How can there be no setbacks and troubles in life? The key is to see how you face and overcome yourself, and let these setbacks become your motivation and stepping stone instead of knocking you down directly.
So far, one of the biggest setbacks I have encountered occurred in February this year. I went home in February and went back to work in the company in a few days. Usually my period is quite accurate, but this month it was delayed by one week. I thought it might be because I stayed up late at home every day during the Spring Festival and waited for two days. I went back to the dormitory from work at ten o'clock that night and tested it with a test paper. I was pregnant! My husband and I have been married for three years and have never been pregnant. My family has been urging me. I was in no hurry before. Plus, because my job is originally a separation, I want to let nature take its course. But last year, my family urged me more, so I was naturally a little anxious, so I was very excited when I was pregnant.
The next day, I went to the hospital to draw blood to confirm that the blood value was very low. It has been 39 days, and the blood value is only 33.9. Under normal circumstances, the blood value should be several thousand to ten thousand+. The doctor said that blood value once doesn't mean anything. If the blood doubles the next day, don't worry. After a day of fear, I will draw twice as much blood. The doctor prescribed me some anti-abortion drugs and told me to go back to the hospital and smoke one four days later. But compared with the normal range, it is still far from the normal range. The doctor still said the same thing. Don't worry about doubling it. If you feel uncomfortable, come back. I wanted to have a B-ultrasound to see if there was a gestational sac, but the doctor said your blood value was too low. B-ultrasound can't see anything now. Come back in two weeks.
However, only two days later, my stomach suddenly hurt very much that morning, so I went back to the hospital for a follow-up visit and told the doctor about my situation. The doctor didn't take it seriously I found bleeding two hours after going to work, which scared me to inform my husband to come and accompany me to other hospitals for examination. The doctor in another hospital suspected ectopic pregnancy and asked me to have a B-ultrasound first. The B-ultrasound doctor searched for a long time and said that he had found a very small gestational sac.
Take it to the doctor. The doctor said that if you have an operation in their hospital, come and arrange hospitalization tomorrow, because the nucleic acid has just been done and the results haven't come out yet, so I must pay attention to bleeding when I go back tonight. If there is a lot of bleeding, I must go to the hospital at once, no matter how late! I went back to sleep for one night and was hospitalized the next day. After two days of observation, I had an operation.
In just half a month, I seem to have fallen from heaven to mud. I can't accept that the child I've been longing for is gone. I was really depressed after waiting for so long. Fortunately, my husband has been comforting me, saying that the child will be gone. I just want to be well, with his concern and greetings from my family. It's been three months now, and I've thought about it. It's better to accept than not to walk out, because the result has already happened, and no matter how decadent I am, I can't change the result, only make people who care about me worry about me. Now I think only good health is the most important thing.
Nothing can't be overcome, not everything can be satisfactory, so be happy and accept it!