mingyu is the most dutiful daughter in the world," she said.
Reflections on Zhe Cheng:
Ming Zhe is sensible and always tries to fulfill his father's demands, whether reasonable or unreasonable. Myung Sung is emotional and casual, he will please his parents and stand up to his father's antics.
But for the children of Myungchul, the parents are very capricious and hold them in their hands. The children are often held back by their parents, and they often beg for more. Ming Cheng, on the other hand, is big-headed and goes his own way, and although he is also held in check by his father, he still doesn't take good care of him and doesn't care enough.
Reflecting on what we do as sons and daughters, either to compromise a filial piety, or regardless of the unfilial children and grandchildren, always difficult to be perfect.
It is said that parental education is a kind of art, then do parents children is not a kind of art?
Qualified parents should be able to give the same treatment to their children, and excellent children should be able to care for them and be wise at the same time. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then you'll be able to get out of the way and get out of the way.
Ming Chieh loves his father and affects his family, while Ming Cheng is obedient and jeopardizes his health and loses his money.
In the face of "Su Daqiang" type of parents in life, love and filial piety is still the same theme, but here there is also a wisdom, with the help of wisdom, care and filial piety is meaningful.
For example, careful attention, patient explanation, careful treatment; both straight talk about the benefits and politely rejected, as they are worthy of gratitude, but also to treat them as a need to love and care for people.
This double burden must be able to bear!
This double burden must be borne.