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People say that you must not get divorced until you have to, because once you do, the damage to the woman is huge.
In the universal family, women give much more to the family than men. Some women are devastated after divorce, as if they have lost half of their lives; some women seem to be transformed and given a new lease of life after divorce.
My mom's friend, Auntie Wang, is 52 years old, and some women of this age have become grandmothers, with children and grandchildren enjoying the joys of life.
But Auntie Wang's fate has opened a big joke with her. joke?
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who was divorced.
The reason for the divorce was simple: Auntie Wang's husband had an extramarital affair with a female colleague at his workplace, and his husband was adamant about getting a divorce. Auntie Wang cried her eyes out and tried every possible means to retain her husband's heart, but unfortunately, she failed in the end.
I remember the day my mom and I went to Auntie Wang's house to visit her. Her hair was disheveled, her eye sockets were deep-set, and her face was yellowish, and she wiped tears from her eyes as she cried and cursed her husband's heartlessness. Her face was yellow and waxy, wiping tears from her eyes as she cried and cursed her heartless husband. , living in the look of a whiny woman.
The divorce of a middle-aged woman really can't hurt.
02.
In the TV series "Divorce Lawyer", there is an impressive classic line that says: ? Sometimes you don't know what you did wrong in your marriage, and you're punished in the painful way of divorce. But you shouldn't let yourself fall into prolonged grief, there is no going back, you have to start all over again.?
I'm afraid that the middle-aged woman whose life has instead blossomed all the way after her divorce has to be Guo Jingjing's mother-in-law, Zhu Lingling.
She divorced, but more and more wonderful, met the current considerate husband, the second half of life living a dashing self.
Some people say, she is a rich family, of course she is different from us.
But Zhu Lingling in the media is low-key and often shops at ordinary clothing stores. In addition, even if she remarried, she would still be obliged to attend major events in her original family that required her presence. Her generosity is not for everyone.
She was happy for the rest of her life because she didn't lose herself in her marriage.
03.
Many couples who have spent half their lives divorced actually lost their minds after marriage. Women married, does not mean that your life, your thoughts are to revolve around the family, you should have their own circle of friends, have their own independent thinking, vision is not so narrow.
Recently, when I brushed the Jitterbug, I saw a lot of divorced women showing their photos before and after the divorce. Before the divorce, the vicissitudes of life, after the divorce like a newborn, a delicate face overflowing with confident smile.
This is the best state of a woman after divorce.
When I visited Auntie Wang with my mom a few days ago, her face had changed from the old haze, and she actually put on a delicate light makeup and a warm smile on her face.
Wang said, just divorced that period of time she really can not think, do not understand their own pay half a lifetime of hard work of the family why they came to the divorce this step. She cleaned the house every day, and served her husband and children as best she could, not even going to her favorite square dance.
Her life just keeps revolving around her family and she has completely lost herself. She puts her family first and forgets about herself and the dreams she once had.
Today, Auntie Wang has opened her own fashionable clothing store for middle-aged women. During the day, she is busy looking after the store and doing business, and at night, she goes to the square after work to dance, and she has also met a group of sisters with similar interests and joined a club.
With Auntie Wang's words, living half a lifetime, only after the divorce to understand a truth, people to the middle age, the second half of the best way to live, nothing more than four words, that is? Live your life?
Only live their own, in order to win the respect in the marriage.
Women should remember that the only way to love each other in marriage is to be independent of each other and to have a self in order to work hard to move forward and be worthy of my heart.