Short essay about love not being trusted and feeling heartbroken

Love requires trust. If both parties do not trust each other, such love will not last long. Here is a short article that I have compiled for you. I hope you will like it.

Love is not trusted and heartbreaking short article 1: How far can love go without trust?

The saddest thing in this world is not the absence of love, nor the unhappiness. It's about not believing in love and thinking that you will never be happy.

Yes, many people think that they cannot get love without love. The root cause is that they do not believe in love. Tagore's poem says, the farthest distance in the world is not life and death, but that I am standing in front of you, but you don't know that I love you. This "not knowing" contains a situation? I don't believe in love, so there is no love. The farthest distance in the world is not that I don't love you, but that you don't believe that I love you when I stand in front of you. Whether there is love or not is determined by whether one "believes" or not.

Some people say that there is a time for all things, a time for hugs, and a time for love; love has birth, old age, illness, and death; love always expires unknowingly; one day, we take it out and realize Its most vivid days are forever gone. Yes, God has his way, love has its purest moments, its most lingering moments, its most intense moments, and it also has its dullest or most utilitarian moments that have even passed its shelf life. But when your hands are tight When the ground is held in the heart of those hands that are also holding you tightly, believe what you love, love what you believe, even if the most vivid days have passed, who dares to say that it is not the most beautiful emotion in the world?

True love does not exist, nor does it mean that you will never be happy. Only by giving your sincerity can you gain true love and embrace happiness.

I think I love life. I love my lover. I believe love is surrounding me. I pray to God that I can always "hold my son's hand and grow old together with my son" and can truly and truly embrace true love. Don’t ask for romance or earth-shattering things, just let me know that love is truly standing by my side, that is happiness.

People say that love is based on mutual trust. If trust is gone, how far can love go? But there is just such a kind of love. Although you can no longer believe it, you still love it, and you love it so wholeheartedly.

I think that two people need trust to be together, and the love of "Guanshan is far away from people" requires even greater trust. Since you choose to be together, you should have 100% trust, right? But if one day, you find that 100% trust is a mistake, your heart will be extremely hurt. This kind of pain is immeasurable. The more you trust, the deeper the pain will be. When your trust is replaced by disappointment, it is not just a feeling of being deceived, but more importantly, it is like your own dream. All broken?

Who gave trust? It is not a sentence "You have to believe me", but a behavior, a gesture, and the probability that your promise will eventually be fulfilled. So every lie, every deception, and every evasive word you tell builds a wall in the heart of your lover. As time goes by, this wall in your heart will get higher and higher, and by the time you realize that you want to have a party, it's already too late.

I think that in the world, most lovers break up not because they no longer love each other, but because they lose trust in each other.

I'm sad because we love each other but can't trust each other. This is a sad thing.

How could something that was once so beautiful suddenly become so tiring? So tiring?

I really don’t want this to happen between us, but it can’t be avoided at all. Over time, our trust in each other diminishes. I don't know why, I don't understand it at all. I really hope that this feeling can fade or even disappear, because I believe that this "love" still exists between us.

Love is not trusted, heart-wrenching short essay 2: When love meets mistrust

My new boyfriend Huang Zhengyu strode towards me carrying three big bags. I opened my mouth wide: What are you doing? He said open the door, I bought you some New Year's goods.

I was surprised when I opened the bags in the supermarket. They were full of candied lotus seeds, cat ears, walnut candies, and fruit jelly. I really couldn’t laugh or cry, and they treated me like a child. But in an instant, I was moved again. These most mundane experiences have become the things that can best comfort a heart that is wandering in this world. I decided to settle in Lingnan in the future, because even in the most turbulent years, people here drank morning tea every day and enjoyed the happiness that is within reach in the world. Drinking tea, listening to Cantonese opera, visiting the flower market, etc. But back then, I liked European pastries and smeared a lot of cream on Tan's face and body?

I have never looked at a man for so long

First time sitting On a long-distance flight, I was hugged by two fat men on the left and right. I ran to the business class cabin to ask for help from the flight attendant. My English was not good and I was worried about not being able to speak clearly. A man in his 30s stood up and said, After asking me a few questions, he helped me solve this problem. In the next 10 hours, I had never watched a man as carefully as he did. After he woke up, he saw my eyes open from the corner of his eye and smiled at me. I felt as if I was drunk, my face was red, and even when I was jet-lagged, I could still think of his face whether I opened my eyes or closed them.

Tan is very good-looking, and I admit that I am a member of the Appearance Association. Later, when I was studying French hard in Paris and struggling to promote my works on the streets, a familiar figure walked by. I knew it was Tan. He always had a slight smile on his face, but... He didn't recognize me. At that time, one was a good young man in troubled times, and the other was a down-and-out artist. How could there be any intersection between these two people? Just like the "second generation" of European aristocrats around me, their lives consisted of private jets, sailing boats, vacations, party and famous painting auctions. My life is about three meals a day and I am always worried about being raised by my landlord. Later, I met Tan on an overseas forum. Because of a small topic, the conversation became very speculative, and it was basically semi-Platonic. At that time, I felt like I was going to be driven crazy by that man who was full of sense of humor. We have a time difference. I have to go to class and he has to go to work. We only have a very short time to talk every day. So I took pictures of him every day and hoped that we could meet each other quickly, because I was not satisfied with his hazy profile photos on the forum.

I once thought I could “remain a Lingnan native forever”

When I met Tan, I realized that Tan was Tan, and Tan was the one who helped me on the plane. man. Being kept in the dark, all the old and new hatreds came to my mind, but he couldn't remember who I was at all. Well, I will like him with my own little secret.

Tan is very particular. His shirt collar is always clean, and his fingernails are always neatly repaired. Every time he ate, the place he took was very strange, either a small coffee house on the riverside, a Cantonese restaurant on the mountainside, or a resort deep in the mountains. On the pure white bed with dark patterned brocade, he likes to let me sit on him, and his hands slowly slide down my upper arms, sometimes from the outside of the chest to the waistline to the hips, and he can't help but sigh. I asked him "Hmm" in a nasal tone, and he replied "What a beautiful line." I was secretly happy and went back to Guangzhou with him during the holidays, and stayed there for three months. During that time, I loved to say: "I will never say goodbye to being a Lingnan native."

Lingnan does not have distinct four seasons, and the rain There is plenty of sunshine, and lush vegetation, which nourishes the people who live here quite smoothly. Tan's mother is the same as everyone around her. She is particularly concerned about her appetite. She doesn't have to be so arrogant. What she wants is a kind of psychological and physical satisfaction, such as drinking tea every Sunday. On Sundays, when we meet in the morning, we often greet people with "Have you had tea?" (meaning "Have you had tea?"). I was a little nervous at that time, I was not used to it, it was like entering the courtyard of a wealthy family, with so many rules and details related to life. I often grabbed Tan's clothes to talk to him, and Tan's mother said He smiled and said, "You guys go ahead and walk outside and chat."

My love prophecies revealed in astrology books

Tan's favorite thing to say to me is "You are so naughty."

Just because I always like to tell him a lot of wild ideas, he thinks my world is very fresh and beautiful. But I think his small manor is fresh and beautiful. Tan's father got lucky in Europe after his divorce. He married a woman who owned a manor and even a title. He also claimed to have one foot in the fringe royal family of Europe. Tan didn't understand in his early years and accepted his father's support to study and do business in Europe. Later he realized that his father left his mother for this woman. They had a big fight at that time, and the relationship has only improved slightly in recent years. Dad Tan also heard about me. One day, there was a white gilded invitation card in the mailbox of the apartment, inviting us to attend an end-of-summer party. He was so polite. He even used such an elegant way to communicate with his son. At that time, It attracted a lot of my attention. I was shopping for dresses and booking air tickets with great interest. At that time, I thought I would be another princess. When we arrived at the small manor, there were no carriages, no lanterns, no fireworks, just a group of weird-looking men and women, all claiming to be a certain royal knight, wearing large diamonds, but with lonely expressions. Suddenly it dawned on me that this was a group of frustrated opposition "royals". Their gathering was not for celebration, but for desire, to see who could help them rise to power?

I live in the manor. For three days, I only saw Tan's stepmother once, and then she was in the study room, reading some classical astrology books. It is said that Tan's stepmother suffers from mild depression and often sits alone in the room, watching the sky get darker, always silent. I didn't care about this and read to Tan with interest: Scorpios love and hate very deeply. Their hearts are mines hidden in the ground. They are not easily shown to others, and they will always restrain and test their lovers? The result of this sentence It's really a prophetic word.

No matter how much I love him, I can’t bear to be tested

Tan is a Scorpio man and he always doesn’t like to say too much of what’s on his mind. I suspected that he had another woman, but there was no evidence. Thinking about it, he took me to see my mother and my father, and he didn't mind supporting my life. I couldn't be ungrateful and insist on catching him having an affair. But unexpectedly, in the autumn, Tan said that his mother was ill and would stay in China for a while, so he introduced Danny to me, saying that we could take care of each other. Danny is a very fun man. If it weren't for Tan, maybe I would have been fascinated by him. Listening to concerts on rainy days, drinking coffee on sunny days, and going cycling in the suburbs on weekends? He really "takes care of" me very well. But Tan was so stupid, he thought that Danny could contain me. When I was helping Danny's computer to remove viruses, I saw the conversation between him and Tan, and I realized how terrible love without trust is.

Danny: You said she is devoted, but I don’t think so. She is just too emotional. At least without you, she would fall in love with me. Tan: You still don’t understand. She can’t leave me at all. Danny: She danced with Tom last Saturday, and I didn't think she was a saint. Tan: But nothing happened afterwards? Danny, you said that if you can’t find evidence of her cheating at the end of one month, you will retreat. You have to keep your promise. Danny: Tan, why did you only give her a chance and not me?

After Tan’s mother recovered from her illness, Tan came to visit me. I pestered him to go to dinner and dancing. In the night of love, I tied Tan's eyes with a ribbon and said very gently, I have three words that I have always wanted to hear you say to me. Can you read them to me again? Tan chuckled and answered yes. I read it word by word and asked him to follow it word by word: Break up? Break up? Before he could react, I took the next sentence: I have been waiting for this sentence for a long time.

I left the room decisively, got into the taxi I had summoned, and took the nearest flight out of Paris. Goodbye, France. No one listened to what I said anymore, no one cared about it, but at that moment I was so pretentious, tears welled up when I said I was sad, no one came downstairs when I said goodbye, and when I said get out, I suddenly became poor in the past. Overwhelming.

"Sister, if you don't want to stay here tonight, just pack your things and leave with me." After a while, the woman took some things and came out with tears on her face, but the man didn't hold them back. The iron door downstairs made a "clang" sound and the silence returned. When I looked at my phone again, it was already past 4:00 in the morning. Exhausted, I quickly fell asleep.

The life of a husband and wife is long and relative day and night. In real life, it is not uncommon to hear men beating women. But if you often live in the pain of "beating", wouldn't this kind of life be a kind of life? Suffering, when a person often lives in the fear of being beaten, how can it be fun? But if the relationship between two people depends on children to maintain, how sad it is. After all, children are not a bargaining chip, let alone Emotional burden, cherish the people you love around you.

Love is not trusted and heart-wrenching short essay 4: Love in Dongguan, don’t believe in tears

Author: Buyi Coarse Food

Not every woman in the world is destined Everyone can marry a tall, rich and handsome man, so you chose to marry a worker, wait for him to grow up little by little, and fight in the world with him; there is no destiny in the world that all men can marry a rich and handsome man, so you chose a worker, Start a family and start a business with her, and hold up a blue sky for her. You try your best for me, and I will accompany you through hardships and trials, like a flower all my life.

Xu Erpang, in fact, is not fat, but when he was born, his face looked chubby, so his parents named him Such a vulgar name. Later, as the name suggests, when he was in school, his grades were average. After graduating from junior high school, he followed the villagers to Dongguan without getting into any school.

As soon as he walked into Dongguan City, Erpang looked up and felt dizzy. The building was too high, so he yelled "Ouch". The villagers looked at him and wanted to laugh, but they didn't. Who of the rural children doesn't have this expression when they first come to a big city?

"That's it. You stay here for two days, and I'll ask a few fellow villagers to inquire about it and let you go to work in the factory." The villagers took the Erpang two times in the car and turned into a long alley, then walked through the alley and arrived at a pond. There is a row of simple sheds built against the wall beside the pond, one of which is a hut rented by the villagers.

Isn’t Dongguan a paradise for migrant workers? Doesn’t everyone live a well-off life? Erpang lowered his head and walked into the work shed. A wave of heat hit him, and he almost cried. After all, prosperous Dongguan is not a colorful world for migrant workers. It is just a paradise for a group of rich people supported by countless labor forces.

Erpang soon entered an electronics factory that made radios. Working hours are from 8 a.m. to 9:30 p.m. every day. There are no weekends. Only big holidays like Labor Day can give you a day off.

The assembly line of the electronics factory is like a perpetual motion machine, giving every worker no chance to breathe. He can only make simple actions faster, faster, otherwise he will be scolded, or even Deduction from wages.

Occasionally, the assembly line slows down because there are too many finished products, and everyone needs to stop what they are doing, package the finished products collectively, and move them to the finished product warehouse downstairs. At this time, men and women were bent over and working with their heads down. The second fat man suddenly looked up and saw the loose collar of the woman opposite, with two "big white rabbits" dangling inside. Erpang felt his face burning hot, and thought, when can he marry a woman and go home?

That day, the factory had a power outage, and Erpang got off work at five o'clock in the afternoon. . With nothing to do, Er Pang went to the nearby Qishi Town alone. The streets were full of cheap goods, but he felt his shriveled pockets and asked about a few things, but he was reluctant to buy them.

"Hey, all working brothers and sisters, come here, there is a passionate dance performance here." A dwarf shouted on the street, "Pass by, don't miss this opportunity. Take a look, Everything in the world is beautiful."

It turned out that there was a huge tent on the street, with several dazzling posters hanging at the door, showing several bewitching women and several giant snakes. Beauty and horror are always so attractive.

Er Pang unconsciously approached the tent. At this time, several women with better figures came out, wearing heavy makeup and twisting their waists.

The piercing music played, and the woman squirmed even more. One after another people bought tickets to enter the venue. Er Pang wanted to go in and have a look, but after thinking about it it was not easy to make money, he decided to go back. Suddenly, an eighteen or nineteen-year-old woman opened her pitifully small clothes on her chest, revealing a pair of "big white rabbits." Although it only happened for a moment, Er Pang lost his legs and feet and stumbled into the tent.

The air in the tent was dirty, and a few rough benches were placed haphazardly. Some people smoke, some drink, and some whistle. It wasn't until the soft music started playing that the tent became quiet.

Singing and dancing one after another, boring joking one after another, Erpang felt a little tired of aesthetics.

"Next, Lili will appear, she will definitely shock you." There was a man announcing the program through the loudspeaker.

With huge disco music, Lili appeared. The second fat man glared and saw that it was the woman who had just opened her clothes at the door. When the music was about to end, the woman took off almost all of her clothes, which made Erpang's heart itch and his soul was taken away by the woman.

Erpang bought as many tickets as the tents in Qishi Town were set up for as many days as he did. He arrived on time at 9:30 pm every time and only watched for half an hour. It's time to leave. But Er Pang felt it was worth it. After all, this short half hour was Lili's finale. Er Pang is Lili’s biggest fan.

Once, after coming out of the tent, Er Pang felt that he still had something to say and lingered outside the tent for a long time. Suddenly, I heard a woman crying. Erpang heard the sound and approached. It was Lili crying on the street corner.

"What's wrong, Lili?" Erpang asked in a low voice.

"Nothing." Lili wiped her eyes and was about to leave.

"You can talk to me, maybe I can help with something." Erpang's courage came out of nowhere, "I work in a nearby electronics factory, and there are many people watching your performances. Oh my god. I like you."

"My brother was admitted to a vocational college, but his family was poor and he couldn't afford the tuition. Unexpectedly, he not only refused to pay the tuition, but he also refused. I agreed and took the opportunity to touch me," Lili said sadly.

"I'll lend it to you. But it's only five thousand yuan at most, because I only have so much money." Erpang likes Lili, so he has to treat her sincerely, even if Lili is just a dancer. The risk of "actors being ruthless".

"This?" Lili was shocked, "You and I have never met each other, and our song and dance troupe always changes places. Where can I go to find you to pay back the money?"

"How about you come to work in our factory. Although it's a little tiring, it's steadfast." Erpang said.

"No, the wages in the factory are too low to support our family. Besides, I have signed a contract with my boss for several years. It would be very troublesome if I broke the contract."

"Hey, You can take the money first." Erpang went to a nearby ATM and then came back.

"This, this?" Lili didn't know whether to refuse or accept, and said, "If it doesn't work out, you can also join our song and dance troupe. Although it is a bit vulgar, the salary is twice that of the factory. "More. It's just to show others what dirty things you are doing. It doesn't matter if you get used to it."

This is the best way to be with Lili. Erpang shook his head and nodded. .

Soon, the song and dance troupe went to Shilong Town. Erpang became Lili's partner. Such a partnership does not require any skills. Just when Lili takes off her clothes, Erpang jumps on the stage, takes off her shirt, dances face to face, and makes some provocative movements to induce a surge of hormones in the audience. .

In fact, when Erpang and Lili were teasing the audience, they were also teasing themselves, especially when Erpang gently touched Lili's chest with both hands. The great temptation made the two stick together like glue. They secretly open a room and taste the fruits of love.

Love is selfish.

When the second fat man fell more and more in love with Lili, and when all the audience were yelling at Lili, a jealousy welled up in his heart, which was really uncomfortable.

"Let's leave the song and dance troupe. You are my girlfriend, you can't be seen through by others all the time." The second fat man felt that he couldn't bear it.

"But where else can we go? Return to our hometown to farm?" Lili lowered her head, with tears in her eyes.

"We go to the plastic factory. Although we have to wear gas masks to work, the salary is high. If we work for a few years, we will think of other ways when we have money."

"If , If we leave the song and dance troupe like this, we will have to pay a lot of money to the boss. Have you ever thought about it? "Lili's worry is not unreasonable.

However, if you love someone, can’t you own it completely? Or, the love of a migrant worker is too humble, like an ant that can be crushed to death at any time? The second fat man was silent.

The night when I escaped from the song and dance troupe, the autumn air was crisp, the clouds were light, the wind was gentle, and the moon and stars were sparse. There were dogs barking outside the tent and dim street lights, following Erpang and Lili like ghosts.

They went to a plastic factory in Shipai Town. Erpang borrowed two ID cards and went through the factory entry procedures. For half a year, the two of them almost never left the factory unless there were special circumstances.

The song and dance troupe lost Lili and the business was very depressed. Soon, the boss disbanded the song and dance troupe and opened a restaurant in Dongguan with a lot of gray money. Although Dongguan City and Shipai Town are very close, in this place where people live near the pond, looking for a man and a woman is undoubtedly like looking for a needle in a haystack. What's more, the erotic dance performance itself is illegal, and the boss has no intention of "cutting to pieces" the two migrant workers, which will only hurt both sides.

The days gradually returned to tranquility. Erpang and Lili rented a simple shed in a chicken farm near the factory, which became their new home. Although the work shed is stuffy and there are mosquitoes flying around, but with love, no matter how hard the life is, it doesn't feel that bad.

Time slipped through the fingers. After working in the plastic factory for five years, Erpang and Lili had 120,000 yuan in their bankbooks. They rented a residential building and bought electronic coil processing equipment. They took orders and received payment through fellow villagers who worked in electronics factories.

Five years later, Erpang and Lili had their own small factory. Love was as expected, and they got married after going through all kinds of hardships.

Most of the love in Dongguan is not a combination of the rich, beautiful and handsome, but a "poor-poor combination". When we walk into a strange city, we don’t understand anything at first, but as long as we love each other bravely and work hard, we are the masters of life and can create different happiness.