When I was a kid, my grandmother and I would go to the market, and every time we would run into a strange old man - he had an exclusive driver. And this so-called "exclusive driver" is not as we usually understand the kind of money to hire, but ...... The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to get it done.
When I was a child, the village to the bazaar must pass through the road traffic is very inconvenient, such as the grandmother's generation of old people will not ride a bicycle, you have to walk at least one hour to catch a set, so there is nothing that must be done are generally not too willing to go. The driver seized this opportunity, as early as the city has not yet appeared in the bus, the village to the market "full-time driver" appeared, at first only two full-time car.
While the rural population is small, but many elderly people do not know how to ride a bicycle, full-time car charges are not high, but also contracted pick-up and drop-off services, so it is still a very lucrative career. But the strange thing is, obviously there are two full-time car, but ...... that strange old man only sit on the one that is low, emmmmm ...... the so-called low, in fact, just I think the sound of his car is louder.
Later my grandmother asked that strange old man, why every time I would rather wait are not sitting in another car, make it seem as if another car offended you. But the weird old man said: "Not ah, that driver is good, once I forgot to bring money, walking in the middle of the day, hot, people free to drive me home ah, meal did not invite people to eat a meal on the go."
I think this is the so-called "a thousand gold can't buy me willing" and "to the person not to the thing" epitomized it, high configuration of the full-time car and then good, but the strange old man is always reluctant to let others earn money, even if it's not much, but also to be left to the one that has helped He has to leave it to the person who has helped him. And for many people, they can get to the fair on the good, as for the car is not much difference, if you have to choose, that is certainly still a high-powered full-time car to sit in some comfortable well.
In fact, I appreciate more like those and the strange old man has the same spirit of the people, and always feel that those who do not treat people too rational, lost some kind of warmth between people, to put it plainly: I think they do not know what is called gratitude, and even take the help of others as a matter of course. On the contrary, those who were indifferent to him as friends, perhaps for their own interests, or perhaps the brain unintentionally into the water.
I never agree that there is a sense of "unawareness", maybe today you buy milk tea than others to sell a large cup, you think you earn, but others use milk, you buy is the punch. So many things can not just look at the surface, but to feel with the heart.