About the explanation of "blind date", I always agree with this explanation of Gao Yuanyuan in "Let's Get Married": "Blind date is to put two people who are not too smooth in the road of love, artificially arranged together, to see if there will be a miracle happened. "
Dating is the nightmare of all the older youth, but in order to filial piety, we are always happy to participate in a variety of dating party, my name is Sweetheart, this year 32 years old, just married for 2 years, I'm also a full of older female youth, I and my husband is through the blind date to know, my husband is a general look, the education is a specialized degree, a few years in a large supermarket to do the position of the management, I chose to choose to do with him in the I chose to go with him because his character is relatively mild, and in the event of a calm, let me quite solid, so, in the relationship only six months, on both sides of the parents forced to hold a wedding.
What surprised me is that we married less than half a year, living nearly 30 years of in-laws suddenly decided to divorce, and my husband did not dissuade, and then I heard my husband say, in fact, in-laws that year is also "parents' orders, matchmakers' words" and the combination of the two people's personality is extremely incompatible, the father-in-law is more introspective, not sociable, and the mother-in-law is not good at socializing, and the mother-in-law is not good at socializing. The two men are very different in character, the father-in-law is more introverted, not good at socializing, and the mother-in-law is extroverted and lively, the brain is nervous, so they have been stumbling, if not for the children, they are estimated to have been divorced.
After the divorce, my father-in-law chose to leave the old mansion to my mother-in-law, and he rented a house outside to live, through many times with my mother-in-law, I also feel that my mother-in-law is indeed a little too neurotic, and every day I know that playing cards, playing mahjong or square dancing, and the family's affairs are all no matter what, in the way of sentiment, I did not say anything. Married 1 year later, I am pregnant, my husband decided to let my mother-in-law to take care of me, but my mother-in-law directly refused to say: "She is old, care of the immobility, but she can dance all day square dance, this is like an older person. This husband angry, but after all, is his own mother, he can not say anything, good thing that my reaction to the pregnancy is not big, and the fetus is relatively stable, so, I am alone at home to raise the fetus, my husband is also a leave of absence to go home to take care of me.
October, after I gave birth to my son, my mother-in-law came from her hometown, she looked at her grandson for a while, stayed less than an hour, she had to go, said to participate in a square dance competition, my mother was a little angry, complaining that my mother-in-law was too confused about the importance of the bar, my mother had no choice but to wait for me for a week, but my father's work at home is not enough for him to be busy, and there are still 80-year-old grandmother needs to be cared for, I have no idea what to do. However, my father was too busy to do all the work at home by himself, and with my 80-year-old grandmother in need of care, I let my mother go back. My husband forced my mother-in-law to come for a few days, and she was always accusing me of not being able to feed the baby, and she also said that diapers were a waste of money, and that I was too lazy to wash the diapers, which was in my ears every day, and I was really annoyed, so I quarreled with my mother-in-law, and she hasn't been here since.
My one after the month, a person to pull the child to more than 2 years old, during this period, the mother-in-law close *** less than 5 times, each time to come, I still have to give her good food and drink cooking, she also pointed to say this and that, during this period, the father-in-law came more often, but after all, he can not stay long, each time to come over to help dry some of the heavy work, that day, went back.
Son is 3 years old, mother-in-law suddenly sick, got gastroenteritis, the doctor let a good rest, my husband did not say let me go back to take care of mother-in-law, mother-in-law called me to let me take the child back to his hometown to live a few days, take care of her for a period of time, I was to the mother-in-law back to the top: the child grew up so big did not go back to the fear that he was not used to the soil and water, you point takeout to eat it, the mother-in-law reluctantly said: "I'm suffering from gastroenteritis, the doctor told me to eat some liquid food, how can I eat outside." After listening to her words, I wanted to laugh, I was doing months, how not see you come over to take care of a little, now you want to come to you have a daughter-in-law, no matter what she said, I never went back, and my husband did not complain about me. In the end, it was the father-in-law who came home to take care of his mother-in-law, taking into account the many years of conjugal love.
Sentiments: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, it should have been in the daughter-in-law's most difficult time, the mother-in-law did not choose to stand by and do nothing, but try to support, when the mother-in-law needs to take care of, the daughter-in-law will also do their best to serve, and the text of the mother-in-law did not have a bit of mother-in-law's look, when she needs to take care of the time but also want to daughter-in-law to serve, this is what the logic of daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law is not a daughter, and has no responsibility to take care of you, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is more like making friends, only each other. It's more like making friends, only with each other there is a love affair, it will become more pro!