1. Enhance your charm. A person's charm comes from the outside and the inside. Externality accounts for 30% of the charm value, while immanence accounts for 70%. External charm is the attraction to each other's appearance. It is the impression of two people meeting for the first time, but it can't keep the attraction. Can really keep a person's heart, always rely on inner cultivation. A 40-year-old woman doesn't have a youthful and charming face and graceful figure, but when she opens her mouth, she can give people a feeling of spring breeze and a humble speech, which makes people willing to get along with her for a long time. The value of this charm is formed through long-term experience.
Read more books and spend more time with people who are bursting with positive energy, and you will gradually discover that there are so many excellent things in this world, and you will come into contact with it and see life more clearly. A person's charm will make him confident in everything he does, and will attract people with quality around him to enhance his charm, that is, love himself and be responsible for his life.
2. Improve your ability to make money. With the strong, it won't be long before you are not that fragile person. Although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible for this society to be without money now. Many things need money to solve. The importance of money cannot be ignored. When you see your elderly parents, who are still struggling for their lives, will your money make them suffer? When a relative is sick and needs money for surgery, but you can't get the money, will you feel sad and helpless at that time? Therefore, you must have a skill to make money. There is no one in this world to rely on. The only thing we can rely on is ourselves, and only ourselves can give ourselves enough sense of security.
When a man says: You don't have to do anything, I'll support you? It's better to persuade a woman not to believe it. Just listen to it and you will know that he has this heart, because I raise you in a man's mouth and make you pay accordingly, such as having children, cooking, washing clothes and serving the whole family. Many women think that what I mean by raising you is: no housework, nothing to do, going out for beauty, having afternoon tea with friends, and shopping with my girlfriends in buy buy.
If you really do this, I believe that it won't be long before your feelings will be cracked. Earn money well, even if you are with the person you love in the future, you will be highly regarded. Both men and women want their other half, don't drag their feet, make progress with themselves, work hard together and create value together.
Therefore, money can not only solve urgent needs, but also sublimate the feelings of two people. Many married families, they quarrel over one thing? Money? Words. Always believe? But not as those who used to be poor together know? This sentence can't even meet the basic needs of life. The two have a good relationship and will quarrel over money. There is a saying in Northern Ireland that when I am carefree, poverty is only the difference between eating steamed bread and steak at night, and it doesn't hurt my happiness.
But when I fall in love with someone, I deeply feel what poverty is caused by inferiority. Love without material is just a loose sand, which is not blown away by the wind and scattered in two steps. ? Rich and affectionate, no money to fight every day? Although this sentence is a bit vulgar, the truth is so thought-provoking Remember, money may not produce love, but money can at least maintain a decent love.
Go to the outside world more, the world is as big as a person's heart. Reading thousands of books is better than reading Wan Li Road. You can get knowledge from books, but you must see and walk with your eyes and feet. You should touch things you haven't seen, see things you haven't seen, and listen to things you haven't heard. You will find that the world is so beautiful, and you can do it again. It turns out that a person's world can live so wonderfully.
From the age of twenty to the present, I have to go out for a walk every year, go to places I once yearned for, feel different nature and experience different people. Especially after having children, I will take even a week out of my busy schedule to take my baby around China. It will add fun to my life, enrich my life, and let Eva feel the outside world she yearns for and pursues, which will inevitably inject different energy into her work and study.
Therefore, although people have a lot of responsibilities on their shoulders, some people even say that people live for others, and it is too tired to earn some money to support their families. How can they go out for a walk? That's just because you don't usually work hard. Although others earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, you earn 1-2000 yuan a month, but how to live depends on yourself. You can't go far. At least there should be a place to go in the province. All roads are our own choice, and how to go depends on everyone. Love yourself when no one loves you, and cherish each other when someone loves you. Live up to this life. Stick to our original wishes and remember our mission.