During the intermission, a young man was suddenly heard not far away calling loudly to the venue's staff. Complaining that someone in the row behind him had been eating non-stop during the first half of the show and making noises playing with his cell phone.
A young female staff member walked up and politely informed the person being complained about that he should not eat in the venue. It was then that I could see that the complainee was an elderly male with a female sitting next to him who looked to be his partner.
I could only hear him defiantly arguing, "How am I affecting you, I'm eating mine, I have low blood sugar." After that, the two men talked back and forth in a high voice for a while, and calmed down under the persuasion of the staff.
The next day was Sunday. I went out to sit on the bus, in front of which happened to be sitting again an elderly man. Standing beside him was a young woman who looked like his daughter.
When the bus stopped and started after one stop, a young man who was trying to pass by the lady bumped into her due to the inertia of the bus. The woman had not yet spoken, the old man blurted out a sentence is "you rush what Niemao". Strong accent, so that the words more and more seem aggressive. A sentence to the man said froze, pause for a long time before he said, "How do you say it, the hand is not steady, how to call what is urgent. The young lady quickly said "all right, all right", only to calm the eye to see a touch of argument.
By these two old people, I can not help but think of a while ago because smoking in the elevator was discouraged by the death of the incident. The person involved in the incident was also an old man.
I can't help but wonder what's wrong with these old people. They do not abide by the rules in the first place, but also strong words, and even outbursts, but often hear these people in the complaining young people, this is not good, that is not right, do not know respect for the elderly. I don't know, if you want others to respect you, first you have to self-respect and self-esteem.
Just like the old man who ate and played with his cell phone in the theater. When entering the theater, the ticket checker repeatedly told each entrant, "Please do not eat or drink". When entering the performance hall, the staff at the entrance once again faced every entrant and said tirelessly, "Please turn off or mute your cell phone, don't take pictures, and don't record." For people who know what they're doing and are sensible, it's only right that they follow these rules, so how could they have to do the opposite?
Really low blood sugar committed, you can first out to solve. The show started at 7:30pm, shortly after dinner. If you know you have low blood sugar, why don't you take precautions earlier, but you don't have to follow the rules?
Just like the square dancers who have been criticized by everyone, I dance my dance, and you have nothing to do with it, and you can't help it if it shakes the clouds.
Just like the old man on the bus. In the face of a little bit of a small thing is full of aggression, do not know how to sympathize with the feelings of others, the exit is to accuse.
Just like the old man who died because he smoked in the elevator. As a heart patient, he should know clearly that smoking is the greatest harm to himself, but he doesn't know how to respect himself; instead, he smokes in the elevator, which is explicitly forbidden, and he doesn't know how to respect others. When others pointed out his faults, he did not know how to reflect on himself, but instead he tried to put up a lot of sophistry. Being a heart patient, he should know better the consequences of being agitated, but he did not know how to control his emotions. Instead, he relied on his old age and refused to forgive himself, resulting in his agitation to the extent of taking his own life. This is perhaps the most painful price to pay for not knowing self-love and respect for others.
In the press interview after the first trial, I saw the old man's family justifiably said: he is an old man, is to make some mistakes, but not to be killed.
This sentence, feel so familiar. "He is still a child, you and his general knowledge what". Perhaps it is this mindset of shirking responsibility that allows society to tolerate too much unruly, unaware of self-love and respect for others' behavior. The family members of these people, but also condone these behaviors are not punished. The final result, for their own misbehavior to pay the bill must be their own.
This is why I always use the word "self-inflicted" to remind myself.
That's why I always use the word "self-inflicted" to remind myself, because I have to suffer the consequences of what I do.
The result of the second trial was in favor of the man who tried to stop him from smoking, which was praised by many netizens, and even called a great relief. Such a verdict, at least, can make me more justified to stop those unruly behavior in public **** occasion.
Thinking back to a short while ago, stopping an old man on a bus from turning the semiconductor on too loud. Now, there is a legal basis, the support of the netizens, I am more at ease.