I don't know whether it is full or crippled?
In WeChat came a sentence: Mr. Dong, are you busy?
I said, not busy.
She asked if she could recommend a stock.
I said, "No, I can't".
She said, they say there is a wave of policy bull market.
I said, I don't know!
She said, you recommend a branch, I do not blame you for the loss.
I thought to myself, only strange!
I said, I really don't know, and even if I did, I couldn't.
She said, you just take it as a recommendation for your own sister and brother.
I said, that would be good, and all the advice I gave them was, don't open an account!
She said, it doesn't make sense to you.
I said, I'm telling the truth, you just don't believe me.
She said, the money put in the hand, put hair.
I asked, "Did you make a big fortune in Guangxi?
She said, no, before the marriage of some money saved.
I asked, gift money?
She said, sort of.
I asked, how much more?
She said, 200,000 or so.
I said, buy a small car and drive it.
She said, "That's not like you. That's all I have.
I asked, "Do you live in the city or in the country now?
She said, the countryside, my husband's village.
I said, I still quite admire you, can bend and can stretch.
(She is a real second generation, the family is very good, the father is also considered to be a springtime, there is a year when the Dragon Boat Festival suddenly myocardial infarction did not have, mom remarried, she worked in the countryside, was originally a gold-plated trip, the results can not come back, and ultimately, may have resigned, and is now basically no one to rely on the mode, the mother has opened up a new happy life.)
She asked, what's worth investing in?
I said, savings are also finance.
She said, the interest is too little.
I said, I don't know anything else, I think capital preservation is the most important.
It is said that financial management should be done while you are young, if you don't manage your money, the money doesn't care about you.
You are so young, you go to financial management, basically is to lose a bottom.
Because, you have a misunderstanding about money management.
You think financial management is to invest, go to loan sharks, go to the A-share gambling, in fact, the real financial management is to learn business knowledge, start to take themselves as a business to operate, to build themselves into a brand, so that they are from the economic aspect, reputation gradually accumulated thickness.
Got it?
Don't just give people investment advice, this thing is the standard killing pig stabbing buttocks, each with its own knife method, everyone's knife method is right, the premise is suitable for him, there is no absolute right, only absolutely suitable.
For example, fixed investment is suitable for me, not necessarily suitable for you.
This thing to meet the character, resources, state of mind, the three are indispensable, I am very conservative, so I invested in the first principle is not to lose as a prerequisite, that is, not to say that earn, I first want to ensure that the principal is not a loss, so from the selection of funds, from the investment approach, I am multiple hedging, to ensure that the risk is the lowest, but it does not mean that there is no risk of the global stock market fell to ninety percent, not to mention the investment in the fixed! The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to do, and what you want to do.
I also have my resources, I've invested in so many small companies, there is a stable cash flow, rain or shine, to ensure that even if the decline of ten years I can continue to invest in my money is living money, not the kind of savings in the hands of everyone.
The state of mind is even more needless to say, said his honor and disgrace may be exaggerated a little, at least can do up and down without surprise, a day up 30,000 times is very common, a day down 30,000 times is also very common, there really is nothing, feel the heart jumping in fact, are all bystanders ......
have been trained out of the way.
Everyone likes to say that sentence, lost, I do not blame you.
That's not going to happen.
It's like climbing a mountain, we all sit together and drink, meaning that from now on we are brothers, family, what to say just say, help each other, **** through difficult times.
At that time, if I ask: one day I'm poor, ask for money, don't ignore me?
Everyone must have patted their chests and said: Don't worry!
When really down and out, really go to borrow ......
You can beat your face raw!
Occasionally, I help my friends to do some small things, the other side to give me money, I like to say so, one day I am down and out, pull me a hand.
The other person would smile and say, I'm afraid I won't have such a chance.
Friday, I need 200,000 dollars.
It was urgent.
I have some emergency funds, but I bought a short-term financial management, the annual interest rate of 4%, which is already very high, the average money fund is about 3%, the earliest I can get the money is Tuesday, Monday to make an appointment, Tuesday to withdraw.
But I can't wait.
Just then, I was thinking about the question of who do I ask for this money when I need it?
I thought about it for a while.
It was sad.
Men's friendships, they're subtle.
No matter how good a brother is, you can't just borrow money, no matter what the reason is, for example, I can ask Niu for it, right? Niu does not say anything, I can ask the reader, right? No problem with that either.
But whoever I ask to borrow will suddenly have a question mark in their head, why is he suddenly borrowing money? Doing drugs? Gambling? Or did something happen?
And you can't explain it.
What's the difference between two days and the money you need in a hurry?
I thought about it for a while, and sent a message to the teacher who did the fixing: I need 150,000, make a payment, urgent, is it convenient for you?
She didn't reply for a long time.
I felt as if I had done something wrong.
Then I went to paypal and borrowed 150,000 ......
then hurriedly sent a message to the fixed investment teacher: there.
Fear that she does not believe, sent a bank receipt screenshot to her, added: I went to Alipay withdraw cash.
In fact, it is a loan.
The fixed investment teacher said: the whole money did not, I just went to pour the money on a few cards.
I was impressed.
I know her very well, she has, surely give me.
She doesn't like to come up with falsehoods.
We both about this matter, just chat a few words, I said suddenly a want to borrow money, found it very sad, she said, in fact, you than the average person has been too strong, you may be a good face, as long as you open your mouth, basically out of the way, you underestimated everyone's love for you.
But that mouth can't just open.
Open, but also only to women.
Because, the woman she does not analyze the logic, and does not consider the right and wrong, anyway, you need money, I will give you, I do not have I go to borrow, I can not borrow I go to cheat, anyway, I just want to help you.
What is this money for?
I had a fight with someone.
It is the opening of this girl's best friend, is before I said she has a good character, you shoot her ass a hand, she does not get angry but ask you: play or not play?Q or not Q?
I have been getting along with this best friend is very good, the exact definition of a little fan girl.
The girlfriends, themselves, are salarymen.
But then, she played the circle and more high, her strength can not keep up with this kind of eye, then the pace will be chaotic, for example, other people go to Hainan to invest in the purchase of real estate, she also wants to.
Other people buy a good car, she also wants.
Every time she would ask me, I buy a car, you sponsor or not?
I say, sure.
She asked, is 200,000 dollars okay?
I said, no problem.
What did I think? It's not right to talk about money, not to mention I think she was joking, you have a family, I have a family, you're someone else's wife or mom, I'm someone else's husband or dad, we're two separate individuals, not to mention I haven't been given anything more than a few pats on the back, and it was a joke, too.
Are you okay with that?
Better.
Maybe better than the average couple, but because I'm a willow, so there has been no story, of course if it happened, it would have already happened N version, is that I think it's too much trouble, and have to wash and scrub, and the most critical thing is that, as I've written before, the women in the small places, generally have bad breath.
It's not a matter of brushing or not brushing.
It's tooth decay from childhood.
In her definition, I am more important than her husband ......
We have a **** the same friend, the owner of the clothing factory, there is a white Q7, to be sold, the reason for the sale is to sell the money to pay wages, to survive, the car drove less than 50,000 kilometers, relatively inexpensive, this BFF fancy, want, but she The company's website is a good source of information about the company's products and services, and the company's website is a good source of information.
I am still quite surprised.
I usually talk like a fart and don't count, why do you remember so well?
I then helped her sort it out.
Look, let's define, what is our relationship?
You have a husband, right?
I have a wife, right?
I'm giving you $200,000, what does that look like?
If, you say you ask me to borrow 200,000, I think it's OK, you ask me for 200,000, I think it's a bit too much ......
She got hysterical.
Ran our neighborhood door.
Maybe also angry, said a lot of things that I think should not be said, for example, she is going to go online to expose me, and also know where my son goes to school, to get him killed.
Then thought about it, don't mess with her.
Give it to her.
When she's at peace, I'd like to talk to her some more.
It is that no matter what time, can not touch a person's bottom line, the bottom line is to threaten a man, he cares about what you threaten him, he may be soft, but he will be afraid of you from the deepest part of his heart, this trick is absolutely can not be used casually, it will bring himself killed.
Of course, she really wasn't to blame for this.
It's because I usually give her the wrong impression that I'm a Hercules, that I can take care of everything for her, that I can give her what she needs, that I can give her what she needs, and that I can give her what she needs, and that I can give her what she needs, and that I can give her what she needs, and that I can give her what she needs.
Additionally, she seems to be an old man, but in fact, she does not know anything about society, she crossed the line, thinking that the standard of a good relationship is to be willing to take money for you to spend, you can not be misplaced, compared with my daughter-in-law, my daughter-in-law is my son's mother, are you?
What she wants, in fact, is the junior model, but she is not a junior.
From her threat to me, I know that she really is no social experience, this kind of words even if it is sincere, you really want to go so, you can not say, she may simply want to let me fear, think fear is also a kind of care, in fact, it will make me open the exit mode, that is, it will be cajoled, and gradually away from, and from then on completely pulled into the blacklist.
I wrote about a junior high school classmate, very thin, Northeast transfer to the school, because rumor has it that his mother is chicken, is to follow the big truck drivers running a car, a week to change one, people give money to ......
This thing is spreading in the school.
He worked backwards based on the news, who was spreading the beatings, and then asked: who did you hear that from?
That's it, next to each other, one by one, call to the restroom, beat.
What's the root cause?
Touched his bottom line!
Later, the girlfriend also apologized to me, said those words are angry, just hope that I can care about her, value her, from this point can be seen, she does not understand things.
There are some things you can't say when you're so angry.
There are years of pulling kisses.
Went to the assembly in the morning and was informed that the marriage was not going to take place.
The night before, the home smashed to pieces, is the bride and groom quarreled, quarreled, the bride said, you this stepmother.
The groom grew up without a mother.
Smashed the house to pieces, that is, no one has ever seen him so angry, just crazy in general.
Poking at the softest and most untouchable place inside him.
Women are not as rational as men, men are aware of these, women generally do not care, which sentence choking people say which sentence, which is why Shandong in the country's highest percentage of domestic violence, is the cause of the universal woman housekeeper, usually at home to manage men, what do you think what to say, poked to the bottom line, beaten.
These, my sister also experienced.
The face is swollen, then my brother-in-law to pick up, up on a: brother, you hit me to solve the hate it.
I won't hit him.
I asked what happened.
He said, she called my mother is the old S goods, I did not hold back ......
I said, that hit light.
My father and I have a point of view, my mother does not care about this, take the broom towards my brother-in-law is a beating, he did not hide or flash, let my mother beat.
My mother was also acting.
Later, when my sister came to bring me something, I admonished her.
She said, "You don't know, she's such an old S.
I said, it's just true and you can't say it.
She said, she bullied me.
I said, just pretend she's dead.
She said, I'll put up a fireworks display if she dies.
Afterwards, I had a deep talk with my girlfriend, she said that the fire came up, she could not control herself, and the two little people inside were fighting, and at that moment, no matter what, I just want to break the fish death net.
The ending was pretty good.
It's just that deep down I'm afraid of her.
For me personally, it was huge growth, I've been writing for so many years, I've had two huge shifts, metamorphoses of sorts, both of which were lessons in writing for so many years, uninterruptedly, this isn't that hard, and didn't dinner stick around for so many years as well?
What's hard?
Not getting blocked!
Most of the ones that write well get clicked.
How many evergreens are there?
For writers, is blocked, will still write every day, just do not have the opportunity to show, I can survive with the character related, careful, but also with two crises.
The first time, from writing real to writing fake.
The second, from writing about people to not writing about people.
Suffice it to say, whoever I write about in my articles is who I enjoy my readers ****, and I thought they would love the readers as much as I do, but they're not, they're all scythes.
It was also a repeated disappointment.
Then came a big one, and it was changed in one sitting.
I also took an excerpt: once you give in to the truth and recognize that everyone in the world lives for themselves, wait until that day and you won't expect so much from your fellow man. And they will no longer disappoint you; you will only treat them with forgiveness. The Chains of Humanity [English] William Somerset Maugham
That's it, I'm just going to stop giving people a chance.
Throughout the article, I sing a solo.
Everyone else? It's all just symbols.
This BFF thing is my third big shift, which is that I've gone from liking women to liking men, and I'm going to try my best to stay away from women from now on, because I still prefer my career to this love thing, after all, 20 years of hard work, and I can't blow up because of that.
Or else?
Even when I die, people don't forgive me.
Get it? Death deserved, back then, that woman did not let him less molested ......
Zhao Zhongxiang died, microblogging how many people flirted with him.
First, he chose the wrong woman.
Second, he promised too much.
If you cheated with Ni Ping, to death, she will not say you half a word, she has the betrayal weight, have this basic quality, you with a massage, these will have inevitability.
He that thing?
Not a thing!
Just because, it's so contrasting, he's so high and mighty.
Men, they're funnels.
Past it, forget it.
Women, the vegetable basket.
Always remember a man's every word, always ready to label a man, you cheated me.
Since you dared to deceive me and tease me.
Then I'll get you killed.
Well, the good thing is, when the girlfriend is rational, or more rational, really talk about it, she also understand, is the past she positioning confusion, there are two illusions, one is that I will be unlimited gratification to her, and the second is that I take the money is not money.
It really was all illusions.
Maybe because we grew up in the countryside, I have a special aversion to women asking for money, whether it's my daughter-in-law or someone else, as long as they ask for money, I feel disgusted from the bottom of my heart, and I feel that I can give it to you but you can't ask for it, is it that I'm sick inside?
Is it just me or are men in general like this?
My personal point of view is that women, no matter who you married, do not easily reach out, in fact, you do not reach out can get more, you reach out, so that the relationship is no longer reciprocal, the woman may not think so, always feel that the money in their own hands in order to have a sense of security, so to desperately want.
Asking for money is really a big deal, including collecting rent.
My daughter-in-law manages those two houses in Shenzhen, she asked that they must be handed over to her because she has no income, so she wants this rent, and then there is our company to give her 10,000 yuan per month, usually she then asked me to point out how she can earn more than 300,000 yuan a year, I'm not very recommended to manage tenants, because I think she has a bad temper, easy to get angry, may not be angry, but the other person understood in order to lash out, but the other person understood in order to lash out. But the other person understands in order to lash out.
It's not?
The rent wasn't even collected.
At that time, I suggested that she reduce the rent, but she did not.
The result?
They just stopped giving it.
It's not that they won't pay, they don't have the money, so how do they get it?
People's reasons are also very appropriate, isolated in their hometown, did not go back to Shenzhen, such as back to Shenzhen to pay wages and then give, in addition, not necessarily back to Shenzhen, daughter-in-law to the other side of the voice message, ow, I thought with whom to quarrel!
In fact, it is better to learn my that way, you first rent to me, I then return to you two months of rent, and I do so when, at that time, there are still very few people rent-free, just Wanda raised, the tenant also feel warm in the heart.
Now the landlord, you reduce two months for nothing, soon the tenant will ask for half a year's ......
At this trend, half a year is enough!
Last night, chatting with Niu.
The topic of fortune-telling came up.
I said, there is a person fortune-telling is particularly accurate, one year, the drought, this person will come to count when it rains a few villagers wrote a strip, said the day of the rain to open, not long, it rained, the villagers rushed to open the note: today there is rain!
Niu said, this powerful.
I said, so, the villagers ran around to tell, XX village has a fortune teller, especially spiritual.
Niu said, with the stock god is a set.
I said, the stock god must be a master of language, said the words are all ambiguous, how to smack how to feel justified after the fact, is not able to recommend specific stocks, can not predict the specific market.
I sent the screenshot of that charge of 98, rewarded nearly ten thousand people to Niu, see, on the Internet, the most valuable or this kind of article ......
Niu said, this awesome.
I said, you can write one, I'll post one, and it will have the same effect.
Either that, or you talk about the future, what the next few years will look like, how it should be laid out, and what's one advantage of that? That is, the verification is a few years later, the moment can not be judged, and no one will listen to you to layout, have the ability to do this will not come to see your article, the average person holding time will not be more than a year.
Either you talk about the Zen talk about the law, said all the very mysterious things, what the law of nature, a life of two, two born of three, the best thing is that you can not understand their own stuff, you see Li Biao how to seal the God? The stalker said Zen.
People can't read, just say, it's so nice!
Talk about anything.
It is not possible to talk about the trend of the next few weeks, you can not say, the global crash began, A shares will also follow the fall, the results of the A shares hoo hoo went up, when you believe that you go to stop profit are back to scold you.
You can't say that the recent semiconductor is very good, will bring semiconductor bull market.
Results, we all chased high.
So, writing an article is a university question, words can be said in the opposite direction, can be said in the right direction, you can ambiguously say, I said what I said, what did not say.
Fortune-teller, Feng Shui, the core is not in the professional skills.
But in, rather, the art of language.
For example, I am a feng shui master, you invited me to your home to see, I entered your home to see, spent the eye, holy cow, this floor height, this hall, this fish tank, I opened my own eyes, and thought, really good, really good.
But, I'm the master.
If I tell the truth, haven't you invited me for nothing?
I'm going to have to nitpick.
Otherwise it looks like I'm not professional ......
I looked for something that wasn't quite harmonious and blah blah blah.
The master thought, wow, a master is really a master!
The stock market thingy?
No one can predict it, and those who say they can predict it are either crazy or liars, Buffett Bull B? He didn't predict the Nasdaq would be so crazy in 2019 either, look at the just released 2019 annual report, Berkshire's market capitalization per share increase in 2019 was 11.0% while the S&P 500 increased by a whopping 31.5%, Berkshire lost by 20.5 percentage points.
The real bulls generally fail to outperform the index in a major bull market, why?
Because, they are all standard chasing down and killing up, that is, they keep buying when down, keep selling when up, they have their own harvesting rhythm, this harvesting rhythm has been initiated at the time of the initial upturn, and the time of the surge? It has worked its way out, so it tends to miss the peaks.
They seek compound interest, not gambling bets on troughs and peaks.
The "stockbroker" profession will become more and more popular in the future.
Because stockholders are an incremental market, there are 160 million stockholders running in this wave of the epidemic in China. If you think about it this way, these stockholders today are just like people who have fallen in love with gambling and can't quit.
And new people keep coming in.
As long as the people who speculate on the stock market, we have to choose a leading brother, once there is a person called the leading brother, in the blog era is very hot, it seems that because of the construction of the group charges were arrested.
The best way is not to speculate on stocks, only talk about stocks.
Form your own faction.
No matter what the field, as long as you insist on voice, there will be believers, a very simple point, so many fortune-tellers in the countryside, you see which one does not have a rice bowl?
Accurate also have, not allowed also have!
We all want to become a netizen, some people have theories, have a set, but will not write, will not speak.
Cooking dumplings in a teapot.
Can't pour it.
Local there is a little girl, junior high school students, dance dance is very good, fans are also a lot of fans, jitterbug on the video easily thousands of people like, her mother consulted me, is this child can be accomplished in this direction? Is it necessary to find someone to promote it?
I told her the truth.
The girl is a good dancer, locally, kind of.
But, put it on a national scale.
Very average.
After all, there is no dance background, purely amateur hobby, if you really want to make a difference, you should send her out to learn, and it is systematic, learn three years, five years, ten years, eight years, may make some achievements, at least in the jitterbugs will have a lot of fans.
There's a PiaoZhou brother, I don't know if you have any impression?
That's the one who dances to One Cut Plum in the office.
That guy is an average dancer, right?
Looks average.
But, just the way he moves, he looks like a pro, that is, he must have majored in dance, that is to say, there's a certain amount of serendipity in people suddenly becoming popular.
Long-term red?
It must be by strength.
Don't say your daughter is an amateur, how many local dance teachers? Which one doesn't have a jitterbug? Can't catch fire, ordinary people are especially ugly when they're on camera, because the camera makes people wide and fat.
And then there's the distortion of movement.
Those who can be on fire in the jitterbug, dancing.
It's all one in a million horns.
Including those badminton videos on the jitterbug, looking at a clumsy, casually touch out a, are able to sweep half of the province, inside those amateurs, come to Shandong, basically kill all kinds of masters.
The net red is also divided into platforms.
The earliest concept of Netflix is microblogging.
Baqi Kun teacher is to do net red on behalf of the operation, I once asked him a question, is that these net red is really taste or false taste?
He answered, really!
Particularly in the maturity of microblogging, those who can precipitate fans are those with real skills.
In the early stages, it may be that whoever can bounce around is on fire.
Later, it's whoever has the skill, whoever is on fire.
Shake voice, the early stage may say one or two words will be fire, for example, that "crouch, ruthless", to the late stage, that is, the maturity period, the competition must be the real strength, dance, and so on, these are professional and amateur points, the professional is professional, amateur is amateur.
It is important to understand this!
Why?
You see, most people who play Jitterbug put effort into how to promote it.
It doesn't work!
Wine is not afraid of the deep alley, in the Internet era is no longer appropriate, you have the ability, you are willing to show, not fire is impossible, this is just as my son asked me to recognize XX not? I said I don't know, he said that this person in the whole King of Glory is the number one player, the light of the game played hundreds of games, TV are live ......
I said, that should have a lot of money.
He said, spend endless money.
Many children also have the misconception that they just do not have the opportunity, if there is an opportunity, the same can get the e-sports championship, in fact, you think too much, e-sports requires a level of technical and tactical not less than the general sports, and the gap between the level of the amateur and professional is too big.
These kinds of championships have nothing to do with whether or not parents are allowed to play games.
It has to do with, well, talent!
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A, the article is not a chronicle, I am not necessarily me, you are not necessarily you, do not be right!
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